I gained 12.7K new thriends somehow so allow me to reintroduce myself! My name’s Chad. I’m an IT guy for the state of Illinois, turning 40 this year, elder emo INFP empath, hopeless romantic, just a normal dude out here tryna survive. I try to put as much positivity into the world as I can from my little city in the middle of nowhere, but I’m also single af bc dating in 2026 is a fkn nightmare. I appreciate each and every one of you that followed, and those that will in the future as well ✌🏻🖤