barefoot_chick wrote in modest_style 🤔curious Virginia

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Hi there. My first confession is that I've never really been a modest dresser. I tend to wear low-cut tops sometimes. However, I'm starting to take a look at not wearing low-cut tops because I don't want people to be staring at my "C"-sized breasts while they're talking to me. I think I found this site in the first place because I really like wearing head scarves and other head coverings. I will admit that I do this purely out of a sense of style rather than any religious foundation.

However much I do like headscarves, I have medium-length fine hair and not a lot of it. When I wear headscarves, I tend to tie them on top of my hair. I like the look of them tied under someone else's hair, but you can see the knot under my hair and it just looks bad. I looked through the tags and I couldn't find another question like this. Are there other ways I can wear these scarves and coverings without tying them under my hair. 

I have tried the pre-tied coverings, but they slip right off my hair. Should I get color-coordinated hair clips to help them stay on? 

Thank you so much! Nice to meet you all!