Ruler of Frog Kind, Long May I Reign

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punkitt-is-here

noukiebear asked:

Hiiii can I ask a personal question? It's okay if you don't want to answer! My partner suspects they might be a trans woman, but they're a bit scared to transition bc they're 34 and they think they're too old for it. I'm being very supportive and telling them that time will pass anyway and that you're never too old to transition, but idk how else to really help. I started my transition at 17 so yeah... Got any words of wisdom that I could give them?

punkitt-is-here answered:

My advice is that I just hung out with my friend who transitioned in her thirties starting last year and she’s literally the happiest she’s ever been in her life. I can see the light coming back to her eyes every time I hang out with her and she is so filled with joy and love that it makes my heart full whenever I get the chance to interact with her.

It is never, ever too late to make a change that will make you happier. Maybe the best time to do it was yesterday, but the second best time is right now. The only true deadline for transition is death, and lemme tell ya, spending between now and then as a happier, more true version of yourself is the best thing you can do. There’s trans people who started in their 40s, 50s, 60s, and hell, even 70s. Probably some people who’ve done it in their 80s and 90s too! And those people are happier than they were yesterday. I think we should all pursue the happiest version of ourselves, and even if it brings some hardships we wish we could avoid, god, it’s worth it. It’s so fucking worth it.

earhartsease

fwiw we started transitioning in our late 40s and well,

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30 vs 60 :)

it's only too late when you're dead innit, made us way happier with ourselves

the-aro-agenda
menaathena

Hey, just in case nobody's ever told you, you can just live with your friends. I don't mean as a temporary roommate situation until you get a better job or a romantic partner; you can do it forever if you want to. Like, I know my view is a little scewed here because I'm aroace, but you can't convince me that most people's lives wouldn't be vastly improved by living with a tight-knit group of people that all love and care about and support each other. You don't have to live alone! You don't have to live alone with your partner either! If the only thing stopping you is societal convention, then fuck it!! Break free of your chains!!! Do whatever you want forever!!!!