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@hexenmond

I got hooked into fanfiction and now I’m hanging out here all the time. No idea how long that’ll keep. AO3: skinofthesoul

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some quick bits & bobs

I do tend to ramble. I also take an interesting in a great many things. A very incomplete list would be: languages, websites, poetry, music, arts & crafts, programming, accessibility, free + open source software, webcomics. My go-to smiley is 🙃.

I am currently looking for a native Finnish speaker to ask some questions about language and culture!

You can always ask me:

Also please absolutely shout at me with your favourite untranslatable bits of lyrics or poetry or idioms or puns or what-have-you in Turkish or Irish!!

Fandom-agnostic beta reading:

I'm on the NeedABeta file as well. I may not always have the time to commit to longer projects, but I actually 🧡love🧡 correcting things and giving detailed feedback on a piece of writing. We will need to agree on my level of nitpicking 😉 but I can do anything from broad strokes discussions of where you want your story to go, to debugging where you're stuck, to looking over the nitty gritty details of tonality, grammar, punctuation, and formatting on AO3. Just ask!

Some possibly interesting tags:

Fandoms I guess:

  • Dreamling fanfiction (haven’t watched Sandman though, read the comics decades ago),
  • Dead Boy Detectives,
  • and of course The Witch Door.

Find me elsewhere: I’m on AO3 and Sharkey (the latter isn’t really working for me though, but I do hang out on the Fediverse). I don’t really use other social media much (not even Pinterest any more really, but that’ll return with a vengeance with some hyperfixation or other probably).

Have you ever wondered where all the fantasy worlds based on African and Black mythology are?

Well, today is your lucky day.

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made by a Global Team with love

all art is from the gamebook, we dont use ai

Our game includes:

  • 100 creatures and beings from across African and Black mythology (the first in history to do this)
  • Custom character creation
  • 13 heroes to play or have as companions
  • 13 creeds
  • 12 kin
  • 5 kingdoms and 2 regions representing the diverse cultures under the Pan‑African umbrella
  • 6 adventures included within the book
  • 400 pages of gorgeous art and worldbuilding to help you write stories and create art in an authentically Pan‑African setting

Your support makes it possible to bring a new face to the fantasy genre.

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Hi! I wanted to know if any of you know where I could find pictures of people with healed acid/chemical burns. I want to represent a vast range of people with visible differences, but I struggle a lot with anxiety (mostly because of intrusive thoughts) and usually when I search for those, it shows a lot of fresh injuries.

I also wanted to know if anyone knows about photographers that mostly depict disabled people!

You should look up organizations for and by burn survivors (Phoenix Society is a great start) and people who have burns, rather than unpersoned injuries since those do tend to result in medical reports and whatnot.

Catrin Pugh, Katie Piper, Tonya Renee Meisenbach (BurnedBeauty2018), Turia Pitt, Caitlin "CTLN" Fischer, Nancy S. Hickson, Louise Beaubrun-Macaluso are all models with burn scars you can look up.

For other photography stuff:

I also made 2 posts on drawing burn scars, the first of which does contain photos as well.

mod Sasza

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Sorry, my what? My pronouns? Oh, yeah I'm between genders at the moment. No, it's cool, I quit my last gender a little while ago because it really wasn't working out. I don't know if I even have a dream gender anymore.

Oh yeah, it did come with benefits, but they weren't really worth it. The culture was really toxic. To be honest I think I'd prefer a part-time gender so I can just be self-described in my spare time.

I mean, in a perfect world we wouldn't need gender, you know? We could just voluntarily be perceived as much as we're able, as much as makes us feel fulfilled. Having a full-time gender shouldn't be a prerequisite for food, shelter, and healthcare.

I’m genuinely surprised at the lack of Internet based AUs on this site so I came up with some

  • ‘so you’re the asshole that took my username’ AU
  • ‘your URL is really similar to my friend’s and I accidentally messaged you’ AU
  • ‘whoops that was supposed to be on anon’ AU
  • ‘my self-esteem is shit right now and I noticed you just went through my entire face tag, tell me I’m pretty’ AU
  • ‘you were like my first follower, why are you still here’ AU
  • ‘I just recognized you from across the store and I don’t know what to do, my training didn’t prepare me for this’ AU
  • ‘I think half of my anons are from the same person and I’m trying to track you down’ AU
  • ‘we both ship the same obscure pairing, let’s get married right now but first let’s share headcanons’ AU
  • ‘I was looking at my new followers and I think you were my crush that moved away in fourth grade’ AU

“lets think of AU’s together AU”

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I’ve been told to post about my niche stuff so:

Today I’ve been updating my Liaden Universe Index. It’s like, a concordance. For finding everything in the Liaden Universe series. (We’re at 27 novels and 6 story collections.)

The short story collection Liaden Universe Constellation Volume 6 came out in May and I’m finally reading it and entering it into the spreadsheets (note: almost every sheet has multiple tabs. You can scroll through them at the bottom).

Books: contains a list of all the books and their chapters. For the Constellations this is especially handy because I have a list of which short story is where in the six volumes.

Characters: a list of all the characters, by book. Really handy when I remember a scene with a side character but can’t remember which book it was in. (Major characters each have their own spreadsheet listing their scenes sorted by book.)

Locations: a list of all the places, by book. Really handy when I want to check if the place name is spelled right.

Timeline: This is everyone else’s favourite. Based on the timeline the authors made over 20 years ago, I’ve slotted in all the new books and stories since then in my best guess of the order they happened in Universe.

Yes, this was a covid project. Yes, I’m autistic.

Enjoy!

YES HELLO THANK YOU FOR SHARING I AM THE TARGET AUDIENCE FOR THIS NICHE STUFF AND I LOVE IT WITH ALL MY HEART

Yayyyyyyy I’m so glad you found it/it found you!!!

getting kicked off love island for just swimming in the pool and not talking to anyone

So fun fact from when I worked on multiple reality shows, names redacted for NDA purposes.

Gay people are INCREDIBLY ANNOYING for production when they are on reality shows cause they always do shit like this. Reality shows pick their cast specifically for people who will create drama, so it tracks that bringing in some gay people (in the era that I worked, 2013-2018, this was considered to be new and interesting) would diversify people enough to create some conflict. To a degree, this was true.

But what actually happened was that the gay person, or worse, people, would end up estranged from the other people because Straight People Who Are Fucking Nuts in a way that would be ideal for a reality show are very different from Gay People Who Are Fucking Nuts.

There's one particular instance I remember in which our Gay Person tm wasn't getting into drama and no one could figure out why. Any time anything happened it would just defuse almost instantly. Eventually we prodded during a solo interview and one of the guys said something along the lines of "Mayn gay marriage just got legalized n shit if I yell at this guy I'm being a homophobe". This meant that our gay was COASTING along in this reality show cause no one would vote him out!!

But you know what the PINNACLE of this was?

DATING SHOWS.

One... Very popular dating show I worked on (you know the one) has an unofficial, unwritten rule: you can only have 1 queer woman in the cast of ladies. This is because for a solid few years, if ever there were two bisexual women in the show, they would ALWAYS abandon the man and run off together instead. You can't have contestants saying shit like "this guy has no personality and sucks ass. I prefer this girl I met who actually listens to me". Like this was an actual epidemic in the casting. It happened over and over for YEARS and they couldn't find a way to stop it without literally separating the women from each other, which obviously wouldn't be good for the show. They also couldn't show this was happening because that. Uh. Would be pretty bad to reveal to audiences.

Eventually they just decided to subtly prod and see if women who were going on the show were gay and then avoid having two on the same season at the same time. To my knowledge they still do it this way.

Anyways the summary is that gay people are fucking crazy in a way that heterosexual tv just does not know how to handle

I love(hate) how their first solution was to be blatantly biphobic

instead of getting men that don't suck

Here's a little video of my cord tool or "cordsmith". This one has 3 latch hooks with a polymer clay handle. I happened to have glow in the dark clay when I was making these, so the light part of the marbling glows 😂

I actually have three of these, with 2, 3 and 4 hooks. I don't have the 4 hook one with me right now, but here's a photo of the other two

the german word for villain, Bösewicht, is so great. like not only are you evil, you're also some sort of gnome about it

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Hi Elliot! I saw in a post that you do public speaking. I'm visibly disabled (and queer) and have always wanted to give educational talks locally, especially in places like schools. How did you get into it? I have some things stacked against me personally (rural, unable to use most social media for personal reasons), but besides putting myself on various public speaking for hire websites or directly reaching out to places to ask if they're interested, I don't really know where to start in general. Did you reach out to places or did they reach out to you? What kind of places do you speak at? Do you do TED Talk-style speeches or more casual/Q&A style? Anything you wish you'd known?

I have indeed done some public speaking, including talks at hospitals on trans inclusive and trauma-informed care, and hosting my local Accessibility Awards :)

  • Personally I enjoy keeping the floor open during my talks so they can be more of a discussion than a speech. Questions are welcome throughout, as well as at the end so that I can meet the needs of the people in the room. When discussing marginalized issues, audiences can surprise you with what they want to know - and I want to fill as many gaps in knowledge as I can.
  • Additionally, I always finish my presentations with a page of further reading materials for the following reasons: I love to read, an hour or two is never enough time to delve deeply into a topic, and showing how many experts there are on what we're discussing solidifies its value. (I've had some critics in my audiences, and showing them a big list of writers and scholars usually helps) Not to mention the importance of siting your sources - I like to not only give credit, but to boost other pieces by the same author.

I got into it public speaking through a friend of mine who is a local trans educator - he felt I would be a good fit for an upcoming talk of his, and I continued from there. I am currently planning an upcoming talk at my local HIV centre! :)

To answer more of your specific questions:

there was a great study a few years that went into the whole "ppl online are bigger jerks than irl cuz theres a virtual wall and no repercussions" and the researchers were expecting to see that be the case but it turns out that people who were really angry or argumentative online were also found to just be assholes in person and people who were pretty patient and nice online were found to be patient and nice in real person as well

and it just debunked that whole cynical idea that people will naturally be mean if theres no punishment for it

the researchers found that being online didnt make people more hostile, but that being online allowed already hostile people to dominate forum conversations, and the less aggressive people were much less likely to reply or engage, ending in just the aggressive people bickering at eachother

Thereby disproving Greater Internet Fuckwad Theory.

whenever someone calls me and says they're from my bank or car loan company or whatever and asks me security questions, I always tell them "excuse me, you called me, how can you prove who you are" and every single time they act like it's the first time anyone's ever asked that, which absolutely boggles my mind. for the love of fuck please do not answer "security questions" when you didn't initiate the call, at least without making them answer a few first

Never give them your info!

I agree, never give your info in a call you didn't initiate. Phone numbers can be spoofed. They may actually sound like your bank or credit card company.

If you receive a call, hang up and call back using the phone number on their website. Explain that you received a call about X and if it's legit, they'll be able to tell you so. They're also not usually going to get mad if you say "I'm going to hang up and call you back." Scams will though. Because you won't be calling THEM back, you'll be alerting the bank someone is committing fraud in their name. So they'll get urgent about it. Ignore them and hang up. Call back on an actual line.