I manage the office of a funeral home. Names in the story have been changed.

One day, one of my directors sent out a standard group message letting us know of a new call for a Sarah Jones, who had passed at the hospital. A few minutes later, the hospital calls with a new call for a Sarah Smith.

Concerned that we might have two different names for the same person, while still on the phone with the guy from the hospital, I texted the director about it.

Director: “Yes, sorry, Jones is her street name.”

I repeated this out loud, and the hospital guy and I had a good laugh along the lines of:

Hospital Guy: “Who has a street name?!”

A few minutes after I hung up, still laughing, it hit me, and I had to call him back; laughing so hard I could barely speak, tears of laughter pouring down my face.

Me: “She lived on Jones Street!”

My Mom’s dad had passed away a couple of days previously. The night before the funeral, a dark and stormy night, the funeral home called at 9 PM to tell my mom she had forgotten a tie for the suit for tomorrow’s showing. She freaked out, realizing she would have to drive over to the nursing home to fetch a tie and then drive to the funeral home.

Dad, who loved his clip-on ties and had many of them, said:

Dad: “Oh, don’t go doing that trip on a night like tonight and at this time of night! Just grab one of my clip-on ties and take it with you in the morning.”

My mom, who actually hated that my dad had never learned to tie a tie, responded without missing a beat:

Mom: “My father wouldn’t be caught dead wearing a clip-on tie!”

Seconds after she realized what she had said, she burst into tears, but they were from laughing.

Coworker: “Hello, this is [Coworker’s Name] calling from [Funeral Home]. I got your email about the music you’d like to be playing as your mother-in-law’s casket is carried in.”

Pause.

Coworker: “Well, you need to understand, we’d need to hear from both you and your wife to confirm you’d like that particular piece of music played.”

Pause.

Coworker: “It’s actually more common than you think, but due to the potentially upsetting nature of playing Ding-Dong! The Witch Is Dead at a funeral, we have a protocol.”

Pause.

Coworker: “I look forward to hearing from her.”

My coworker, hangs up, sighs, and looks at me.

Coworker: “They always think they’re soooo original with that song request.”

A minute or two later, the phone rings. My coworker answers it.

Coworker: *Sighs.* “Yes, sir… Highway To Hell is also on that list.”

I work at a funeral home. I am on a call with someone inquiring about his grandmother’s service. She’s still with us but she’s getting older so they’re putting her affairs in order.

Caller: “So I was just going through this list of fees, and I saw three hundred for transfer. What is that?”

Me: “That’s the fee to transfer your grandmother when she has passed from wherever she is to our funeral home.”

There’s an extended pause as the caller seems to noodle on this.

Caller: “Can’t I just chuck her in the passenger seat and drive her over?”

CONTENT WARNING: Cancer, Death

My last year in public education was horrendous. I had a narcissistic first-year principal. I had an undiagnosed emotionally disturbed student; the next year, I was told he was diagnosed after he bit a chunk out of another child’s face. I got inundated by an overflowing kindergarten class. I also learned that my mother was declining from stage four colon cancer that had metastasized to her liver and lungs.

I was in the lunchroom on duty when the hospice nurse called me to come immediately. My mom was actively dying. I left the lunchroom to find an administrator.

The front office was empty! I had no idea why. It turned out that every single person in the admin office had left for lunch, leaving absolutely no one there to handle emergencies that might crop up. Not knowing that at the time, I ran into the library, thinking they might be in there. When the librarian saw my face, she asked me what was wrong. I told her. She told me to get going and that she’d tell the principal to ensure my class was covered.

I left and got to the house with just a bit of time to spare, so I was able to say goodbye to my mother and tell her that I loved her.

That evening, I tried to call the principal and the assistant principal. Neither answered. One of my teacher friends told me she would talk to them for me.

Days later, at my mom’s viewing, the narcissistic first-year principal walked into the funeral home and told me she’d come to see if I was telling the truth. She wasn’t even talking quietly or being subtle; she just strolled directly into the service and loudly told me that she was there to see if I had been lying.

My brother was standing next to me, and he was stunned for a moment. Until, at least, she turned to him and — equally loudly — asked what my relationship was to the deceased. That snapped him out of it.

I can’t type what my brother said to her because of the kind of language he used. Let’s just say that much of her ancestry was in question, as were the number of brain cells she had. He also gave her a direct order to do some extremely anatomically difficult things involving intimacy. She looked ready to spit fire when she realized that the whole family had turned and were eyeing her in a way that suggested torches and pitchforks. She left.

Days later, I found out that our school secretary kept me from being fired by calling the Administration Building and explaining what had happened to me from beginning to end — and telling them that all the admin staff had left their post with no coverage. We got a new principal.