[eta: As of 2025, this author's name is Lee Knox Ostertag and his pronouns are he/him. The book was published under his former name Molly Knox Ostertag.]

In Aster's magical village, all girls grow up to be witches and all boys grow up to be shapeshifters. This is a big problem for Aster, who feels drawn to witchcraft and has been secretly practicing spells that only girls are supposed to know, much to his parents' chagrin. But when some of the boys are captured by a monster in the woods, Aster must use his unconventional magic to save them, whether his parents approve or not.
I had mixed feelings about this book. The main issue I had with it is that although the idea seems to be that Aster is a gender-nonconforming boy and the message is that it's okay for boys to do "girl" things... Aster reads really, really strongly as a trans girl to me. It's not just the magic stuff, it's everything about the character. This made it feel jarring when Aster is still seen as a boy even after the happy ending when the parents (naturally) learn their lesson about harmfully rigid gender roles. But there are two more books in the series, so maybe there turns out to be more to it?

In Aster's magical village, all girls grow up to be witches and all boys grow up to be shapeshifters. This is a big problem for Aster, who feels drawn to witchcraft and has been secretly practicing spells that only girls are supposed to know, much to his parents' chagrin. But when some of the boys are captured by a monster in the woods, Aster must use his unconventional magic to save them, whether his parents approve or not.
I had mixed feelings about this book. The main issue I had with it is that although the idea seems to be that Aster is a gender-nonconforming boy and the message is that it's okay for boys to do "girl" things... Aster reads really, really strongly as a trans girl to me. It's not just the magic stuff, it's everything about the character. This made it feel jarring when Aster is still seen as a boy even after the happy ending when the parents (naturally) learn their lesson about harmfully rigid gender roles. But there are two more books in the series, so maybe there turns out to be more to it?
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Date: 15 Jun 2023 03:47 pm (UTC)I read him as a cis boy who wanted to be a witch, not a shape shifter
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Date: 16 Jun 2023 08:46 am (UTC)I didn't read him as trans at all, and while I wouldn't dislike a story about a trans girl who wants to be a witch rather than a shapeshifter, I also really like the story it is, about it being okay for a boy to be a witch.
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Date: 16 Jun 2023 09:03 am (UTC)Agree!
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Date: 31 Oct 2025 06:06 pm (UTC)Yeah, the intended coding is around gender non-conformity, not being trans, and this carries through in the next books -- plus while it's a little subtle in this one, Aster's extended family includes a couple members who are gender-nonconforming in other ways.
I read the first two with Eaglet a couple times through, back when bedtime still involved reading aloud, but after the third book, they were no longer interested in the story, which is interesting as I thought that one finally got a grip on the metaphor. I think though they were a bit annoyed at how a certain relationship evolved lol
I assume you know that Ostertag is married to N.D. Stevenson, yes?
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Date: 2 Nov 2025 04:07 pm (UTC)I did indeed know that Ostertag and Stevenson were married, and--well, I was about to say something about how a lot of us in the queer community (and especially in the lesbian-adjacent community) have had people in our lives who are "gender nonconforming" but totally not trans until they suddenly actually are trans, and then a lot of things make more sense when you see them through a truer lens... But I had not actually been updated on the fact that Ostertag now identifies as a trans man too, so yeah, there you go. It does not surprise me at all that a trans person who hadn't yet realized he was trans wrote this book, and that its presentation of a "totally not trans, just gender nonconforming" character seemed a bit askew to a reader who was trans and knew it.
(As an aside, I'm way overdue for a She-Ra rewatch. What a great show.)
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Date: 2 Nov 2025 06:28 pm (UTC)Ah -- I knew there was some sort of update on Ostertag (thanks to Stevenson's comics) but not that it's he is he. I can see that reaction, based on that.
(I'm overdue myself.)