With GNU xargs and a shell with support for process substitution
xargs -r -0 -P4 -n1 -a <(printf '%s\0' myfile*) mycommand
Would run up to 4 mycommands in parallel.
If mycommand doesn't use its stdin, you can also do:
printf '%s\0' myfile* | xargs -r -0 -P4 -n1 mycommand
Which would also work with the xargs of modern BSDs.
For a recursive search for myfile* files, replace the printf command with:
find . -name 'myfile*' -type f -print0
(-type f is for regular-files only. For a glob-equivalent, you need zsh and its printf '%s\0' myfile*(.)).
find . -name "*xls*" -exec ls -l {} \;. In your case:find . -name "*xls*" -exec mycommand {} \;. Although find searches for files recursively you can limitfindnot to search in all sub directories.