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I would go to the doctor if I could but have no health insurance. I haven't had a period since November. I have an 11 month old and am breastfeeding, however I began getting my period regularly the month after he was born and up until November could track it to the week. I am only breastfeedin twice a day and he has been self weaning since December at first I thought it would have something to do with that but I thought it would have corrected itself by now. I am so befuddled oh I've also taken pg tests and they have come back negative. Any ideas or advice on how to get it back or whats going on
Attention Laughing Vaginas:
As you may have noticed, I have been an absentee maintainer for the past year or more. I have been busy with life, and LiveJournal has fallen by the way. If any of you out there would like to take over maintenance of this group, I will be happy to turn it over to you. Please respond to this post if you are interested.
Mary Jo
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Hi,
I'm a current first-year college student, at an extremely liberal school in the northeast. I've just recently realized that I'm interested in women (very possibly gay). I've become very involved with my college's Queer Coalition, and my circle of friends are mainly girls from the group, who are truly amazing people. I've developed so many crushes on girls (mostly girls who would be considered to be on the "butch" side of the lesbian spectrum).
My appearance is and always has been very feminine. I have long hair, wear mainly skirts and jeans, etc. I've been feeling so conflicted because I'm not sure what to do with my appearance, if anything, now that I've begun to acknowledge my queer identity. I'm feeling a few things:
a) If I look feminine, other women whom I encounter might not know that I'm gay and be potentially uninterested.
b) Other women who know that I'm gay somehow, like people from college, may not be interested since I seem too girly.
This may sound crazy, but I've honestly encountered a lot of (gentle) teasing by my friends because I come off as girly. I've thought a lot about cutting my hair, but I shouldn't change my appearance to satisfy others; I really have to think about whether it's something I'm comfortable doing. I honestly want people to know that I'm interested in women. I've been wearing rainbow bracelets, but my hair & wardrobe don't proclaim other than "straight girl!"
So I guess I'm just posting for feedback. Should I consider cutting my hair (I'm not completely averse...)? Should I just try to wear more ambiguous clothing, like cargo pants, etc?
I'd greatly appreciate any constructive responses! I apologize profusely for the cross-posting.