omfg.

Aug. 19th, 2017 09:04 am
alexseanchai: Katsuki Yuuri wearing a blue jacket and his glasses and holding a poodle, in front of the asexual pride flag with a rainbow heart inset. (Default)
[personal profile] alexseanchai
Today is Sat Aug 19.

That means I have seven days to pack and clean, three days to move, and half a day to clean before I have to hand back the keys to this here apartment. (Double-counting the day on which we get the keys to our new apartment. And WHY did I not ask for Mon 28 off too? My sorry ass is going to be cleaning that day from eight to three-thirty and working for that paycheck from four to midnight!)

This apartment does not look moving-ready. This apartment looks like the aftermath of Hurricane Alex—send in the Red Cross!

My todo list has seven sections. Each section has from four to fifteen bullet points. While most are once they're done they're done, some of them will need done more than once this week. (Six of the day's bullets are four instances of "eat" and two of "feed cat", and "rest 10min for every 20min working" will appear as often as it damn well needs to, but that's totally beside the point.)

My anxiety level is already RED ALERT. My spoon level has spent a lot of time recently at DANGER DANGER, and isn't terribly far above that now. (I got my psych doc to prescribe lorazepam for as-needed over the next couple weeks, in order to calm my shit because 100% focus on calming centering breaths means nothing else gets done and less than 100% focus on etc was for days meaning being on the verge of an anxiety attack, but. And no, having other warm bodies to help—except on Sat 26, which is furniture hauling day—is not apparently an option; I keep asking.)

I need all the cheerleading I can get!
azurelunatic: The (old) Tacoma Narrows Bridge, intact but twisted. (disaster waiting to happen)
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The moving cubes arrive tomorrow. I have them for three business days (one day for arrival, one full day, one day for pickup) plus the intervening weekend.

I intellectually know that I have a whole lot of things sorted and packed, but the fact that I haven't got much in the way of a sensible staging area makes everything very hard to see the progress, and many of my daily-use things are still front and center, even though the closets and cubbies are getting packed and stacked.

Aaaaaa.

We'll be loading the moving cubes, and then I take some important things in my car and drive from the SF Bay Area to the Seattle-Tacoma area. I'll be crashing with my sister for a while; there will be some overlap between me and her boyfriend who is currently staying with her. I'm bringing an air mattress.

Motivation.
Sanity.
Encouragement.

All of these things are hard. Occasionally my partner has to remind me that hyperventilating is bad, and maybe that anti-anxiety medication is there for a reason.
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So my long-distance partner is pulling a surprise GTFO of a complicated and nastily abusive situation. There's a crew on deck waiting for the opportunity to come and move some of their things to safekeeping.

They'll be able to return in a few weeks with any good luck, but they need to survive those few weeks couch-surfing, and hopefully get things that would be impossible/difficult/expensive to replace if stolen or vandalized out of harm's way.

Unfortunately, while they have already pre-packed/made duplicates of/etc. everything that can be removed or duplicated without occasioning comment from Satan's Own Housemate, there remains a substantial amount of things that they cannot pre-pack. (Or they would be doing that right now.) There are a good number of volunteers, but my partner is the only one who can determine exactly what needs to go, and which priority to set on it. This could be a bottleneck in getting in and out quickly, and my partner's focus is going to be on containerizing the cat.

The simple question of "Do you have enough boxes?" was met with a panicked shrug. I am the one with the advanced spatial reasoning in this relationship. My partner's skill sets do not include looking at a set of items and figuring out how many standard boxes it will fit into. I am also about a thousand miles away, and my presence would not be conducive to the desired etc.

What we're doing:

Partner went around and photographed everything they intend to or want to take with them. Everything. Down to the toothbrush and deodorant and towel.

Partner sent me the pictures. (We did it in a zip file via Dropbox; it's possible we could have gone straight for Google Drive, based on my solution.)

After looking at them and doing any needed rotations, I plonked each one of them on their own slide in a deck in Google Drive. I chose a slide deck because slides are easy to re-arrange, and I had the feeling that this was going to involve a lot of re-arranging. I chose Google Drive because it was right there, and both of us could edit at the same time.

Each slide had the following template:
* Description of item
* Room in which the item is located
* Location within that room
* Priority
* Estimated volume
* Notes, such as "Fragile!" or "empty the humidifier tank before you pack this, sweetie <3"

They had given me vague priorities: electronics high priority; books and movies and such low priority.

I was able to fill in the descriptions of the items to the best of my ability; I was able to make a good guess at the room and the location within the room. I put a first whack at priority in (indicated with question marks that I was uncertain), and estimated the volume.

My partner filled in the things that I was uncertain about, and clarified the priority and nature of the thing.

We then sorted the deck in the following order:

a) Top priority stuff that my partner will be taking care of themselves.
b) by room
c) by priority within the room

I made title cards for each section. The title cards have the name of the room and the priority, plus a section for estimated number of boxes for that section.

The plan is that on the GTFO day, there will be enough boxes, people, and vehicles to get it all done quickly, and in one trip.

Based on the estimates, close to the correct number of boxes and/or other vessels can be deployed to the correct locations.

Based on the combination of text and visuals, the near-complete strangers will have a better idea of what gets packed and why.

I hope this works.
alexseanchai: Katsuki Yuuri wearing a blue jacket and his glasses and holding a poodle, in front of the asexual pride flag with a rainbow heart inset. (Default)
[personal profile] alexseanchai
I am moving. I just got it all confirmed and the apartment is mine and my official move-in date is Fri Sep 18. I do not have to have everything organized by then, I don't think, because I am paid up on rent to parents through Sep 30, but still. Two weeks. I am moving in two weeks.

I'm looking at [tumblr.com profile] unfuckyourhabitat's guide to moving and the 'moving' tag here. And I am freaking out because mountains of stuff and where do I start.

I am thinking a good place to start might be open-me-first box?
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[personal profile] katemacetak
I'm moving from North Carolina to DC next Friday, so I'm going to start sorting and packing today.
My apartment is furnished, and I was a student when I moved in, so I don't have a ton of big stuff like furniture. But there's so much clutter and I think a lot of it just needs to be thrown out/recycled/donated.

Things I need to go through:
Clothes. I have a lot I don't wear anymore, especially with the transition from sloppy student to having to dress professionally. I mean, I don't need 50 band/fandom t-shirts. Sad to get rid of them though...maybe I should do that t-shirt quilt making thing?

Books. I have too many so I'll be getting rid of a bunch of those this week, as much as it pains me.

Old papers, school stuff, etc. probably most of it should just be disposed of. (I'm in archives and records management, so I should be really good at this right? Not so easy in my personal life though, haha.)

Old/stale food in back of pantry...gross.

Any tips appreciated!

I'm also seeking advice for how to keep my new place clean from the start. This is a new beginning, and I don't want it to be cluttered immediately as I unpack. It's about 200 square feet smaller than my current place (the joys of city living--but I'm lucky to just have an apartment instead of a room in a house!) so I think I will need to get creative with storage.
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Any tips for not going crazy in the last 48 hours before moving?

My anxiety and depression are ganging up to make me think, "Become paralyzed with fear & just do nothing!" which is....unhelpful.
untonuggan: Lily and Chance squished in a cat pile-up on top of a cat tree (buff tabby, black cat with red collar) (Default)
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Unpacking is interesting, because a lot of people find it to be the hardest step. My partner certainly does, as she has AD/HD and while for all the packing and home-hunting and all of that there are set deadlines, unpacking can stretch on forever. There are no deadlines to keep her moving. Meanwhile I have anxiety issues, so all the other stuff totally flips me out. However, I am enjoying the unpacking because it means that I get to "nest" in my new place and find places for all my things. Go figure.

One thing I would unequivocally recommend relates to #6 from yesterday's post. That is, the fact that no matter how much you cull your possessions before the move you're still going to wake up after your move and go, "Why the frell did I bring all of this junk with me?"

Now when I'm unpacking, I unpack next to a box. Say I'm unpacking books. The books either go onto the bookshelf or into the "discard pile" of unwanted things to be sold/donated/regifted (what, I'm not ashamed of regifting). That way, they sort of never make it much past the door.

My partner has asthma and I am allergic to dust. Having all of these boxes around has set both of our allergies off. When I can, I have been wiping things over with a microfiber cloth before putting them away. At the very least I wipe down the shelves before putting anything on them. It's amazing how dirty things can get in transit or just sitting around in boxes, and it's really been helping both of our respiratory tracts.

As always, setting a timer and doing things in bite-sized pieces saves sanity and energy.

What do you do to help smooth out the unpacking after a move? Or even a vacation?
untonuggan: Lily and Chance squished in a cat pile-up on top of a cat tree (buff tabby, black cat with red collar) (Default)
[personal profile] untonuggan
Here are some resources I found invaluable while moving:
#1: Unfuckyourhabitat had some great moving posts/advice, and helped keep me motivated. Among them (something also mentioned here) is using liquor store boxes for books, something I didn't end up trying. But definitely the idea of tackling a little bit of the packing every day - bitesized, as it were - saved my butt for the move.

#2: My local Freecycle is where I ended up getting most of my moving boxes and supplies. A lot of people have luck on Craigslist too, apparently.

#3: This moving company has some helpful videos on packing fragile objects. I followed their instructions and (knock wood) so far none of the things I unpacked have been broken. If you're just moving within the same apartment building this may not be as relevant, but if you're moving further then it's definitely worth checking out. Good to know: pack plates standing on end rather than flat on top of one another, because they're stronger that way and less likely to break if dropped.

Other things I learned from Moving Company People:

#4: If you have a lot of knick-knacks or small photos, you can also throw them in between layers of towels, sheets, or clothes. Saves money on bubble wrap/packing paper.

#5: You can wrap things in newspaper if you want, but then they get ink all over them and you have to wash them when you're finally in your new place. Ask yourself if you really want to do that, and if you have the option, see if you can get proper packing paper/bubble wrap either for free (through Freecycle or Craigslist) or by shelling out some money.

#6: Even if you get rid of a ton of your shit and move less stuff, when you get to your new place you will still wonder why you brought a bunch of it. But it's good to do anyway, because you really don't want all the excess clutter around, right?
untonuggan: Lily and Chance squished in a cat pile-up on top of a cat tree (buff tabby, black cat with red collar) (Default)
[personal profile] untonuggan
Make a survival box. Or two. This can be something you prep ahead of time or get ready at the last minute, but it should basically have big asterisks on it or colored flashing lights (jk) or say "open me first" in big letters. This should contain stuff which you will need when you get to your new place and weep if you cannot find it.

Things in my survival boxes:

- pajamas
- change of clothes or two (esp underwear)
- medications
- all electronic chargers
- netbook
- toilet paper
- clean sheets
- clean towels
- soap and toiletries (especially a toothbrush for each family member)
- scissors (especially important for getting into boxes)
- bandaids
- flashlight
- light bulbs
- pillow(s) and clean pillowcases

It helps to have separate boxes for some basic cleaning supplies, in case whoever had your place last was less than clean, or just because moving is a messy business where you track a lot of dirt in. We actually carted most of our cleaning supplies over in laundry baskets. Magic Erasers, some bleach, a toilet brush, vacuum/swiffer, vinegar, baking soda, rags, whatever you normally use - especially if you have an extra day before you move into your new home it helps to clean out the mucky corners. I made a point of focusing on places where I knew heavy furniture was going to go, because I knew cleaning behind it ever again was probably never going to happen. Also, our refrigerator had a funny smell so I took care of that. If you don't have time before you have to move your stuff, just having the supplies ready for later and all in one place where you don't have to hunt for them can be really helpful. And you know, whatever you do, wipe out the toilet bowl for sanitation's sake.

Food is important. Yes you can order pizza, but having some basic foodstuffs (in my house the first thing was tea and milk and mugs and something to boil water) is also really nice and can help you stay sane. If you have the extra $8 or so for delivery and they deliver to your area, it might be worth considering getting a Peapod grocery order. That way you can just focus on moving and staying calm, and a nice person will bring fresh groceries to your door. And then you can devour them.

Hope this helps someone else stay sane throughout moving!
untonuggan: Lily and Chance squished in a cat pile-up on top of a cat tree (buff tabby, black cat with red collar) (Default)
[personal profile] untonuggan
The movers have come and gone, I'm in my new place with my family, and my father has finally realized that we have too much stuff. I think it was watching the deep freeze go by that he barely uses, or maybe it was the 8 boxes of genealogy papers. Or perhaps it's that he wants to use what was going to be the storage room for exercising, and so all those things that were going to be "out of sight out of mind" are now right in his space.

I started packing as soon as I knew we had to move, which was about 3 months ago. I started with things that I didn't use as often, and one of the bonuses to this method is that I've had a chance to live without them. So I know that there is a box of clothes I really don't need, and as long as I don't feel like switching one T-shirt for another, say, or keeping a few winter or dressy clothes, most of it can just go.

I also followed jumpuphigh's excellent suggestion of packing less frequently used kitchen items early. (I was very grateful for this when I was packing drinking glasses at 5:30 AM on moving day. I wanted to pack them earlier and switch to paper or plastic cups, but my family wanted to be eco-conscious. I think this is what disposable cups are for, but whatevs.)

Anyway, the plus side is that my dad didn't even notice I'd packed some of the kitchen items. So I can basically take that whole box and get rid of all of it (except for the baking things, because I decided baking while trying to move was insanity.) \o/

I learned a lot from this move, so I'll probably be sharing moving tips and things I learned in the days/weeks to come.
jumpuphigh: A black and white drawing of a maid cleaning dishes off of the table. (Dishes)
[personal profile] jumpuphigh
This week, we are offering up a full, week-long challenge.

Here we go.... )

Good luck! Liz and I will be posting every day to cheer everyone on!
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[personal profile] jumpuphigh
My movers delivered my stuff to my new place of residence yesterday afternoon. Since then, I've unpacked about 10 boxes and have slept 14 hours. I woke up 4.5 hours ago and my body is already screaming for a long nap. Upon lying down, I realized I was breaking my #1 rule of bite-sized living; I haven't been using my timer. Ummm...ooops?

Do as I say, not as I do! :D

So, from this point forward, all unpacking will be done with the timer. There will be long timed breaks and short timed work periods. I will stop working when the timer goes off.

And now it is time to put on some guided meditations and close my eyes.

Challenge

Mar. 27th, 2011 05:20 am
jumpuphigh: A black and white drawing of a maid cleaning dishes off of the table. (Dishes)
[personal profile] jumpuphigh
In 4 days, a pair of packers will come and finish up my packing since I ran out of spoons a week ago. In 5 days, a pair of movers will transport my belongings to my new home. Because of this, I have been extremely aware of how much food I have left in my pantry, fridge, and freezer. Despite my not buying food beyond rice milk for my coffee, eggs so I can make breakfast, and some fresh produce for weeks now*, I definitely have more than 4 days worth of food left. This is also despite my taking a smallish bag of donations to the library a few days ago for their food bank fundraising that they have happening right now.

With all these thoughts in mind, I have a challenge for you. This week, go into your food stores and pull out anything that you really won't eat and donate it. Then, see how long you can go without grocery shopping.

Fun, right?

Let us know the details.


*There has been much buying of alcohol, however. Moving is stressful.

jumpuphigh: B&W picture of June & JFK in photo album with text "Presidential Con" across the top (Con)
[personal profile] jumpuphigh
First of all, thank you to everyone who had such wonderful words of support and encouragement. They really helped.

Second of all, bite-sized works! All my previous packing experiences were prior to making the changes we've been talking about in this comm and they have all been torturous days of torture.

Because I have decluttered regularly for the last year and a half, almost everything that I have is stuff that I actually use and want to keep. There is no looking at stuff to decide if I want to pack it or not. It all just goes in a box. The decision is only about whether I will use it in the next few weeks or not. I have a paper grocery bag for anything that I encounter that I want to give away and it's not even 1/4th of the way full. Oh, perhaps I will fill it by the end of the month but I can't see myself having any more than that.

Looking at packing in bite-sized pieces is really keeping it low-stress. Yesterday, I packed 4 largish-sized boxes total and it was no big deal. Also, because I don't have tons of clutter, packing one box makes a big difference that I can see and that keeps me encouraged. I pack one box at a time completely, then go take a really long break. I pack a box and reward myself with White Collar. I pack a box and then go lie in my hammock and read. And because I've planned ahead, I don't feel the need to pack all the things. I have days ahead of me to continue in my bite-sized packing quest.

Bite-sized! It's miraculous!

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