June Something - days 5 and 6
Jun. 7th, 2021 01:50 pmMy entry to fandom - where I became aware of fandom as a thing and started writing as well as reading - was Twilight. It had its own very idiosyncratic fansite with mods who betaed your fics whether you wanted them to or not, and the dynamics of the site, maybe of the fandom, were a bit weird, in retrospect. Rather adolescent, which is probably to be expected, although there were a lot of "cougar" fans, and there were lots of WIPs, which was where I learned to avoid WIPs rather than getting burned by abandoned cliff-hangers. It was largely het at first, but a small contingent of slash writers developed, largely for Edward/Jasper, and I discovered slash writing there, and fell into it. It's no surprise that the initial fic that "Fifty Shades of Gray" was based on was in Twilight - one of those weekly-posting WIPs that I read at the time. It was only later when SGA fandom had educated me about "safe, sane and consensual" BDSM that I realised how messed up that fic had been, but the Twilight fandom as a whole was more juvenile and politically dodgy, apart from Minisinoo, the first really good writer I encountered who was mainly there for Jacob, as a Native American writer.
My latest obsession isn't new, as after discovering LJ and wandering through Potterverse after Twilight, I got swallowed up by SGA and it's still my main fandom. I came into SGA just after canon ended, when the fandom had settled a bit, and the culture was different, with very few long, unfolding WIPs and a predominantly slash fandom, very McShep-dominated at first. SGA fandom has broadened and explored many other pairings across the years, and so have I, with side-trips off into Sherlock, The Losers, Captain America, etc etc. SGA, and especially McShep, is comfortable, and like its stars, it feels like a safe, grown-up fandom that's fundamentally friendly and not beset by controversy, shipping wars, or politics, or not these days.
Day 6: What's a fandom that you wish had a bigger following?
I tried Captain America fandom at the height of its rise after Winter Soldier came out, but the hugeness of the fandom, and the many very young writers in the ginormous challenges was a bit difficult. So I'm not fond of juggernaut fandoms when they're in juggernaut phase and wouldn't wish that on a favourite fandom. I wish The Losers fandom was still active, as I miss it and loved those characters. And it'd be nice for SGA to be a bit bigger and more active, with more stories to be read, but there's a lot to be said for small post-canon fandoms that stubbornly persist like icebergs - not so much activity above the water, but loads of wonderful stuff below the surface, stored in the AO3 and on Wayback.
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Date: 2021-06-07 11:02 am (UTC)Wow. *boggles*
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Date: 2021-06-07 01:10 pm (UTC)Excuse me, how rude!!!
The Twilight fandom sounds a lot like the HP fandom used to be. It's interesting because the people who grew up with HP are still writing fics, so the fandom age is all over the place now, but back in the day it was very juvenile. This isn't as much of an insult as it might seem, but it's nice to have a little realism in fics these days.
Also, I read a handful of kinkier paragraphs from 50 Shades on a forum and...Jesus, she needs to get out of that relationship ASAP. That's not BDSM, it's abuse.
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Date: 2021-06-07 06:11 pm (UTC)*laughs until I cry* I have had so many arguments with people about this very truth (until I made myself stop).
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Date: 2021-06-07 07:23 pm (UTC)The thing is, whenever you try to explain it to people they're like "You just don't like BDSM".
Like, no, I like it just fine. I'm just experienced enough to know that the fundamental basis for it is TRUST. If you can't trust your partner then you're inherently unsafe. There's a difference between playing with power dynamics and having an unbalanced level of power in your relationship.
50 Shades had the potential to let people explore something that they might find arousing or interesting or sexy. Instead it reaffirms the BS that people (particularly women) have to put up with on a daily basis in their relationships, whether romantic or not.
Sigh.
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Date: 2021-06-07 08:01 pm (UTC)Don't I hear you. And being told I don't like / don't know about BDSM by someone who wouldn't know a safeword if it bit them and wasn't born when I first started exploring... if my blood pressure ever gets too low I know where to go! laughs bitterly and fistbumps you
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Date: 2021-06-07 08:05 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2021-06-07 04:27 pm (UTC)Agreed on the MCU fandom. There's just too much going on there and new fics are quickly buried and lost. I don't write a ton for that fandom, but I always feel a little like I'm sneaking through the back door when I drop a fic. Like I don't belong there.