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Hi there,
My name is Tanya. I recently joined the community. Here's something that's not quite standard. :)
I have a story that's going to unravel soon, but check my journal:
http://tanyastory.livejournal.com
There's a question that i would like people to answer.
Enjoy.
Tanya

Hi! I'm Julie, I'm 23 and from Southern California.

I love doing just about everything artsy/crafty! I love to sew, crochet, make jewelry, etc.. I spend most of my free time making things for sale, on comission, or just for myself. I love music! I listen to mostly punk, alternative, ska, & emo. AFI & Rise Agaisnt are my fave bands right now. I have a huge toy collection. It's mostly My Little Ponies and other 80's stuff. Whenever I can get away, I love to go snowboarding! I LOVE animals! I have four White's Tree Frogs, a black bear hamster, and two crazy dogs. I went to school and got a degree in "Mulitmedia & Web Design". But I completely love Photoshop so I sorta fell into a job doing digital photo retouching which I really love doing!

I love reading journals and making friends on here so if we have anything in common feel free to add me & I'll add you back! :D

CLICK for my once yearly very important very informative up to date post!!

I am not new to LJ but looking for some interesting friends who comment at least on occasion. I know we all lead busy lives.

*My name is Melissa and I am 22 years old

*I live with my boyfriend, Eric, so he is often talked about in my entries

*I am a third year Psych student

*I am very close to my 20-year old sister who is a lesbian and living with her girlfriend one street from my boyfriend and I

*I am always online...so you can catch me on AIM, MSN, or Yahoo. I always like to get to know my LJ friends

More info is on my user info page...just add me. I will add you back :)

I'm Melissa...I'm a 21-year old college student. I am from St. Louis, MO. Here are my stats, I like to think I keep up with commenting fairly well. I post often...so please just add me :)


Date created: 2005-02-01 16:28:56
Date updated: 2005-03-31 07:05:02, 1 minute ago
Journal entries: 85
Comments: Posted: 166 - Received: 182

I feel like a complete hypocrite. My life and perspective changes daily so bare with me, please. To start off I do not like that my boyfriend talks to his ex! It makes me so mad but the thing is, he'll never admit that he does; until I become the jealous gf and check his phone, find out that he did and then he pony's up and gives me lame reasons as to why. So needless to say he hides the fact that they talk. He turns off his phone alot when he's with me or talks to her during the day when he's at work and then trys to remember to delete the evidence! Why they talk I don't know, I would kill to know but he won't say. But I'm also not the kind of girl to tell him that he can't talk to her. I don't like it, but I will never tell him that he can't. All I want is to honestly know why they talk and what about! I know that is such a gf thing to say but it honestly tears me up thinking about all of the scenarios that could be going on, it could be something but it could be nothing; either way I don't know the difference if he lies! So that leads me to my current delema! My ex has been texting me as of late! I know in my previous post I stated that he was and then he stopped, well as of last night he is again. He sent me a text last night saying, this is word for word: "hi im sorry last text was so brief, ive been really bust with work, it's fun. im glad you are doing so well, you sound happy. i hope things are great with your family as well. i miss talking to u, and i miss u". I don't know how to respond. Should I respond? I told Jeremy 2 years ago that if he ever needed me that I would always be here for him, I care about him alot and I'm so glad that he's happy and keeping himself busy. I would love to have him in my life, not romantically but as a close friend. I know Chuck would never consider it, he doesn't have girls as friends and would never allow me to have guy friends let alone an ex. I hate that Chuck talks to his ex I feel like a complete hypocrite that I would even consider doing the same thing! I always told him that I would never talk to any of my ex's and that I didn't understand why he would talk to her, however that was when I hadn't heard from Jer in 2 years and didn't think that I ever would, pretty convienent. I dont know what to do. I don't want to blow Jer off and hurt him, but I also don't want to lead him on. I don't want to be a hypocrite and say that Chuck can't but I can because it's innocent. I'm confused. I don't want to turn this into a situation where whenever I find out that Chuck has spoken with his ex I go and text Jer, it's not like that and I don't want to turn it into that. I'm rambling but I have so much going on in my head. It seems like such a simple situation but it's more than that. Any help would be more than appreciated!

People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. When

you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that

person.





When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need

you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to

provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally,

or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there

for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your

part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to

bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk

away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must

realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work

is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to

move on.





Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come

to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make

you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually

give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only

for a season.





LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build

upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept

the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all

other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind

but friendship is clairvoyant.

anyone in spokane?? 18-f-very sweet. but u can find out for yourself. not to sound concieted. but not too bad lookin neither ;)

hey everyone. my name is shere. i live in spokane and go to EWU. im 19..anyone wanna get to know me or get on my friends list, leave ur LJ name here....

I am having problems with my boyfriend's depression( Read more...Collapse )
I guess I am really just looking for some sound advice. I don’t want to be told to move on as that just is not an option for me. But how long should I wait? Am I crossing lines if I call his friend and let him know I’m concerned? Where should I go with this? I have never been one to stick around in a relationship when it got tough, but I am at an extreme loss as I am completely in love with this guy.