Nikki A.K.A. Queen of Advice.

um hi ^^ I saw your post in animated_beauty and then I looked at your userinfo and I saw this community about advice..and, wow, I really need some right now, about a few things in my life.

Only problem is, I'd feel much more comfortable talking about it privately, on IM..would you mind IMing me? My AIM is in my profile, if you have that..

Thank you ^.^

[EDIT] Uhm..I noticed the last post here was from 5 months ago..so I'm not sure if you still check this community? If I don't hear from you soon, then I guess that'll answer my own question, heh. [/EDIT]

I guess -- I just wanna get your advice on this "stuff"

So I've been married two years -- but my husband has a baby with another girl -- she'll be 3 in september... read my journal if you want more details. I'm not a vengefull person -- but I want evil things done to this girl -- is that wrong?? I just want what is best for my husband - who I have been with for the past six years.... we had a four month seperation -- which was just enough to get someone else pregnant -- I worry about him leaving me for her -- which he said he'd never do -- but just the same... Just yesterday she spazed out on a forward that I didnt even realize I sent -- but whtever ... I've kept my mouth shut ever since this whole thing started... I only want her to understand -- but I can't force it upon her... so what should I do??? Just let her keep bashing me? She won't let him see his daughter because of me ... which is just pitafull -- but I don't want to see his daughter and at the same time I dont want him to meet her alone... Its complicated... she (the babys mom) thinks that my husband is still in love with her.... but she only calls when she doesnt get her child support check -- she does drugs... I can't prove it but it's been told to us by more than one person... I worry about his baby -- about what is going on... I worry alot -- but mostly that because he's with me -- he cant see his daughter... and that's not my fault -- but I feel guilty....

Yeah thats about the jist of it -- so lay it on me big momma ...

Hey I joined!! Hi!

Hi there! I'm Nikki. I love listening to people, helping them, and giving advice. I have been told I am good at it, so give me a shot! Go ahead, ask me anything! I might know more than you think.

With all my love forever and for always,
Nikki