Intellectually I know the answer to this, healing ministry & all that, but sheesh I'm tired of dealing with them. I think I paid my dues during the first 27 years of my life & am entitled to just stop now. Well, maybe soon . . .
The inspiration for that mini-rant is that when I made my follow-up appointment with Dr. Pusher the little gal who made it for me, instead of entering my name on the appointment card, wrote "Mrs" and then my last name. That didn't bug me at first, even though I've never seen that before even when I was married, but over the next few days it really got under my skin. So today when I called to cancel the appointment & suggest Dr. Pusher be more forthright with his patients when prescribing the hard drugs, I brought it up. I almost didn't, the lady on the line was probably older than my mom & kept either forgetting what I said the moment after I said it or was hard of hearing. To make a long story a little shorter, here's how it went:
Me: There was nothing in my paperwork that suggested I was married and yet the gal who made my appointment entered Mrs. [C] instead of my name on the appointment card.
She (interrupting): That was presumptuous.
Me: Yes, and inappropriate. It may be worth bringing up in a staff meeting. She couldn't know whether I was legally barred from marrying the person to whom I'm committed. In that case it would be inappropriate and also insulting, which I'm sure was not her intent.
(Yes, I'm a bit of a prig when I'm trying to broach a volatile subject and not actually BE volitile.)
She: Okay. Thank you. Her 'thank you' was much chillier than the rest of the conversation, which had just been a little vague . . . I was very nice and matter of fact, but I don't think I created a new ally. Not that I think I had a shot in the first place with someone who had to ask me four times how to spell my last name (which ONLY HAS FOUR LETTERS), but a different reaction would've been nicer. I could just see her wiping all my previous comments to the doctor from her screen. But, that's less than charitable, so now I'm wiping that image from my mind.
I felt pretty good about this afterward. It's not really like me to do this kind of thing, but maybe it's like me now. We'll see. Or not. I'm never going back to Dr. Pusher so I'll probably never know what, if any, impact that had.
In other news, SoyNuts are good. Thanks
sulien ! And tonight I cooked couscous with zucchini & broccoli from scratch so the only sodium besides what's naturally occurring was in the parmesan cheese I sprinkled overtop. And it was yummy.
Also, to everyone who has anything to do with the writing on
Game of Thrones: I love you! Pleasepleaseplease teach others to do what you do. Or at least live longlong lives so I can be entertained. Because it's all about me. And Aidan Gillen. Gawd I love that guy (even when he's not Stuart Alan Jones :)). Nobody does what he's doing there quite like him. And that's about all I can say without spoilers except
OMFG, this week's ep!!!!
This entry was originally posted at http://www.dreamwidth.org/12345.html. Please comment either here or there.