Post-wedding report
Mar. 17th, 2011 01:39 pmFirst of all, thanks to everyone who took my To Ribbon or Not Ribbon poll. I took your advice and went with the ribbon as a finisher on the favor boxes. And we only had about 8 or 10 left! I was afraid we'd be eating M&Ms for the next 6 months. Which we totally could, regardless. : )
The wedding and the reception went off without a hitch. No parking problems, no dress disasters, no huge buffet lines. I can't explain what it feels like to watch your male child dressed up in a tux and hold hands with someone and pledge to be together forever. I didn't cry, which kinda surprised me. I just had this massive smile of joy on my face that, I kid you not, didn't go away for three hours. It was right up there with giving birth to him -- I'll never forget it.
There were a couple of things, though.
1. I bought these shoes to wear with my dress and I was going to bring these flats in black to wear at the reception. But, I know they don't look like it but those heels were so damn high, I was walking very precariously and carefully, so much so that I decided I was going to look like an idiot hobbling down the path to our seats (the wedding was outside). I ended up wearing the flats, even though they weren't really appropriate for the ceremony or my dress. I was comfortable, though and didn't fall once!
2. The wedding cake was partially inedible. It was made of a creme brulee fondant and well, I didn't know this beforehand but fondant is like icing on steroids. It's thick and tough and tastes like flavored plastic. It was terrible. The cake itself was nice, moist and tasty but you literally had to "skin" the fondant off the cake before you could eat it. On the other hand, the groom's cake was chocolate buttercream and was reportedly delicious. I don't know - it went so fast, I didn't even get a piece.
So in conclusion, just say no to fondant and heels. Yes to buttercream and flats.
The wedding and the reception went off without a hitch. No parking problems, no dress disasters, no huge buffet lines. I can't explain what it feels like to watch your male child dressed up in a tux and hold hands with someone and pledge to be together forever. I didn't cry, which kinda surprised me. I just had this massive smile of joy on my face that, I kid you not, didn't go away for three hours. It was right up there with giving birth to him -- I'll never forget it.
There were a couple of things, though.
1. I bought these shoes to wear with my dress and I was going to bring these flats in black to wear at the reception. But, I know they don't look like it but those heels were so damn high, I was walking very precariously and carefully, so much so that I decided I was going to look like an idiot hobbling down the path to our seats (the wedding was outside). I ended up wearing the flats, even though they weren't really appropriate for the ceremony or my dress. I was comfortable, though and didn't fall once!
2. The wedding cake was partially inedible. It was made of a creme brulee fondant and well, I didn't know this beforehand but fondant is like icing on steroids. It's thick and tough and tastes like flavored plastic. It was terrible. The cake itself was nice, moist and tasty but you literally had to "skin" the fondant off the cake before you could eat it. On the other hand, the groom's cake was chocolate buttercream and was reportedly delicious. I don't know - it went so fast, I didn't even get a piece.
So in conclusion, just say no to fondant and heels. Yes to buttercream and flats.
no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 06:49 pm (UTC)I did this last October and can attest to the inexplicability AND to the Joy!!
So glad everything went well. \0/
no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 06:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 06:51 pm (UTC)&hearts &hearts &hearts &hearts &hearts
no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 06:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 06:58 pm (UTC)And personally, I think wedding cakes are mostly supposed to be pretty. The groom's cake always tastes better. (grin)
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:17 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 07:14 pm (UTC)congrats again on your son's wedding!!!
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:18 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 07:27 pm (UTC)And yay for saying 'the heck with it' and wearing the comfy shoes! :D
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:19 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 07:51 pm (UTC)And I couldn't agree more with you on the fondant. And the comfy shoes. Otherwise, your smile of joy might have been tinged with pain.
*hugs*
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 07:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 08:52 pm (UTC)And boy, do I like those shoes. Maybe I'll get a pair.
I hope this means welcome back to fandom!
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 08:55 pm (UTC)*g*
This is all ahead of me.... for now the very thought scares me to death. I can't imagine any other woman in my son's life (he's only 7) - but this day will come....sooner than I may expect it to come....
I'm glad everything went well. Apart from the cake maybe :) I'm all for flats, my dear. Comfort over fashion - always! :)
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 09:27 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 10:22 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:15 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 10:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:15 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 11:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-17 11:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:13 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 12:27 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:13 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 01:43 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:12 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 01:45 am (UTC)Congratulations on everything going so well. I can see your smile from here. ♥
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 03:37 am (UTC)YES! Whenever I see these fancy cakes on the shows, I immediately think they are total crap when they use fondant. The point of cake is to be tasty. It can be tasty and look pretty with someone who knows what they are doing. If someone just wants something to look neat, I think they should use fondant over some cardboard to have their prettiness and then pull out a cake from below that actually tastes good, icing and all. :)
Congrats on everything going off so well!
no subject
Date: 2011-03-18 04:10 am (UTC)