Everytime we tell a friend we're plural we get one of 2 reactions.
1. They say "okay" and never acknowledge it again.
2. They ask an insane amount of invasive questions.
Ask me which one I prefer. Go ahead. Ask. Because it'll ALWAYS be the second one!! Always!!! I can say "I don't want to answer that, but I can explain [xyz]" because at least they're trying to understand! They NEVER mean to be assholes about it! They're just curious, and I can deal with that! With the first one, I have to basically beg them to acknowledge me as a person!! I'll always prefer the 2nd one. Always.





