goals

Jan. 11th, 2025 09:46 pm
woodytwig: (moiraine)
So I'm clearly late with this, the goals for the new year was maybe Snowflake challenge #4?

But man, setting goals in January is hard. Can't we do this some other time of the year when everything isn't stuffed in the Nothing Will Ever Work(TM) basket because it's cold and dark?

two log cabins with snow on the roofs in a wintery forest the text snowflake challenge january 1 - 31 in white cursive text

But okay let's try, set your own goals for the new year

1) I'd like to write more. I wrote some last year, but very sporadically. So I'd like to make more time for that. No specific goals for words or days or finished things, but just to make time, and maybe try to participate in fannish things with that. I have signed up for a writing class, which might be helpful or might at least be interesting, though I'm very close to bailing from it, because (see above) Nothing Will Ever Work.

2) I need to get back to the gym. The pilates I'm doing is helpful, but isn't apparently enough to not make stuff randomly hurt, or to prevent me from needing to wrap myself into a mummy with my blanket and pillows to keep me from melting into weird shapes while I sleep. So, goal: lift heavy things, say, once a week. This can be substituted with home bodyweight stuff or playing on the outdoor gym monkeybars, but apparently not with just walking or pilates.

3) Work needs some sort of new direction, somewhat tbd what that is, a new job or at least a new role. This was the goal for last year as well, but maybe it'll work better in 2025. A concrete goal would be to at least get my [paperwork] done as soon as possible, which isn't too far off, I hope.

4) Last year I set a goal to write here every month, and almost succeeded. I posted one entry somewhere in the time zone liminal space between May and June, and counted that for both. I'll probably try to continue posting monthly this year too, it has proven to be a fun exercise.

And all this with the caveat that I have no idea what is going to happen with the health issues in the family, but I'm trying to make some goals and plans despite of that, since, you know, it's all unclear and just putting everything on hold seems like a somewhat bad idea in itself.
woodytwig: (moiraine)
I did some of the Snowflake Challenge last year, so why not continue this year as well.

Snowflake Challenge promotional banner with image of mug of hot chocolate with marshmallows and gingerbread cookies. Text: Snowflake Challenge January 1-31.

In your own space, talk about your fannish origin story

It feels like my fannish origin story comes in two's. For one because there are two distinct time periods I've been fannishly active, but also because there are two modes to my fannishness (which is probably true for a lot of us).

Firstly the reading and lurking, which started sometime in the late 90s on Geocities and the Gossamer archives, and never stopped after that. There has always been some fandom I've been following quietly. For what is now apparently more than 25 years.

But only twice have I unlurked and actually participated. First in the LJ era, and when that world imploded, with most of the people I was in contact with disappearing, I also went back to the shadows for almost 10 years. I didn't completely stop writing, and doodled for some shows (Dark!), but never talked to anyone beyond the occasional AO3 comment, and never posted anything.

But then in 2021 the Wheel of Time (magical middle-aged lesbian witches?!), and some real life stuff made me activate again, this time with a more conscious plan to be around and part of something. And it's been a bit bumpy--not participating for years will help develop all kinds of blocks--but in aggregate it has been one of the best decisions of the last several years. The plan has morphed from simply trying to talk to people to realizing I've made lasting friendships that exist even outside of fandom. I don't think I'm going back to pure lurking anytime soon.
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More than 10 years ago I connected my LJ to dreamwidth and decided to not make an actual account (not my best idea ever). Since then the LJ account is no more and the openID connection has been lost to ages, and I have a new pseud, so hello with this one!

Why now? Because real life got in the way, and even once I had time again, I tend to lurk so hard that when I get to the party everyone else is leaving. But I'm here now, so.. I'm here?

edit: and so are apparently a bunch of people from reddit, so I can blend in nicely

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