La, Laura

Security with subscribers and friends list...

There are situations where a person can have a very good reason not to show their friends list or subscribers list because a stalking and competing Internet user may be looking to contact these people to pump them off to whatever similar project that they are running... (I have a very sinister such person in my life who not just steals people who contact me, but also convinces them to not talk to me anymore)

So my question then becomes: Is there a way to lockdown such info so the general public can't see it, yet still be able to view this myself without having to temporarily "decloak" this info?
La, Laura

what does Friending give people?

if I have been fighting with someone I really do want to be friends in real life with on YouTube, and they just friended me, then what access do I give them by friending them back.... I currently have my activity, subscriptions, subscribers, and friends all turned off to the general public and don't want her seeing these yet either... if I friend her, is any of this now accessible by her?