reblog if you wanna get your f/os in your dreams....pleases......one dream....
Imperfect selfship affirmations
PS: Everyone is allowed to selfship in whatever way they want!! For selfshippers that feel like many of the posts you see are unrealistic and don’t reflect you and your F/O’s relationship, here are some honest and nuanced messages.
“Your F/O would never get angry with you.” -> When your F/O gets mad, they have a special tone reserved only for you. It holds you gently even when it’s firm, and maintains control without sacrificing honesty. The depth of their affection for you is evident in so many ways, including the way they approach conflict with you. Even when the feelings might be negative, you can always see the love attached to them.
“Your F/O would never think you’re weird.” -> Your F/O LOVES how weird you are!! Your uniqueness is what draws them to you, and sets you apart from the sea of people they could have chosen. Whether or not your quirks get on their nerves sometimes is insignificant; they’re just so happy to have them all memorized.
“Your F/O would never overstep your boundaries!” -> Your F/O watches you and listens to you closely. Even if they’re not perfect, they notice small changes within you and care about you—even if it means adapting to things they’re not used to doing. They intend to keep learning more about you for the rest of their life, and there’s no sign of them ever getting bored. They always repair things with you, and this will never ever change.
“Your F/O would never feel put out by you.” -> You are worth the effort. Every single time. Even when the tasks themselves feel burdensome, you are always worth the effort it takes to help you and take care of you. It is paid back tenfold every time they get to see you joyful and healthy. [Disabled self shippers I am looking at you!]
Happy selfshippjng guys and remember your F/O loves you!
100 positive selfship drawing prompts
Feel free to roll to a random number and draw whatever it is comes out. Also warning for this is a REALLY long post.
Imagine being your f/o's soulmate..
Oh, no. Wait.
You already are <3
mm.....your f/os helping you sleep by humming your favorite song and stroking your hair gently.... theyll continue to do it until you manage to fall asleep, willing to lose sleep if it means that you get the rest and recharge you deserve...
by the way , your f/o would never let you feel lonely .
for yumeshippers who often feel alone , left out , ignored , or anything of the sort . ♡
spent nights in your room crying alone with nobody to comfort you ? those nights dont happen anymore <3 your f/o sits besides you on the floor , holding you and letting you cry. they'll whisper sweet words to you and rub your back in small circles. theyll sit and listen and hold your hand as they do so. your sadness isn't invisible anymore , you dont need to hide it or feel lonely. they're there to cheer you up , always.
ever found yourself sitting alone at lunch, at an event, or anything else ? your f/o immediately finds you and starts talking to you excitedly. they sit down next to you and suddenly you dont feel like youre in a bubble. they'll eat lunch with you , or dance with you , or talk with you , or whatever else for as long as they can. they love your presence and its easy to tell they want to be with you in that moment
do you get pushed out of circles of people, ignored in convos, etc ? your f/o notices when it happens. maybe you've gone off to sit against a wall, understanding when you're not wanted. they notice you sitting alone and they'll come find you. maybe they notice how the circle slowly encloses and how you're pushed out , or how you've slowly gone quiet. they make a point to include you, asking you your thoughts and encouraging you to keep saying what you were saying before. no matter what , they're more interested in talking to you than anyone else in the room. you're not a discarded friend to them , you're someone they adore and want to hear more from.
ever been part of a friend group but not IN one , feeling like you dont belong or you're just the floater friend ? well, your f/o never makes you feel like that. with them, you're an integral part of the group. whether its just the two of you, or many people, they notice when you're gone, when you're off, when you're quiet. you're important in their group, you're wanted there. you're not just someone who's fun sometimes to them , you are a core part of the friend group and they will always choose you first.
if you have a group project , your f/o seeks you out in the room first. when your teacher announces that you get to choose your partners, they silently give you a look that says "me and you ?" , and they mean it. when youre able to go choose your partners, they instantly run to your desk. no more hesitantly asking groups if you can join , no more pairing up with the kids who look at you weird , no more feeling like a sore thumb in the project. they're choosing you first for every single thing. you work together like equals, and they value your opinion. it's not awkward anymore with them.
your f/o always seeks you out in a room. they'll always choose you first for everything. you'll always have a best friend, a partner, someone to sit with, someone to talk to, someone who cares. youre not alone anymore and they make sure of that. no more long nights crying yourself to sleep. no more wishing you had real friends. no more feeling left out of groups. no more awkward conversations, or deflated silences, or sentences that trail off. they're here , they're listening, and they care. you are not alone anymore ♡
shadow milk doubles , proship/darkship/adjacent dni ! ! your f/o loves you so much and always has you on their mind ゚+. ♡゚(´▽`人)
a reminder to fellow selfshippers that it's okay to be protective over your interpretation of your f/o
you're allowed to dislike other people's interpretations of them
you're allowed to disagree with the popular headcanons that get called "basically canon"
you're allowed to prefer your version of your f/o over everyone else's
you know your f/o in a way that no one else does, and that's really special <3
[pro/comship DNI]
imagine ur f/o caring for your favorite plushie. giving it the most comfy space in your bed, tucking it in, picking it up when it fell off. imagine them gently washing it for u and restuffing it and sewing it when it needs fixing <3 and they treat it with as much love as you would and maybe they give it a smooch on the top of its head or something close to it when they're done caring for it


