Ever since I started reading and listening to Camille Paglia, I became fascinated by the idea that many families, even deeply traditional ones, are emotionally organized around women. The power they exercise — what Paglia calls Chthonic — is almost intangible, invisible, difficult to formalize, yet omnipresent and unquestionable inside the household itself. Certain strands of modern feminism sometimes struggle to grasp this kind of influence because it does not always manifest through explicit authority, public status, or direct confrontation.…