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Happiness is a Warm Puppy

Support On Ice

By Jessica Cashmore and Newmar

It's only November, and we're getting icy mornings. It's cold to the point where the wood of the deck sounds like it is cracking under foot. I take Newmar out at 6:30 to do his business. Therefore, it is often still dark. Even though I have a little bit of vision, I cannot see if there is snow or ice on the deck, so I am relying on my other senses to tell me that there's snow.

One particular morning comes to mind. It had been freezing rain all night. I couldn't feel it under foot on the deck due to the overhang. However, I knew that the stairs might be a little slippery because I heard rain falling. I didn't know that it was freezing rain until I touched the railing. Normally, Newmar is so anxious to get down the stairs and onto the grass to do his business. However, that morning, he was very slow and steady. He was even keeping close to my left side to the point where I could actually feel him. It was as if he wanted to support me while going down the stairs. He must have known it was slippery. Normally in this situation, I would have grabbed onto the left handrail as well as the right so that I was equally balanced.

This dog never fails to amaze me!! Each day, he is finding ways to work with me and adapting for me so that we can walk comfortably. He has adapted to the way I walk with the cerebral palsy. When he did this that morning, I put my hand on his back to support myself. I did the same on the way up. I didn't put a lot of weight on him of course, but it was just enough to prevent me from falling.

He is a miracle, a godsend.
Tennyson drives the bus

When the unexpected happens

What happened to me today is a great example of how amazing these dogs are for us.

I have dizzy spells that come on with no morning at all. The doctors think it is deniers disease but have not been able to perform the proper tests because I am not close enough to my doctors office to get there while I am having one.

I went out on a morning walk to get a number of things done. Tennyson was on his game and really being cautious with the big cracks in the sidewalk we need to go over to get to the bus stop.

Suddenly I am having a dizzy spell and I wasn't sure if I was going to fall over or not. Just before it happened Tennyson had stopped and I wasn't sure why. Once the spell subsided a bit I realized he must have sensed that something was wrong with me. My balance was really bad after the spell was over so Tennyson leaned closer to me to make sure I stayed upright.

I came home right away because I didn't want to risk either of our lives. I didn't want to misjudge reading traffic or something else. Tennyson's pace was slower on the way home but I was grateful for that do to how I was feeling.

Right now I am really tired and just glad to be home. And Tennyson is staying close to me to make sure I am ok. I can't even get up without him following me to ensure I am ok. Thank goodness for this loving dog.

If I had not had my Tennyson with me I don't want to think of what could have happened to me. I once again am grateful that GDB matched me up with this wonderful dog.