There's a scene in a diner where Emily, for the first time, is shown to lose control. Her situationship walks in and her normally confident and direct demeanour defaults to a non-confrontational shell of her usual self. In minimising herself she gives up control to another who shows her little regard, but she also therefore downplays her own influence in the lives of those around her. If she doesn't think she matters in that moment, why should anyone else think…