by the way , your f/o would never let you feel lonely .

for yumeshippers who often feel alone , left out , ignored , or anything of the sort . ♡

spent nights in your room crying alone with nobody to comfort you ? those nights dont happen anymore <3 your f/o sits besides you on the floor , holding you and letting you cry. they'll whisper sweet words to you and rub your back in small circles. theyll sit and listen and hold your hand as they do so. your sadness isn't invisible anymore , you dont need to hide it or feel lonely. they're there to cheer you up , always.

ever found yourself sitting alone at lunch, at an event, or anything else ? your f/o immediately finds you and starts talking to you excitedly. they sit down next to you and suddenly you dont feel like youre in a bubble. they'll eat lunch with you , or dance with you , or talk with you , or whatever else for as long as they can. they love your presence and its easy to tell they want to be with you in that moment

do you get pushed out of circles of people, ignored in convos, etc ? your f/o notices when it happens. maybe you've gone off to sit against a wall, understanding when you're not wanted. they notice you sitting alone and they'll come find you. maybe they notice how the circle slowly encloses and how you're pushed out , or how you've slowly gone quiet. they make a point to include you, asking you your thoughts and encouraging you to keep saying what you were saying before. no matter what , they're more interested in talking to you than anyone else in the room. you're not a discarded friend to them , you're someone they adore and want to hear more from.

ever been part of a friend group but not IN one , feeling like you dont belong or you're just the floater friend ? well, your f/o never makes you feel like that. with them, you're an integral part of the group. whether its just the two of you, or many people, they notice when you're gone, when you're off, when you're quiet. you're important in their group, you're wanted there. you're not just someone who's fun sometimes to them , you are a core part of the friend group and they will always choose you first.

if you have a group project , your f/o seeks you out in the room first. when your teacher announces that you get to choose your partners, they silently give you a look that says "me and you ?" , and they mean it. when youre able to go choose your partners, they instantly run to your desk. no more hesitantly asking groups if you can join , no more pairing up with the kids who look at you weird , no more feeling like a sore thumb in the project. they're choosing you first for every single thing. you work together like equals, and they value your opinion. it's not awkward anymore with them.

your f/o always seeks you out in a room. they'll always choose you first for everything. you'll always have a best friend, a partner, someone to sit with, someone to talk to, someone who cares. youre not alone anymore and they make sure of that. no more long nights crying yourself to sleep. no more wishing you had real friends. no more feeling left out of groups. no more awkward conversations, or deflated silences, or sentences that trail off. they're here , they're listening, and they care. you are not alone anymore ♡

shadow milk doubles , proship/darkship/adjacent dni ! ! your f/o loves you so much and always has you on their mind ゚+. ♡゚(´▽`人)

This one is for my self shippers/yumes who are really introverted, have social anxiety, struggle with social cues, or have always felt like an outcast in social situations:

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If you've ever felt invisible, your f/o is the first person to pick you out in the crowd. They look at you. They look for you. They're the first person to notice when your mood changes and the first person to notice when you're overwhelmed. They notice when you suddenly disappear from a social setting because they care about you, even when you feel like nobody else does. They'll speak up for you when you can't because you deserve to be heard without having to beg for someone to listen to you. Your f/o will always make sure that you're never talked over, ignored or dismissed. Because your f/o wants you to know that you're not alone, even when you feel isolated from others.

Don't ever worry about feeling small, unimportant, or unseen. Because you shine in their eyes. You shine so brightly that your absence is immediately noticeable to them.

You are never alone, because your f/o loves and values you more than you'll ever know <3

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pro/com/darkship DNI.

You’re stressed. Whatever’s causing your stress, F/O(s) can see it. They’re doing their absolute best to help you keep this situation under control. Be it a pet’s failing health or a family member resorting to abusive tendencies, or perhaps something else, F/O(s) understand and care. They’re here for you.

i know that there will be a lot of pride month posts going around right now, and that this one may be left of field but:

for every selfshipper who is still in the closet

for every selfshipper who doesn’t know if they’ll ever be able to come out of the closet

for every selfshipper who is scared

for every selfshipper who was not accepted by those around them

for every selfshipper who isn’t out even to the queer people in their lives

for every selfshipper who only gets to be themselves with their f/o

for every selfshipper who does not know who they are yet

for every selfshipper who many struggle during pride month and feel guilty for such

for every selfshipper who does not feel seen even right now

for every selfshipper who is only out on the internet

for every selfshipper who is only out to the close people in their lives

for every selfshipper who needs to hear it this pride:

your f/o loves you as you are.

i love you as you are.

you deserve sunshine.

we deserve sunshine.

you are still queer, for rainbows still exist even when the weather doesn’t allow them to be seen. dms are open always, but especially at this time 🩷

💭 yumeshipping has made me so much more creative and inspired. What do you mean there’s no official merch of my F/O? Guess I will have to learn some new skills and make it!!! They are truly my muse ❤️

friendly reminder that:

♡ if you have one and only f/o, they love you so much

♡ if you have one main f/o, but a few others you don't mention much, they all love you so much

♡ if you have multiple main f/os, they all love you so much

if you have a long list of f/os you alternate between, they all love you so much

♡ if you only have platonic and/or familial f/os, they all love you so much

your worth in the community isn't determined about how many/few loves you have, it's about the fact that we love at all in the way we do <3 be kind to one another ^__^

✶﹕imagine﹒﹒

for yume/selfshippers who feel invisible, undervalued, underappreciated, etc . if you feel like you and your achievements go by without a second thought, this is for you ♡

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your f/o sees your achievements. even if its just something like a good grade on a test you were scared of failing, they see it. they see you. they'll yell with joy and jump around with you and hug you and tell you a thousand words of how proud they are. they buy you a cake for the occassion, with a message celebrating what you did. awards, graduation, promotions, events, etc. they see it all. they know how hard you work and they'll celebrate it just as much as you need them to

they see the work you do. whether its art, music, writing, household chores, your job, etc, they see you !!! you put so much labor into it and they love how hard you work. they'll celebrate when you get something done, treat you to a snack or something yummy. they were there as you put your sweat and blood in, and theyre here at the finish line with you.

if you make art, theyre so incredibly happy to see it. they love watching your process and ask you what youre going to create next. when you finish a piece, they get super excited and start asking you about all the details. they point out the colors you use, the line work you do, the way it all blends together beautifully. they love your artwork and are always supporting your next project

when you talk about something exciting but nobody listens, your f/o picks up the conversation again. they ask you to finish your sentence. they listen intently, and respond with questions that make you even more excited about the topic. no matter how silly or little it may seem, they take every word you say as if its the most important thing in the world. they love hearing you talk and they never want you to dull your voice

whenever you feel alone in a room full of people, your f/o manages to find you. when you're standing against the wall and about to slink out the door, they suddenly take your hand and pull you to them. their eyes light up as they see your face, and they start talking to you as if youre the most interesting person ever. maybe they drag you to their friends, who welcome you and make you feel like you belong. suddenly, youre not alone anymore. somebody wants you there. somebody cares.

when you're feeling upset, your f/o notices. they see the way your eyes fall to the floor, how you're less talkative. they notice when something goes wrong and they care about it. they ask you whats bothering you, offer to listen and give comfort. they make time for your issues because how you feel is important too. even if its just as silly as your favorite pen dying, they still care and still want to make sure you're okay.

your f/o SEES you. every part of you. your joy, your sadness, your work, your achievements, your hobbies, everything. they see it and they care. with them, you'll never feel like glass again. youre no longer invisible. youre no longer on the sidelines. they see you. they love you. they care about you. you are so incredibly important and they make sure to remind you of that.

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hii everyone , made this as a comfort post because i apparently got an art award for graduation and didnt know because the mail invite was never opened. i feel kind of invisible right now so i wanted to channel that into something other people could find comfort in . im gonna be making some pride posts super soon , if you have suggestions feel free to send them to my asks :)

shadow milk doubles, pro/darkship dni. remember that your f/o loves you more than anything and they see you for everything you are ♡ you are loved, you are wanted

Shoutout to selfshippers who do self-shipping for fun! Keep doing what you create!

Shoutout to selfshippers who do self-shipping as creative boost! Your creations are amazing!

Shoutout to selfshippers who do self-shipping for comfort! Your f/o says that you'll be alright.

Shoutout to selfshippers who don't take their selfships seriously! Go wild with your imaginations XD

Shoutout to selfshippers who take their selfships seriously! Keep fighting and don't let hate come to you.

Shoutout to selfshippers who know that their f/o is their real lover or spouse! You and your f/o are canon!

You, guys are amazing. Selfshipping is the best, you and your f/o are canon <3

proship/darkship dni!

divider credits: @sisterlucifergraphics