That wasn't very cash money of you, Tumblr.

laurie 😔

I really wish people would care about aro/ace trans girls. being subjected to transmisogyny is already isolating enough but as soon as the few people who might have been interested in getting closer with you realize that doing so means they have to make active attempts to recontextualize how they think of closeness and intimacy—that they can't rely on their preconceived notions of "platonic friend" or "romantic/sexual partner"—they pretty much always give up and try to sort you into one of those categories. almost every aro/ace trans girl I've ever met has suffered from extreme loneliness. it doesn't have to be this way. we deserve better

So many women are looking for a “masc lesbian” but what they really mean is that they want a top who has their life together lmao

“You got masc vibes even though you are a femme” do I? Or do you just think that confidence and competence are inherently linked to masculinity?

Like if you want someone to top you till you cry then you should just say that. There are many women who can provide, many of them femme.

But also it’s kind of rude to assign gender roles and sexual preferences to someone just because they’re masc. just because she wears a snapback that doesn’t mean she’s a top or able to fix your car or whatever.

told someone i'm schizophrenic and they ask "are you sure it's not just your mind playing tricks on you" bro what the fuck do you think schizophrenia is

genia!!!

We have to walk on egg shells around here because if some stalking harassment blog doesn't latch onto you it'll be staff themselves and people still say transmisogyny isn't real.

like to be fucking blunt the post that got me banned was about keeping girls like me alive, what does it say about the staff here that telling vulnerable girls to live is worthy of a ban?

how it feels remembering charlie kirk got shot through the neck and died

posting this exchange out here where it's easier for people to see it because it's honestly so immaculate just how thoughtless and foolish this person is being. like, did you not check my pinned post like my bio says to do? did you not notice that i'm marked green on shinigami eyes? why do refer to the browser extension shinigami eyes as an "app"? do you really just expect me to buy this shit? unbelievable

so many transmisogynistic tmra dogwhistles in here it's insane

again, i'm intersex and hey, wouldn't you know, i'm also nonbinary! and i'm marked green! and i know many open transmascs who aren't marked red! could it be that there is some other reason that they may be marked as red? in my experience, shinigami eyes has been pretty reliable! the thing this is really telling here is "i've heard that sometimes it even marks blatantly transphobic people as green, though i haven't seen that personally." like, okay. maybe that claim is false then! maybe when the evidence is contradicting what you're being told you should question your source(s) for these other claims.

the vague gesturing at all these "changes" to shinigami eyes over the years... saying certain blogs have been "unfairly" marked as red for a few years now... say what you mean! i know you're referring to their updated policy from a few years back of labeling people who promote transmisogyny, even if they are trans themself, as red. every birthday boy and blog that serially harasses trans women under the guise of "fighting transandrophobia" and "protecting intersex people" has been losing their shit for a few years now when they're marked as red for being misogynists and choosing to blame the people running shinigami eyes instead of doing any kind of personal reflection on their actions.

get blocked, idiot.

dihydrogen monoxide is poisonous because 100% of people who consume it have died, and 100% of those who consume it by a young age become so easily addicted they suffer extreme withdrawal symptoms and also die within a few days because their body has become so addicted. the chemical is also highly dangerous to your body, it makes your genitals release toxic liquids every few hours that will appear yellow in most cases. QUIT DIHYDROGEN MONOXIDE !!!!!!!!!! SAVE OUR KIDS !!!!!!

my surgeon told me after, "that's the biggest cyst of synovial fluid i've ever pulled out of someone" and made a gesture like a ping pong ball size 😳

Woah... Not everyone can flex that...

there was a tear in the joint sac that was acting as a one way valve to let joint fluid escape any time the joint was under pressure. such as every time i took a step for 8 months. but your body can make more! so it's kinda like

and if "ping pong ball sized" doesn't sound that impressive for a cyst, consider that it was trapped in between my achilles tendon & the bone

brutalism hatred over. let's get some hatred going for the intarnational styles. babygirl you didn't have to make everything into a panel.

"We have developed the technology to create hanging facades, where buildings can be made using interior steel frames with panels hanging off the sides, instead of those gross old buildings where their sturdy exteriors walls supported the structure. This has allowed us to achieve the ultimate dream of architecture, the most beautiful representation of form and function we can possibly imagine: Big Box. All buildings for the next 50 years will now be Big Box. Everyone loves Big Box."

Behold, architecture.

is this minoru yamasaki’s fault

i would strongly disagree with that. Yes, he designed one of the most famous building ever in the international style, the world trade center, but that wasn't until well into the development and adoption of the style across the architectural world. If anything, the main motif of his career is his arches, and he used them liberally at a time when the arch was well fallen out of favor specifically because of modernist styles like the international style that were obsessed with the advantages of the kind of squared off shapes that could be achieved with steel beams, with the architectural world moving away from more traditional arches. He did a lot of really cool and interesting things with them. it's why the bottom of the WTC looked like that. The man loved an arch.

oh, for reference:

(Demolished)

(Demolished)

Why'd they demolish it? Anyone know?

I understand there were a number of criticisms, for one it was in international style.

I'm reading a short story set in ancient Rome and one of the characters just said "Discord gnaw your entrails." That was an interesting mental image until my brain caught up and reminded me that no, those Romans did not have access to modern social media.

To turn off this feature in Discord, go to the Settings Menu, then select Advanced Setttings, then My Entrails, where you can adjust the Gnaw setting to your personal preference.

every time i watch a superhero movie bc people say it’s good it ends up being mid at best. so i will not watch your so-called spiderman

the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death

I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.

every day until christmas until you like it

new splatfest is crazy

recreated my favorite splatoon 3 art in animal crossing

Big man is also objectively correct.