Day 1

In your own space, talk about your Happy Place—the things that give you joy, calms you or keeps you sane.


When in doubt, I go for a walk. My standard walk is two miles down the river and two miles back again; my slightly extended walk crosses the river and comes back on the other bank. Sometimes I do longer walks. Very occasionally I go on holiday and do extremely long walks.

It's great. Fresh air. Space. Movement of the body. Plants, birds, dogs, human beings. Water. Sky.

It goes some way towards getting me out of my head. It gives me time and space to work things through, and I very often come home from a walk knowing exactly what I should do next.
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( Dec. 12th, 2018 09:51 pm)
Hello new people! I'm [personal profile] shewhostaples, or Staps.

I have been on Dreamwidth since 2009; before that I was on Livejournal (now deleted). I'm on various other places on the internet under my given name. I occasionally conflate the two identities under access lock, but never outside it. I check my reading list several times a day, comment when I feel I have something interesting to say, and post anything from twice a day (very rare) to once a month (also quite rare). An average would be once or twice a week.

I am married to and live with [personal profile] countertony in Cambridge, UK.

I hang around in various rare fandoms, most of them books of a vaguely sensationalist nature. (The Prisoner of Zenda; The Count of Monte Cristo; the works of John Buchan; that sort of thing.) Occasionally I wander into a megafandom, to the confusion of everyone. (The last one was Yuri!!! on Ice.) I write fic, mostly femslash. It's all on AO3.

I have a bad habit of getting behind on canons and not catching up again. For this reason I tend to gravitate towards closed canons, or things like Doctor Who where it's generally acknowledged that nobody's ever going to have watched everything.

Under friends-lock I am likely to post about:

1. day-to-day life
- work (I work for a major trade union)
- family drama (I usually manage to see the funny side)
- church (I am a middle-of-the-road Anglican; religion-related posts tend to be either 'this hilarious/infuriating thing that happened at church', 'I told some more church people that I'm bisexual' or 'here is a thing that I found irritating/helpful'; I don't proselytise)

2. writing. I've self-published two novels, one of which won a fairly major award but has made little difference to my life otherwise. I have no intention of giving up the day job.

3. my mental health (seasonal depression)

I like clothes, opera, dark chocolate, poetry, cherries, hymns, cycling, walking, and travelling by train. I don't drive (never passed my test) and won't fly (eco-worrier).

I occasionally unsubscribe from people without notice. This is invariably a 'it's not you, it's me' thing. I'm very relaxed about people doing the same to me: permanent subscribing and unsubscribing amnesty applies round here!


Day 7

In your own space, share something non-fannish about yourself. A passion or a hobby or a talent, something that people might not know about you. We are more than just our fandoms. Leave a comment in this post saying you did it. Include a link to your post if you feel comfortable doing so.


I was um-ing and ah-ing over what to write about here. I'd got it down to two options: walking, with an emphasis on letterboxing, or the Paris buses. It occurred to me just now that, while I've written fic about the buses (after all, I would never even have seen Hugo had it not been for the Paris buses), I've never written fic about letterboxing; consequently this makes it the less fannish.

I have, of course, enthused all over this journal about walking (just follow the tag), but I don't think I've really explained about letterboxing, and it's something of a niche activity, even for me - like BookCrossing, but even more so. So.

Letterboxing originated on Dartmoor, when some chap left his visiting card in a container near Cranmere Pool, encouraging people to write to him if they found it. History does not relate how this evolved into letterboxing as she is known today, which is part-treasure hunt, part-physical exercise, part-art.

A letterbox is a container of some sort (something like a sandwich box, or a 35mm film canister), hidden somewhere in the world, containing a rubber stamp and a notebook. The letterboxer first equips themself with their own personal rubber stamp and their own personal notebook, and then sets out to find the letterbox. This may be done by looking for clues on the internet (this is the way I do it), talking to people (helps if there are other people in your area), or by wandering around until you find one (this only really works on Dartmoor).

Letterboxing appeals to the obsessive side of my personality (I love ticking things off lists, and finding all the boxes I set out to find is unreasonably pleasing); it's an interesting way to explore places you wouldn't necessarily go otherwise; but, really, the bit I enjoy most is making and finding new and exciting rubber stamps. I'm getting reasonably good at this, but there are stamps out there that are staggeringly intricate and impressive, and it's really exciting to find a good one.

Should anyone care to find out more about this, I'd recommend Atlas Quest as a site that, while irritatingly set out, contains multitudes. It's very US-centric: the Dartmoor purists seem to look down on anything so twenty-first century as a website, but I've found enough on there to get me started, at least.
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