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@pingintech / pingintech.tumblr.com

believe it or not the way in which i speak no matter how personally inconvenient is in fact purposeful and if it takes time for you to understand it that is in fact preferable to simply skimming the text and guessing at my meaning vicente 25 she/her reluctantly sharing this blog with the rest of the system for a while after our oldest blog got nuked fuck matt

Master doc that contains different resources and support for many countries including Palestine, Congo, Haiti, Hawaiโ€™i, etc ((op is underneath the link))

[ID: Tweet by Nanu's eyebrows ๐Ÿ‡น๐Ÿ‡นโค๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฑโ€ฆ @ Seaweedlagoon which reads: "I'd appreciate if you guys would spread around my master document that not only contains support for Palestine but other countries as well, I'm updating it with resources for Puerto Rico, Lebanon and Trinidad and Tobago tomorrow!" With a link to the above doc/End ID]

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totallynotcensorship

know what? am actually gonna pin this. this is too good

Genuinely surprised to see this from Jamie p and super glad as well. I feel like it's become such a pattern of seeing white queer creators casually say some racist shit or something to come out and then never properly apologize.

So seeing Jamie Paige be outright "No fuck y'all stupid racist white teens, she'd rather stop making music catering to you than let you make a fool of her art" is incredibly refreshing and makes me glad that to be a fan of hers and feel both seen and comfortably safe knowing that for once someone has the decency not to be a racist piece of shit!

Also go listen to Slayr right now! I remember hearing a couple of his songs before, and liking all of them, and this one is no different. Honestly I hope we get to see more hip-hop sampling and remixes of vocaloid music because its so so cool and wish it was done more often.

And hey this is also directed at all you fuck ass "rap is overstimulating" idiots on Tumblr too!

Something else I think is important to add to this post as well :]

A bit more self explanatory, but I'm glad he's confident to state it for the people in the back that Vocaloid isn't just a white people thing. It's a bit bittersweet to me in a sense that a lot of black creators online feel the need to hide themselves, but I definitely understand (I'm guilty of this sometime too the way Tumblr acts sometimes) but I'm glad to see that people are being more openly anti racist for once and I hope this trend doesn't stop.

Also I know it's already his most popular song, but it is such a banger too, go listen to this and the rest of his vocaloid music too!

"you're just fucking the hints guy for hints"

-guy who's fucking the save guy for saves

Am I missing extremely important context

Sounds like you should've fucked the hint guy

oh sorry no that sound was me fucking the sound settings guy for sounds

call me an eyelash bc im all up in ui

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hugging you (if thats okay) i feel you as a transfem whose been on hrt for 8 years and still has relatively small breasts im also insufferably skinny despite my many attempts to put on more weight ๐Ÿ˜” one bit of encouragement ill give is i got real sad at abt the three year mark bc i thought theyd never get any bigger most sites say estrogenizing hrt breast growth stops around three but they did continue to grow and i had a lot of success on progesterone

i also tend to use breast forms and or bra inserts for the dysphoria

And the reason so many sites say three years is bc thats when those studies capped out actually!!!

and ofc you dont need me to say it im sure youve heard it but there are absolutely cis women built like you built like us

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See, you get me. You've always got me better than most people here.

Yeah, like, I don't *mind* having smaller breasts. Having a husband who has a thing for smaller chests helps a lot. I do also have push up bras that help when I'm wearing an outfit that needs to be... filled out more.

Just sucks because even a small bikini is too big on me. It took Allen and I a full day at several stores and a huge mall (Eaton Center for anyone who knows Toronto) to find a swimsuit that didn't make the girls slip out.

But hey, I'm holding out hope that things will change.

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๐Ÿ˜” no i feel that for real i have to wear a one piece (cant wear breast forms in water) and it absolutely makes me look flat af

theyre not even that small tho!!! i mean they are small but i have a wide ribcage which makes boobs look smaller by some wild twist of fate

transphobic, honestly

have you tried prog??? ik the trans community goes wild abt it and i thought it was all talk but it has helped a bit for me!!! and for a bit of fun if you have a partner they can be taken as suppositories!!!

"you're just fucking the hints guy for hints"

-guy who's fucking the save guy for saves

Am I missing extremely important context

Sounds like you should've fucked the hint guy

oh sorry no that sound was me fucking the sound settings guy for sounds

attention acolytes! in order to maximize shareholder value, i will be turning all of you into gold statues, frozen in twisted spasms of pain for all eternity, in a great and lifeless mausoleum. we expect to eke out a marginal gain in Q3

And how does this increase shareholder value O Great and Powerful Dark One?

Obviously we can add the statues to our assets while also cutting down on employee expenses.

I see! This sounds like a sustainable business practice and I have no further questions.

yes! im so good at Company

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I learned about the murder of Kitty Genoveseย in two separate psychology classes, at two separate universities. It was studied as an example of the โ€œbystander effectโ€, which is a phenomenon that occurs when witnesses do not offer help to a victim when there are other people present.

I was told by my professors that Kitty Genovese was a 28-year-old unmarried woman who was attacked, raped, and brutally murdered on her way home from her shift as manager of a bar. I was told that numerous people witnessed the attack and her cries for help but didnโ€™t do anything because theyย โ€œassumed someone else wouldโ€. Nobody intervened until it was too late.ย 

Nowโ€ฆ is it likely that people overheard Kittyโ€™s cries for help and ignored them because they thought someone else would deal with it? Or, perhaps, did they ignore her because they knew she was a lesbian and just didnโ€™t care?

Maybe thatโ€™s not the case. Maybe it was just a random attack. Maybe her neighbours didnโ€™t know she was gay, or didnโ€™t care.

But itโ€™s a huge chunk of information to leave out about her in a supposedly scientific study of events, since her sexuality made her much more vulnerable to violent crimes than the average person. And itโ€™s a dishonour to her memory.

RIP Kitty Genovese. Society may only remember you for how you died, but I will remember you for who who were.

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chemicalheart-deactivated202009

this was one of the first lessons I had in psych too and we were never told about this either nor was it in any of the reading materials

thelingerieaddict-deactivated20

I never knew this.

I also never knew this about Kitty Genovese, but I do know that, in fact, many of the dozen (not thirty-eight) people who witnessed some part of the attack (which took place after 3AM, on a chilly night in March when most peopleโ€™s windows were closed) tried to help in some way.

One shouted out his window for the attacker to leave her alone, which did successfully scare the man off temporarily.

Another called the police but, seeing her still on her feet, said only that there had been a fight but the woman seemed to be okay.

And when Kitty Genovese was finally attacked in a vestibule where she couldnโ€™t be seen from outside, Karl Ross, a neighbor, saw what was happening but was too frightened himself to go to her rescueโ€“so he started calling other neighbors to ask what he should do. Eventually one of them told him to call the police, which he did, and the woman he called, Sophie Farrar, rushed out to help Kitty even though she didnโ€™t know whether the attacker was gone.

Kitty Genovese died in the arms of a neighbor who tired to help and comfort her while they waited for the police and ambulance to arrive. Kitty was in fact still alive, although mortally wounded, when the ambulance reached the scene.

The man who saw the final stabbing? Who panicked and called other neighbors first instead of the police? The man who said, infamously, that he โ€œdidnโ€™t want to get involvedโ€ because he was reluctant to turn to the police for help? He was thought to be gay himself. He was a friend of Kitty and Mary Annโ€™s. After being interviewed by the police he took a bottle of vodka to Mary Ann and sat with her, trying to comfort her.

So, no. I donโ€™t think the evidence indicates that Kitty Genoveseโ€™s neighbors let her die because she was a lesbian, because Kitty Genoveseโ€™s neighbors tried to help.

(Also, going by the content of the murdererโ€™s confession, it was indeed a random attack.)

talesofthestarshipregeneration

how on EARTH was thisย โ€œscientificallyโ€ studied but the details gotten so wrong and the wrong as hell conclusion published and taught in schools?!?!?! where were those scientists observation skills?! on vacation?!

How to take facts and turn them into an urban legend that gets taught in schools: Make a bad made-for-t.v.-movie about it, watch it, believe everything the movie says, annnnnnnd go!ย  Thatโ€™s how it gets taught as this supposed โ€œscientific study.โ€ย  Someone got fucking lazy.

Spread the real deal, kids.

A book about this,ย โ€œNo One Helpedโ€: Kitty Genovese, New York City, and the Myth of Urban Apathy, won the Lambda Literary Award for LGBT Nonfiction this year! if anyone wants to check it out try your local library!

I want to add one crucial but telling detail: the story about the 38 witnesses didnโ€™t come out of nowhere, it was handed to the New York Times City Editor by the Police Commissioner in order to distract said editor from asking unwelcome questions about a different case, and the story that was eventually written and which made headlines was almost entirely composed from police sources.ย 

At the time, the NYPD was coming under quite a bit of criticism about rising crime rates and the seeming ineffectiveness of the policeโ€™s response to the problem. In the Kitty Genovese case, even though people did in fact call the police, it took about an hour for them to show up and the first detectives didnโ€™t arrive until three hours later (at which point they mostly spent their time interrogating Kittyโ€™s girlfriend about their relationship, because forย โ€œsome reasonโ€ they considered her to be the most likely suspect for the murder. In fact, the police wouldnโ€™t catch the actual killer until six days later when he was picked up for having a stolen TV in the trunk of his car, at which point he admitted to having committed a total of three murders).ย Itโ€™s not an accident that one of the things to come out of the Genovese case was the establishment of the 9-1-1 system, because at the time that the attack happened, you had to call the specific number of a particular police precinct and it was up to the duty sergeant on the desk to take action - which was usually to send someone out from the precinct to the address reported, because cops on foot patrol wouldnโ€™t be outfitted with two-way radios for several years. Itโ€™s more than a little convenient that at a time when the NYPD is coming in for public scrutiny about its ability to do the basic job of responding to reports of crimes in a timely fashion, the Police Commissioner happens to hand the City Editor of the cityโ€™s most prominent newspaper a story which puts the blame for the slow responseย on the apathy and inaction of New Yorkers, neatly absolving the NYPD for its ridiculously poor performance in this case in particular and its response to the rise in crime in general.ย 

Itโ€™s also quite telling that the New York Times ran with the story the way they did. Itโ€™s not like there werenโ€™t people on the scene who said they had called the police, or that the basic facts about how many witnesses there were and what they had seen didnโ€™t match the account that the commissioner had given. The writer the Times sent out chose not to include this information becauseย โ€œit would have ruined the story.โ€œ The Times wanted to frame the story as a narrative about how the root of NYCโ€™s problems was urban apathy and anomie - and the news organizations that picked up on the Timesโ€™ reporting and made the Kitty Genovese case a national and global story wanted to frame the story as proof that NYC was a dangerous urban jungle that deserved its decline because of the bad character of its residents.ย  I think the takeaway from this case isnโ€™t just about sloppy scientific research, itโ€™s that you have to always consider how official narratives are used to assign blame to specific individuals and groups and absolve larger institutions of responsibility.ย 

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something i do wish that was more talked about was the fact that if youre a survivor of more extreme things, it's like. it doesn't really matter how okay you feel about talking about what happened to you, because usually you won't ever get to talk about it, because the people around you usually aren't alright with talking about it.

it can especially suck if someone says they are but went past their limits to try and help you or something.

sometimes the silence around severe and taboo topics aren't because the survivors of such don't want to talk about it. sometimes it's because everyone else isn't ready to hear us speak.

FACTS!!!

I wish humans had monkey tails (most likely tail we'd have ngl) because it would be so cute. There's an alternate world out there where people are dying their tails and buzzing patterns into them and getting tail accessories and tail piercings. God could you imagine

Does anyone else understand

every time someone realizes they dont have to pick between being a boy or a girl an angel gets its wings btw. and also extremely loud cheering can be heard in the distance from me specifically

btw if you've ever wondered why i make posts like this and get really obnoxious about nonbinary positivity. this is why

and for all of yall that are still figuring it out or aren't getting the support you deserve:

if i couldn't have any of the obvious first choice superpowers i would want my power to be the power of i can go anywhere and its not a problem. the way this power would work is that as long as im peaceful and respectful i can go anywhere and nobody will see it as weird or see me as a target for hostility. i can walk into a cool house to politely peep the decor or walk into a tall office building to politely peep the decor or walk around a city at night alone to politely peep the decor or walk into a strange facility to politely peep the decor or walk onto a plane and ride the plane to its destination and then walk around there to politely peep the decor and its fine as long as im chill. no need to make me faster or anything i can just walk at a normal pace. its good for the soul.

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