The Mentoring Reset: Out with the Old, In with What Works

When you hear the word “mentoring,” do you picture a seasoned leader offering advice to a young new hire?

That traditional model—while well-intentioned—just doesn’t cut it anymore.

Today’s workplace moves fast. Expectations have shifted, employees want to grow differently, and organizations need new ways to build connection and retain talent. That’s why more and more companies are calling for a mentoring reset—a shift away from outdated, one-way relationships toward models that actually reflect how people learn, thrive, and grow at work now.

Check out my recent tv interview where I shared insights on what needs to change with mentoring and what's working:

Keep reading for more actionable ideas and real examples you can apply inside your organization:

1. From One-Way Guidance to Shared Learning and Co-Creation

Why it needs to change: The old model of mentoring assumes that senior leaders hold the knowledge and junior employees are there to absorb it. But that reinforces a static mindset. In today’s world, everyone—regardless of role or tenure—has something valuable to contribute. If we want adaptable, innovative, and resilient teams, we need to create space for mutual learning.

What to do instead: Design mentoring as a two-way exchange.

• Use learning partnerships, mentor circles, or cross-functional cohorts.
• Set shared learning goals.
• Offer reflection prompts that invite both perspectives.

When mentoring becomes about co-creating “how it needs to be,” it becomes a much more powerful tool for culture and growth.

2. From Delayed Input to Immediate Voice

Why it needs to change: Today’s employees—especially younger ones—don’t want to wait years to be heard. Delaying their voice until they’ve “earned it” leads to disengagement and missed innovation. If you're not listening early, you're likely missing insights that matter.

What to do instead:

• Introduce reverse mentoring—where newer employees share insights with leaders, particularly around culture, tech, and employee experience.
• Invite new hires to co-create onboarding or give feedback on team dynamics.
• Use peer discussion groups to elevate early voices.

Creating space for contribution from day one builds trust—and surfaces ideas you’d otherwise miss.

3. From Early-Career Only to Career-Long Connection

Why it needs to change: Most mentoring programs stop after onboarding. But that’s often when employees need support the most. Between years 2 and 5, people are deciding whether to stay or go. Senior staff may feel stagnant or isolated without ongoing connection.

What to do instead: Think of mentoring as a career-long experience:

• Offer peer mentoring for mid-career professionals.
• Create mentor circles for senior staff.
• Use just-in-time mentoring during transitions like promotions, team changes, or new responsibilities.

Mentoring can be one of the most effective strategies to build belonging and fuel growth throughout the employee lifecycle.

Does “Mentoring” Still Fit?

The word itself can feel a little outdated. It often implies hierarchy and advice-giving when what we’re really after is connection, collaboration, and continuous learning.

Here are a few modern alternatives:

• Growth partners
• Learning cohorts
• Development circles
• Professional kinship
• Career learning networks

These updated terms reflect the shift toward relationships built on mutual benefit, shared insight, and lasting support.

Ready to Reset?

Mentoring still matters—but only if we modernize how it’s done.

If you're ready to reimagine mentoring in your organization, start by asking:

• Are we creating space for mutual learning?
• Are we hearing from employees early, not just eventually?
• Are we supporting people throughout their careers, not just at the start?

A mentoring reset isn’t just about helping others grow. It’s about building the kind of culture where everyone thrives.

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About the Blog Author

I'm Beth Ridley, a former corporate executive turned workplace culture consultant, speaker, and author. With 30 years of global leadership and management consulting experience, I help organizations build stronger leaders, healthier teams, and workplace cultures where people can perform at their best without burning out.

You might have seen my work in national publications or caught me on TV, where I share strategies for preventing burnout and creating work environments that support both high performance and personal wellbeing. I travel across the country delivering keynotes and workshops that guide leaders in shifting from hustle-driven habits to more sustainable, human-centered ways of working.

Having lived and led teams in New York City, London, Tokyo, Johannesburg, and Bangkok—and after leading culture transformation for a Fortune 100 company—I’ve seen firsthand how small shifts in how we lead, relate, and recharge can create lasting impact. I'm passionate about helping leaders redefine success in a way that supports results and resilience.

These days, I’m based in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, with my husband and three kids. I love biking, running, and exploring new places. And while I’m not a fan of cooking, I love watching cooking competition shows!