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Summer in Greece for Greeks is so multifaceted that I decided that more than one moodboard is needed. This is about our experiences during this time, and the parts of our "mundane" summer that leave a special mark on our hearts.

At home: You stay at the city apartment - maybe with your parents - but the atmosphere still feels summer-y and time flows more slowly. From your balcony, you see some distant greenery while you open a book near a blurry glass-and-metal table, perhaps treating yourself to some vanilia and pita. An older neighbor brings you the vyssino spoon sweet they made themselves and it tastes amazing. Cold coffee keeps you alive at this point, and it defines every stage of your day. The paliatzis also acts as an alarm. On your relaxing walks outside you see cats standing outside vintage grocery stores, and old, nostalgic, neoclassical buildings. You dream of going to another country for vacation when you have the money, but for now, you make the best of that welcome domestic break. You talk about your future destinations with your friends, as the "machine ice cream" melts on your hand during your seaside walk.

Calm Greece: Summer feels like a romantic dream you have while gramophone music plays in the background. Your eyes fill with the evening pastel colors and the passing golden light. You admire the street art and the vintage architecture on the streets, and flowers are always there. You wonder about the Greeks of past eras, imagining them sitting in a kafeneio, strolling down the street with a lace umbrella, or waiting to enjoy the new comedy in their marble theater. This city has seen a thousand summers. The peaceful and quiet moments, as the streets empty, are the most precious element of the season.

Idyllic Greece: You are here because of family (maybe your grandparents or uncles live here) and you'd rather be somewhere else, however the place has something special. It's not a touristy location and you are glad about that because you are one of the few who can enjoy this gem of nature. Sometimes it gets boring, and you fidget with the paper table cloth at the psarotaverna, but then you have one evening stroll around the village and you feel strangely rejuvenated. A rooster starts your morning and a dekaokhtoura your evening. Maybe you don't like coming but you also don't like leaving, and secretly you wish you knew everything about the history of that place. Your heart tightens at the thought that one day you may never return.

Dancing summer: Summer thrusts you into a series of celebrations and bright warm lights. Your parents take you to the panigiri, that kapsouri friend drags you to the bouzoukia, this aunty lets you know that your cousin is dancing at a folk festival, and you hear loud songs from your neighbors that resonate strangely with you. It's not that as bad as you thought. The alcohol is as strong as the kefi, and you look amazing. You hear the car kornas of a wedding every weekend and comment about the "poor fellows" to yourself, or with your family. You finally find the time to go to the best concerts of the season but sometimes the artists bring the music to you, inside the suffocatingly hot city. Your heart flatters and you decide to dance.

Colorful Greece: Summer brings out the colors in your everyday life. Mostly because it's tourist season and the souvenir shops are open, but who said that you are not entitled to some of that vibrant joy? You hate the culture sellout, you love the culture sellout, it is what it is. At least you find cool trinkets and your xenoi friends get excited, so that makes you happy. The black dresses of the yayas are unique in that rich scenery, and, most of the time, accompanied by sweet smiles. If your life happens to be too much like a movie, you'll get the "tinos isi sy?" question, followed by a surprising exploration of your lineage. This is also the time to get into heated arguments about the feta-karpouzi dish, and being looked at strangely by the tourists. Thankfully, there are some good stekia around the town that you can go to and feel like you are not becoming a yaya yourself. You have a small fascination with laternas and their unexpected sound on the street momentarily tempts you to leave everything behind and make your living with a laterna, too.

Too close for comfort: Somehow you are pretty satisfied with how your summer turned, even if it's not conventionally "unique". Founding beauty in your land is not that difficult, anyway, and some moments are simple but awe-worthy. You lose at tavli and you win at tavli - but you mostly lose at tavli, and against the cockiest uncle. You swear an oath to copy his behavior, just to annoy him back. You haven't met any new people this summer and it's fine, most of the time. Maybe you are working in the laiki, or in a cafe for extra cash, and the evenings find you in a taverna with amazing roasted meat, or around the oldest tree in the village. Your strolls on the town market, alone or with some friends, may look like nothing special but you'll miss them so fast when winter comes again.

In light of the Odyssey movie coming out this is my formal PSA that Helen of Troy is actually Helen of Sparta, Troy is the city she was stolen and brought to. The entire Trojan war is the Greeks trying to get her back from Troy, because she is from Sparta. I feel like we all collectively forget this.

In the Iliad, Book 3, she's actually called "Argeian Helen" (or "Argive Helen"), aka, "Helen of Argos".

οἳ δ' ὡς οὖν εἴδονθ' Ἑλένην ἐπὶ πύργον ἰοῦσαν, ἀλλήλοισι μὲν ἄρ' ὧδε ἔπεα πτερόεντα προσηύδων· οὐ νέμεσις Τρῶας καὶ ἐϋκνήμιδας Ἀχαιοὺς τοιῇδ' ἀμφὶ γυναικὶ πολὺν χρόνον ἄλγεα πάσχειν· αἰνῶς ἀθανάτῃσι θεῇς εἰς ἀθανάτῳ ἔοικεν· ἀλλὰ καὶ ὧς τοιῇδ' ἔριδι δηρὸν πόλιν αἰνὸν Ἀργείην Ἑλένην ἔχον ἤνυτο περὶ πόλει ἄγαν.

And when they saw Helen going up to the tower, they spoke to one another in winged words: “There is no blame in Trojans and well-greaved Achaeans suffering for a long time pains because of such a woman. She is terribly like the immortal goddesses. Yet even so, for such a woman, long-lasting strife has brought ruin on the city, and the Argive Helen has caused great suffering around the city.”

In Greece, we just call her "The Beautiful Helen", because her origin is a given. However, if I had to choose a toponym, Argeian would be at the top of my list.

Dunno how to put it properly into words but lately I find myself thinking more about that particular innocence of fairy tales, for lack of better word. Where a traveller in the middle of a field comes across an old woman with a scythe who is very clearly Death, but he treats her as any other auntie from the village. Or meeting a strange green-skinned man by the lake and sharing your loaf of bread with him when he asks because even though he's clearly not human, your mother's last words before you left home were to be kind to everyone. Where the old man in the forest rewards you for your help with nothing but a dove feather, and when you accept even such a seemingly useless reward with gratitude, on your way home you learn that it's turned to solid gold. Where supernatural beings never harm a person directly and every action against humans is a test of character, and every supernatural punishment is the result of a person bringing on their own demise through their own actions they could have avoided had they changed their ways. Where the hero wins for no other reason than that they were a good person. I don't have the braincells to describe this better right now but I wish modern fairy tales did this more instead of trying to be fantasy action movies.

"In [fairy tales], power is rarely the right tool for survival anyway. Rather the powerless thrive on alliances, often in the form of reciprocated acts of kindness - from beehives that were not raided, birds that were not killed but set free or fed, old women who were saluted with respect. Kindness sown among the meek is harvested in crisis."

-Rebecca Solnit

I'm just gonna slide this on in here for anyone that is interested in preserving old games. They take it very seriously too, they want an archive of every single game. Like, they have lists of every game ever released for a system, and once that system gets old enough, they add it to their archive and start collecting. Their latest addition was the Xbox 360, they opened that vault up in September 2022, and proudly announced they'd finished their collection of games for it back in April.

Also, while their game archives are almost entirely complete, they've got another project of archiving the manuals that came with those games, and that is... considerably less well filled out. Their collection of Xbox 360 manuals is especially rough, they've only gotten manuals for three games. So if you've got some Xbox 360 games kicking around, and the manual's still with them, please consider scanning them and submitting them to the site!

Game preservation is important, but people rarely consider preserving the manuals as well; I really respect Vimm's Lair for being so thorough in their archival work.

I've been using Vimm's Lair for years, I have yet to see a single bad link or virus on the entire site. It's arguably the safest and most comprehensive archive of video games in existence. Preserved history

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yes teenage girls can be dramatic and wild but honestly have u ever even seen what happens when u tell a grown man ‘no’

It is true that woman had it worse back then in ancient times. But femenist retellings don't quite understand *how* was it bad.

That's why most of this books just go straight up to making every single man a rapist/sexual abuser except for their token "good male".

And don't get me wrong, yeah sexual assault was worse back then than it is now. But y'all also think is the only way in which woman were fucked over?

This books never center about other things like:

- Arranged marriages

- The pressure to have multiple children and how pregnancies could deteriorate the health of women

- Lack of education

- No hope for pursuing other thing but motherhood

Besides, in many such cases, the main protag of this books are princesses. Not lower class women.

Take Hippodamia for example, she was a princess. And while she experienced sexual abuse, thankfully, she never experienced rape itself. This because her status gave her a level of protection.

Princesses had guards (sometimes they were castrated, depends on what ancient civilization you're talking about), maids, protection of all kinds. It would be almost impossible for a lower class man such as a soldier to even try to sexually assault a princess without consecuences.

This doesn't mean a princess couldn't go through rape. But in that case it would be coming, usually, from someone close to her. Someone close to her in power. A family member or her husband, for example.

So they don't even explore the subject correctly, nor explore other types of pressure princesses could have on them for the simple fact of being women.

Anyways that's my rant for today

this is the problem i have with a lot of contemporary “feminist” or “female rage” literature. a lot of the time the male characters in these works will all be rapists or openly sexually exploitative in some way. this is not a negative thing to represent, but it becomes problematic when sexual exploitation and rape are the ONLY ways men are ever depicted as misogynistic (more below the cut).

I think there's some medias that you just cannot meaningfully engage with if your main priority is shipping

(Tired aroace voice, metaphorical cigarette in hand) You don't have to make them kiss... they don't always have to kiss...

So many other kinds of human connection get put to the wayside with our current culture’s obsession with romantic love.

Don’t get me wrong it’s ok to ship romance but it doesn’t have to be the only type of relationship we celebrate in media, fandom space included.

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similarly to how you should never trust gamers with a nonbinary character i feel like you can also never trust a fandom with an aroace character. whether it's explicitly canon or implied it just ends up the same

every time an allo person wants to ship an aroace spec coded character they should write an essay with MLA format citations on how this serves the themes of the story and is necessary for the character and how their ship is any different than the relationships said character already has and they should also send $500 dollars minimum to at least one aroace person in their fandom

"but people can do whatever they want!!!" i don't caaaaaare go examine your biases and cry about it or i'm blowing both of us up

> go to an online space

> ask the people there whether their resources are international or just for americans

> they laugh and say "they're good resources sir"

> they're for americans

really funny to me whenever people are like "there's no way these characters are JUST friends they're always SMILING at each other" like i'm no expert on this but i'm pretty sure that might be in the top 3 things people do in a friendship. i hear sometimes people even do it with strangers and acquaintances......