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Read the FAQ at the top of my pinned before sending asks please! PG-13+ ye shall encounter discussion of intersex-focused sex education here
Anonymous asked:

hey im wondering if you might know whats going on or just tell me that im overthinking things cuz im kinda confused

afaik my only intersex variation is hypospadias. otherwise ive presented as perisex. normal menstrual cycle (when i still had it before birth control), expected effects of puberty, etc.

recently (6 months ago) i started testosterone. im on a medium dose and have been for most of those months. but ive only noticed a few changes, such as having a bit more acne on my face and my sweat smelling different. that was pretty much it and has been the only effects for these 6 months. a part of me thinks that maybe im just having a really slow puberty but another part is wondering if my body just.. isnt responding to the testosterone? my levels are within normal range (i cant remember the exact number but it was around 500 i think) but it feels like its not doing anything

am i overthinking and just having a slow puberty? or is it possible for my body to not be responding to the testosterone while still absorbing it? idk enough abt how hormones work other than the effects they have on the body so i really dont know

"I feel like my body isn't responding to testosterone"... so uh, like, I dunno if you know this yet cause you will now, but androgen insensitivity/AIS can effect people without a Y chromosome, too. (well-meaning lighthearted sarcasm)

It's just rarer to notice because androgens aren't nearly as vital in the female pathway to develop as intended, and bodies down that pathway typically don't have a ton of androgens floating around to notice any insensitivity to— especially if the insensitivity is incomplete (complete AIS can prevent terminal body hair growth as that's driven by androgens, and what I would imagine is likely the most obvious sign in someone down the female pathway?). It's also straight-up genetically rarer for someone with more than one X chromosome to have, since androgen insensitivity is inherited in an X-linked recessive pattern which means each X chromosome needs to have the gene to present in one's phenotype.

Anonymous asked:

hii i just wanted to say thank you for this blog! if it weren't for you and many other intersex posters on here, i never would've discovered i was intersex. i have clitoral aplasia and i always just thought i was dumb for not being able to find it, due to all the "men can't find the clit" jokes lol. but turns out i just don't have one! and seeing it be talked about by people online really helped.

you also helped me accept that it does indeed make me intersex. when i first figured it out i spent a few hours considering if i wanted to call myself intersex or not, because i didn't know if such a "small" variation was even worth labeling, yk? but seeing all the positivity you spread about being intersex and even that specific variation made me much more comfortable to, and now i'm extremely happy in this community!

thank you for all that you do, even if it's just for the most part posting silly characters with labels people request, you're helping many people find themselves! :) stay safe and happy friend, you're loved!

thank yoooou :^) I always wish I have more to say in response to asks sometimes even if it doesn't really matter as much as I think it does. But I really do always appreciate these sort of stories in my inbox even if I can't say something in particular. Like this is another someone who may influence someone else to identify as intersex... and to be hornets I do enjoy looking at a blog in my notifications and seeing "intersex" (or an adjacent label like extersex mesosex perintersex etc) in their bio I consistently go Fuck Yea Hell Yea about it

Anonymous asked:

This is a well-meaning question I swear because I'm curious on why PMDD is classified as intersex, according to you? And why PMS in comparison is not? I'm not saying it's not I'm just curious as to why it classifies

PMS effects, like, a broad swathe of people who have a menstrual cycle and is considered a very typical experience...? I slot PMDD as intersex adjacent on this blog as there really isn't a whole lot of information out there to catagorize it under the umbrella more confidently in my opinion, but it's reported to be commonly caused by atypical reactions to and/or amounts of sex hormones? Usually like hyperestrogenism or vaguely progesterone stuff or whatever I recall. Thus why people like to include it under the intersex umbrella?

Anonymous asked:

You, and those who submit to your blog, have inspired me to make more of my OCs intersex. I like to make characters both similar to and vastly different from me, as a way to explore other viewpoints and learn about real people so the characters aren't caricatures. [For example- I'm trans, and I have both cis and trans OCs, some of my own gender and some not.] I now have: a cis man elf with Jacob's Syndrome, a tris MtM man with PMDS, a transfemasc butch with an undiagnosed variation, an intergender swiftstride shifter with an undisclosed variation, and a mirrorgender tiefling with type 2 Leydig cell hypoplasia and 45X/46XY mosaicism, among others.

I just wanted to thank you for being kind, informative, and firm. I appreciate the sources you share and the stories you platform. My life is richer because of this blog.

With love from a trans brother- may we continue to uplift each other.

wauuurrrr thank you :) I Really wish I had more to say about this ask I love details like this and admittedly it's been sitting in my drafts for a second because I really appreciate this one ... but alas. Nothing. Maybe the fact I really like the details given about your OCs I am a sucker for 'em

Hello! Local internet drifter asking a question! I have a Star Wars OC who, shall we say, only has one grenade in the pouch, if you get what I mean. Would that be considered an intesex condition/would he be considered intersex?

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Yup that would fall under intersex variation, and would be called unilateral cryptorchidism. May have further applicable labels depending on the cause, i.e. "monorchidism" if the reason he only has a single teste in his scrotum is because the other one doesn't exist. But there's many many reasons why a teste doesn't descend, I only listed one.

Anonymous asked:

I can't include pictures on Anon but please imagine that meme with two kittens. It says:

Kitten 1: "I'm Hypogonadism"

Kitten 2: "I'm Hypergonadism"

Both: "And we're the Intersex Siblings"

That's me and my sibling 😁

I just keep thinking about the meme. It's 3 in the morning and I don't think I'm going to be able to go back to sleep without sharing it, so here you go

This is a really wonderful anon to me. The gonadism siblings... I wanted to make the image myself but when I tried looking for templates it seems like the original meme and its close derivatives feature a whole Three cats? And then I kinda made myself give up. Sad.

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perhaps something like this?

edit: fixed typo

Anonymous asked:

I can't include pictures on Anon but please imagine that meme with two kittens. It says:

Kitten 1: "I'm Hypogonadism"

Kitten 2: "I'm Hypergonadism"

Both: "And we're the Intersex Siblings"

That's me and my sibling 😁

I just keep thinking about the meme. It's 3 in the morning and I don't think I'm going to be able to go back to sleep without sharing it, so here you go

This is a really wonderful anon to me. The gonadism siblings... I wanted to make the image myself but when I tried looking for templates it seems like the original meme and its close derivatives feature a whole Three cats? And then I kinda made myself give up. Sad.

Anonymous asked:

Is it possible to have prostate tissue but not a full prostate? I saw you were saying with testosterone you could grow the issues possibly but could you be born that way?

I mean, kinda yeah depending on if we're talking about the same thing? Congenital hypoplasia of the prostate is very much a thing, especially recorded in 5ARD because of the variant often causing low DHT, which is an androgen most responsible for prostate growth. The tissue being talked about that can grow on testosterone HRT is specifically prostatic metaplasia in the vagina, "metaplasia" meaning the cells change— in this case specifically vaginal cells start appearing as prostate cells (link), and explicitly Not a whole prostate gland growing. This isn't exclusive to just folks on testosterone HRT however, any body with hyperandrogenism and a vagina also seems to be able to create prostatic metaplasia? (link)

Anonymous asked:

Perisex person here trying to learn, but something I've been a little confused on is what separates an intersex variation from something being just a symptom of a variation. There's a lot of things I see people mention or headcanon characters with and sometimes I get confused if they're talking about an actual variation or just describing aspects of a variation. Like for example (and you don't have to answer this specifically, I'm just using it to explain my broader question) undescended testes. Is that something that can appear on its own on someone who would otherwise be a perisex male and be it's own intersex variation, or is undescended testes only something that appears as a part of an intersex variation? Thanks for any kind of an answer or resource you can give, I'm sorry this question is so broad but I just can't think of a better way to phrase it!

That's a really good question I think! It's something I ponder about just in terms of language and how differently it's used when being intentionally intersex-inclusive (triple i language? I've been thinking about making a dictionary/thesaurus of such language. shrug). This sort of dilemma in particular between variation versus intersex trait— because yes cryptorchidism (undescended testes) can happen in someone who's otherwise a perisex male, but it is still an intersex trait, which often can but don't always imply broader intersex variation, especially depending on said trait and if it can be caused by decidedly non-intersex causes i.e. testosterone HRT causing clitoromegaly in perisex trans men & mascs. like obviously this is an instance of clitoromegaly, an intersex trait, where it *isn't* intersex.

Honestly I've just changed my language and opted to using specifically "variant" when describing named intersex variants such as PMOS, Klinefelter, MRKH, etc. Not including ovotestes (I would describe them as a trait, just on the "almost definitely always intersex" end as opposed to the "probably not on its own but it shows up with intersex variation" end), because I don't like the pathologizing of treating having both gonadal tissue as a whole condition?? And instead treating the word "variation" more as something to describe anything under the intersex umbrella and varying from the perisex norm, like how I used it in those parentheses after I said ovotestes.

So for your example to continue it, I think having isolated cryptorchidism would fall under having intersex variation, because they have an intersex trait, but not an intersex *variant* that causes cryptorchidism (ex. like. mild or partial AIS idk)? It could be completely idiopathic, meaning a cause Such As an intersex variant couldn't be found and we have no idea why it happened. More importantly to consider anyway I believe is whether or not that individual's experiences with their variation would incline them to identify as intersex?

Also a little fact to note for again your example specifically, cryptorchidism isn't very atypical to see within like the first year of life, and only definitively diagnosed if they don't drop themselves within that timeframe.

Anonymous asked:

if you don’t feel comfortable answering just delete; how do i tell if i have a prostate?

again, sorry, i would usually ask comprehensive-sex-ed but they got deactivated

For some reason I thought I already answered a question like this on here, but apparently not. Even if I did and I just missed it, I'm happy to help cause I've had to learn this myself lol.

In short you are going to stick your finger up your butt. WITH LUBE!!! please god use lube. you Cccould without if you were really desperate, but I Strongly recommend you don't, or at least to be very gentle and go slow if you decide to. It WILL hurt immensely if you force anything up there, not to mention the dangers of injuring anal skin i.e. infection because friction increases force. The only reason I'm not saying Don't Stick Anything Up There Without Lube At All as much as I'd prefer to, is because honestly I tried without lube at first (like a fool. I tried again later with lube it was much easier) and I'm not gonna sit here like someone isn't gonna get curious randomly one day and not think it necessary to prepare first? Harm reduction tips, if it happens. But christ, I would really try and find personal lubricant if you can. A natural oil like olive, avocado, or (unrefined/virgin) coconut oil among others can function in a pinch if you're desperate. Stray away from synthetic ones like mineral oil (i.e. vaseline).

Anyways lube spiel over sorry that's the bulk of this post. It really isn't dissimilar to perisex expectations to check ones' prostate, you stick your finger up your butt (about to the second knuckle or so I'd say) and press anteriorly, or towards your belly button. A (perisex-)typical prostate is about the size of a walnut, and it feels like a smooth rubbery button— one you press down to make something happen, to be clear. And if you indeed have a prostate you may (mildly) feel like you need to urinate after pressing down on it?

Also obligatory "if you have a prostate it doesn't mean you may not also have skene's glands (homologous structures). intersex people famously do not follow the sex binary and its expectations". Tangentially related it makes me want to learn more about homologous structures like that showing up on the ""wrong"" genital set, either replacing the expected structure or growing alongside it and having both. like what Do skene's glands look like on penoscrotal genitalia y'know

Anonymous asked:

Can taking low dose of t help your body pain when you have hyperandrognism? My pain is insan e and I heard testosterone could help some things but I didn't know about like fibromylgia and fatigue

Not reliably enough to go around recommending it to folks off-rip? Because yeah hormones can help some people (not exclusively hyperandrogenic individuals to be clear, but this is particularly common with intersex folks obviously) with their chronic pain symptoms, but that's just cause of the hormones' effects across the entire body; testosterone in specific assisting with muscle mass + strength and bone density, promoting anti-inflammatory activity and nerve protection + repair, and higher levels potentially increasing ones' pain tolerance through supportive effects on opioid receptors and neurotransmitters.

Some folks' symptoms may be exacerbated because of their hormone levels not being ideal for their body causing all the things described above to be Not Quite Right, thus HRT helping with pain. But will YOU specifically be helped, I don't feel comfortable in personally claiming anything? Maybe it'll help a lot, or a little, or not at all, or god forbid it somehow worsens things (/lighthearted, I doubt it would), we have no idea because neither of us know if your androgens being weird is why you're in pain, or if changing them will help in any meaningful way. But if you already want to go on testosterone for unrelated reasons, it doesn't hurt to see if it does anything?

Anonymous asked:

I just got the results of a blood test back. I was told I have slightly elevated testosterone (I was AFAB), but the number I saw was 45 ng/dl and I've seen online that "normal" levels can be as high as 70 ng/dl. So who do I believe? 45 doesn't seem very high. I got tests done because I have a little bit of facial hair (which my parents want me to get rid of :( ). We've ruled out PMOS, but I don't know what it is. Would this count as an intersex variation, or does the clinic I went to just have a very narrow range of what is considered "normal" testosterone levels?

You're focusing too hard on the numbers as a source of validity when they aren't; someone isn't Not hyperandrogenic the moment their T reads 68 ng/dl instead of 72, ESPECIALLY when those levels tend to shift and vary. Blood test results aren't hard values that apply universally (because it's impossible, what may be a normal level for one body may be too much or too little for another, and with regards to sex hormones people can have wildly different and unique responses to identical hormone levels) and are moreso a general guideline which can be different from lab to lab, such as the one your blood was sent to deciding "hey we think hyperandrogenism counts as 45 ng/dl and higher", while other guidelines online decide otherwise.

I don't know how else to word this simply besides tl;dr you can literally just say you have hyperandrogenism. Because. Like. It is. The levels are elevated, and even if some guidelines agree it should be higher to "count"... you're literally growing facial hair dawg That Is A Trait Under Hyperandrogenism.

Anonymous asked:

I’m looking for intersex tattoo ideas. Idk which blog to ask around but I thought you could think of some or your followers could! I’m thinking about a possum because I have 2 uteruses like they do! I’m also thinking of the mars symbol but I can’t decide really.

Ohhhh I've been thinking about this and I would love input myself cause I'm planning on doing a bilateral gynandromorph luna moth. Cliché I know they're freakang pretty and I wanna incorporate it with like lily of the valley flowers anyway... I haven't rlly done any thought on intersex symbolism that represents My specific variation but at the very least for that luna moth gynandromorphism may not be immediately obvious (like my variation is/was) because the sexual dimorphism of luna moths isn't Super visibly distinct.

also the. mars symbol is the typical "male" symbol </3 you may be thinking of mercury? because if so I think that would be a solid general choice. for more your-variation-specific stuff maybe the bleeding heart flower somewhere becos I've seen it used as a symbol for uterus didelphys (link) ?

Anonymous asked:

hi! maybe a weird question but is it possible to have both vulvar hypospadias and urethral duplication? asking this because i have vulvar hypospadias and i'm questioning having urethral duplication (not entirely sure but there's a chance)

Yes it's possible, urethral duplication doesn't imply (hell I would say it shouldn't (link)) the openings will be or appear typical.

Anonymous asked:

Dunno if this is the right place but!

I've suspected my being intersex for a while now; I've recently been diagnosed with PMOS but my gynecologist found the idea of me actually being intersex (I know PMOS is an intersex condition but I don't believe she knows this) ridiculous. I look normal by her standards. She checked.

Past lovers have all been disgusted by my.... Genital makeup. so I sort of disagree? Basically I just wanna review it here real quick, because my gyne deems an elongated (?) clitoris which reaches down to my urethra (normal position, allegedly) and a vaginal canal so small that even with a cotton swab it hurts.... Normal.

She was nice and directed me to a specialist just in case but she thinks it's all normal.

I feel like I'm confident enough in saying she's either incompetent and miserably uninformed and you need to see a second opinion from someone who actually cared about medical school or hell Learning, or that she's plain lying to you to make you feel "normal" (medicine systemically does Not want intersex people knowing they're intersex. like to the point of lying that intersex people will naturally become suicidal if they learn they're not perisex. not exaggerating this was a real documented reason that was used in history) and you should see a second opinion from someone who's going to communicate honestly with you.

I am personally inclined to believe the latter, because it seems like SHE said you had an "elongated clitoris" (it's called clitoromegaly or macroclitoris.), and assuming you have a form of hypospadias as well based on your implication of "allegedly normal position", meaning it is probably Pretty big... yeah I am REALLY inclined to believe she decided to lie to you. Either way you should absolutely go get a second opinion(s), if you have the resources and care about a doctor looking at you and going "yup that ain't typical" and/or "hmm. wonder why this exists, let's try and find a cause".

Anonymous asked:

I did JUST get over my period yesterday. Its probably the period. He just freaked me out so much cuz he doesn't have a vagina and I do 😭 I haven't had much sex lately so it really concerned me. IF there's an actual problem do I just like go to CVS or something or do I need to see a specialist? Cuz I have CVS money rn and also like im scared of doctors ngl

Okay yup explained via further context, not a major cause for concern then imo. Funnily enough not having sex for a prolonged while and then starting again actually CAN be a cause for blood in sperm happening too? But again your period so likely that, either way likely to go away at some point (not including further expected periods of course), so watch it and how you're feeling for now and if it continues or gets worse I would say it's not exactly a CVS-fixable issue afaik (what. would you even get. genuine question /not at you), and more something I'd see urgent care or your primary care physician for.