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1 year ago I came out to my parents. The first words after I said “I’m gay” were…”I love you, but I love the lord more and this…is sin.” Since then I’ve asked them to research, do the work, and realize this isn’t a choice.
- Replying to @triplej15It hurts. I don’t have parents anymore. I only maintain any semblance of relationship with them for my kids. They get nothing from me. They haven’t earned it. They’ve earned their way out of my life. Sadly, most religious parents of queer children do this to their kids
- Replying to @triplej15I would never tell my kids who they are is deserving of eternal punishment. That’s abusive and cruel. No wonder so many of us ex-vangicals have anxiety!
- Replying to @triplej15They have done nothing of the sort. I’ve sent resources…ignored. I’ve begged, yelled (via text)…still nothing.
- Replying to @triplej15Sorry…this thread is discombobulated and goes in many directions. Just reliving that terrible moment now and it’s so sad.
- Degree has arrived!!!! Officially a Master!!!!
- Today I have to see family for the first time since I came out. They’re very religious, and none of them have reached out since I came out. My nervous system is very disregulated and I’m overwhelmed. Prayers, vibes, energy…whatever you can send…I’ll take it!
- Replying to @triplej15A big thanks to @wheatonbrando who listened to me rant afterwards. He’s a real true friend that has stood by my side and loved me through all of this.
- Today marks the one year anniversary of coming out to my wife. It’s been a roller coaster of a year, but it’s all been worth it to live authentically as myself. I have a long ways to go still to be my most authentic self, but I am definitely more free this side of the closet.
- Replying to @TheHealerDMOr love me…they would love me as me if they did actually love me. They love the idea of straight me that is a good dad and provides for his family.
- Just something you all might want to read…
- 9 days and I’m back with this gorgeous man. Look at him! 😍 @elmercc3
