a trusty squire

Jul. 6th, 2026 07:38 am
asakiyume: The Red Detachment of Women (1961, Xie Jin) (emancipating collectively)
[personal profile] asakiyume
I have a friend (she's on Dreamwidth! She'll recognize herself if she reads this) who in the past has done free volunteer tax help for people come tax season.

It's an amazing help not just because taxes can be a nightmare to figure out for yourself and paying someone else to do them can be pricy but also because the mere fact of another person helping you can be hugely encouraging. And this is true for other miserable bureaucratic tasks as well--anything related to healthcare or unemployment claims or disability, or applications for other social supports. Or other stuff! Contacting any large organization about anything, really.

I've been thinking about this because I and a friend have been doing a lot of this kind help for the Eritrean families I've mentioned, and it's clear to me that all of us could use this kind of help and support from time to time. I know I can! And when someone does help me, I'm so profoundly grateful, yes of course for the practical help, but also for the human kindness. (Side note: people who are supposed to help but who are dismissive, impatient, condescending, etc. do outsized harm; probably most of us have had that experience too.)

So if you have a friend who's facing a bureaucracy monster, and if you have an hour or two you could spend with them, maybe you could offer to be their squire as they take on the monster. (Not talking about tax consulting! My friend who offers tax help gets special training for that! But this other stuff doesn't require that.) And if you're the one facing a monster, maybe you have a friend or an acquaintance you wouldn't mind by your side in the fight? People can be flattered and honored if you ask them ...

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Jul. 4th, 2026 09:49 pm
arethinn: Angry golden-eyed wild elf with blood dripping from her mouth (angry (rahnee))
[personal profile] arethinn
I don't have a news article about this to link to or anything but I heard that there were Colombian folk dancers at some event in $LOCAL_BIGGISH_CITY yesterday/today?, and some guy in attendance yelling crap about "speak English, this is America" who was shouted down by the collective fuck-you's of the crowd. (Good.) This would be unacceptable anywhere in the US, but, my dude. The land you are standing on was called Alta California and considered part of Mexico less than two hundred years ago (Spanish colonization of the native peoples is outside the scope of this post 😅). Exactly what the fuck language did you think the name of the city was even in?

The Katamari Cryptid

Jun. 29th, 2026 07:52 pm
asakiyume: (Hades)
[personal profile] asakiyume
It was the crows who alerted me to its presence with their yelling. It was huddled against the chainlink fence, an amalgam of shopping cards, fused together as if it had been snowing shopping carts and a monstrous child had rolled them together in a ball.

But it was alive now. I watched it breathe in, out; in, out. How had that happened? I came a little closer and saw that bits of rubbish--old supermarket circulars, disposable coffee cups, lottery cards--were now organic parts of its body, as were pieces of trailing grapevine and oriental bittersweet.

The crows kept hollering. Were they warning it of me, the interloping human, or me of it? I hesitated to get any nearer. There's no knowing how one will end one's days, but I didn't relish the thought of ending mine as part of a shopping cart katamari.

Recent Things

Jun. 28th, 2026 01:42 pm
marthawells: Murderbot with helmet (Default)
[personal profile] marthawells
I was traveling for most of June in Spain and the Netherlands, it was awesome, but I am really tired.



* A video interview with me by Jean Marie Ward, from 2019 and never posted until now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8bI94yU7J-k


* Story Oracle, a fundraiser for Clarion West: https://www.clarionwest.org/story-oracle/


* ‪This was originally posted a while back and there might be new people who haven’t seen it: Feelings Redacted: What Happens When Murderbot and ART talk to Instagram

https://reactormag.com/feelings-redacted-what-happened-when-murderbot-and-art-talked-to-instagram/


* A short (non-spoilery) podcast interview about Murderbot with Paul and Chris Weitz and Alexander Skarsgard

https://nextbestpicture.com/the-next-best-picture-podcast-interview-with-murderbot-star-alexander-skarsgard-and-writers-directors-executive-producers-chris-paul-weitz/

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Jun. 25th, 2026 11:36 pm
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[staff profile] denise posting in [site community profile] dw_maintenance
Folks may have noticed that the site has been slow for logged-out users over the last while. This is partly because we separate traffic by logged-in, "logged out but have visited the site before", and "logged out, never visited the site before" and assign the fewest resources to the last category (because we're pretty confident the overwhelming majority of it is bot and scraper traffic, even if it's often impossible to say for sure). The flood of garbage traffic is a plague and a scourge the entire internet is dealing with, and it's hitting small sites the hardest as operators get better and better at cloaking their requests to look like real, authentic use. We long ago hit the point where adding more resources is a possible solution (because they just eat them up as soon as we do), and splitting traffic lets us keep the site usable for our actual users without wasting too much server power on garbage.

We've now, lucky us, reached the point where the "logged out, have never visited the site before" path is just flooded all the time, and the "logged out but have visited the site before" path is suffering some of the overflow. We've made some changes to the routing to try to improve things for logged out users who have visited the site before and keep it at "it may be a little bit slow, but at least it works" instead of "it keeps timing out", and we've seen some improvements, but if you're accustomed to browsing the site while logged out, I'm really sorry but it may continue to be a little miserable.

You will get the fastest page loads and the best performance by browsing the site logged in. If you are having trouble loading the front page to log in, bookmark the direct login page. We can't route the front page to the "more power" server pool, because it's a common target for garbage traffic, but we've switched /login over to "more power" and we'll try to keep it there as long as we can unless it starts getting slammed, too.
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