one woman's journey for man-made pussy

'and we'll leave it at that'

they should make it easier to get bottom surgery

special mention to how the BMI requirements are horrific and they need to go!

I've been thinking a lot lately about how many trans women I've known who come to realize over time that they experience much more bottom dysphoria than they've consciously understood

I think this is partially a problem of trans women being fetishized, a trans woman's value being equated with her penis, but I think it's also partially a problem of availability. personally if something is difficult to attain then I have an internal reflex to unconsciously convince myself I don't want or need it. for this reason and many others it needs to be made easier

personally it's fucking crazy going through life not even being able to be naked around trusted loved ones or fully have sex because the dysphoria is so bad. it's unacceptable that so many of us have to live like this. it's horrible that for many trans women it's almost impossible to get the care we need. it does not have to be like this

GOD. YEAH. YUPPPP

neopussy posting went from virtually nonexistent on this site four years ago to a new flourishing ecosystem of some of the most inventive smut + helpful advice i’ve ever seen anywhere on the internet. I love trans tumblr girls

neopussy posting went from virtually nonexistent on this site four years ago to a new flourishing ecosystem of some of the most inventive smut + helpful advice i’ve ever seen anywhere on the internet. I love trans tumblr girls

Honestly seeing a surge in information resources and support is nice.

Even the doctors that create neovaginas can be ignorant about their long term care, and many of us that had to travel for the surgery can't easily travel back if medical issues arise.

Meanwhile, even general practitioners who specialise in trans medicine are unlikely to know much of anything about neo vaginas.

A lot of advice for natal vaginas is transferable but not all, and some issues are neo vagina specific.

As had been the tradition, we really do depend on our fellow trans people for information and support when our medical professionals are often found wanting.

have i mentioned that i love my vagina and that i've never regretted surgery even for a second. because damn girl i just came hard as fuck. goated. life is good

that's right! that's right!!! and it's only gonna get better!!!!

shoutout to rabbit vibrators theyre my favorite

There's been a massive wave of vaginoplasty negativity online recently and this is refreshing to hear 🫶

I'm getting mine in less than a month and it's been a bit daunting seeing how people talk about it. I'm not trying to sugarcoat the recovery but I do want to remind myself of the light at the end of the tunnel.

Talking about medical gatekeeping in trans healthcare really feels like,

"Hey we should stop sending trans people to a fucking exorcist before they're allowed to transition? Since we know, scientifically, that demons are Not Fucking Real?"

"Ok but what if someone regrets transition though?"

"DEMONS ARE NOT FUCKING REAL."

"You really don't care about the possibility of regret?"

"DEMONS. ARE NOT. FUCKING. REAL. THE EXORCIST. HAS NOTHING TO DO. WITH REGRETTING ANY TRANSITION PROCEDURE. ON ACCOUNT OF EXORCISM BEING FAKE AND MADE UP."

"The trans community needs to talk more about transition regret. You have to acknowledge this, or you'll never get anywhere."

Sorry trans people are sent to WHO NOW??

tumblr users having no media literacy:

It is slightly confusing what the analogy is, and yeah it does take some media literacy to figure out

The first thing that comes to mind in place of "exorcist" that isn't literally an exorcist, is that trans people are sent to therapists or psychologists before being allowed medical transition.

a direct analogy here would have OP implying that it's scientifically proven that therapists and psychology are made-up and don't work.

But I think the intention is more like "it's proven that the things they are asked to do in this case don't help and aren't necessary."

Ok so you do realize that gender clinics often employ people whose entire jobs are "figure out if the patient is faking being trans," right?

Like those aren't practicing psychology, and they don't have any meaningful expertise on transition care, which is performed by endocrinologists and surgeons further down the line. The gatekeeper is just some guy who asks how you masturbate and makes a vibes-based judgment on whether the answer means you're faking it.

That's what the analogy is for. The fake made up pseudoscience job.

Before I got mine I definitely did worry if it would make romantic and sexual relationships more difficult, but I knew I still wanted it because the idea of those relationships wasn't very appealing to me without my body being in a state where I was more comfortable with it. I'm very happy to say that I needn't have worried. Partners who like me are always excited to learn how my body works :) Being more at peace with my form has also helped me pursue stuff like that more confidently which I think makes the most difference

I learned last night through personal experience that you can in fact fist a neopussy, and it made me realize that so much of the propaganda against bottom surgery, even the really small ways that "a neopussy isn't like a *real* vagina" are complete fabrications.

I get wet when I'm horny, I have a vaginal microbiome, it feels like a cis vagina to partners who've been with cis women, and it can take a whole fucking HAND.

I just want to remind folks that the medical technology we have available is amazing, and that there are people and groups out there that have a vested interest in making sure you don't know that.

If you're on the fence don't listen to the propaganda. At the very least talk to a post op transfem before you decide.

Neopussies are the real deal and I just want as many folks as possible to know that.

curious what type of surgery OP had. afaik there aren't any that give you vaginal tissue that will self lubricate in response to arousal.

So here's the thing. I had a traditional PIV with hip grafts for added depth and convenience in regard to hair removal. While getting horny doesn't exactly flood my panties like in a hentai, I frequently have enough lubrication to easily have sex. I'll even have partners reach down during particularly intense make-out sessions and find that my thighs and labia are already basically soaked.

Lubrication was one of those things that really worried me when I was consulting with surgeons, and they all said the same thing, that neovaginas don't lubricate in response to arousal, but heres the thing, I never saw my surgeon after a three month video check up and I know that most surgeons stop seeing you after a year. I didn't even stop wearing pads for discharge until close to a year after sex and that isn't uncommon. Not to mention the fact that I've never even heard of a surgeon even asking about it in a post-op because they pretend that there's no way it could ever happen.

Now, I'm not trying to pretend that there's some kind of conspiracy to hide this from trans women because I don't think that's the case, but women's sexual health is a neglected field of research and trans women's sexual health even moreso. There simply isn't enough research to support or deny it, and surgeons tend to be very careful about making unproven claims.

At the end of the day, all I can say is that I, as a person, get on arousal, and from my sexual experience with more post op trans women than most people will *meet* in the average year I can safely say that I'm not the only one.

okay I'm posting properly about my electrolysis project cuz I'm actually starting to wrap up the planning stage and I have nowhere else to go but forward, so:

hi, corrected some incorrect figures in the op cuz I messed up my math pls reblog this version instead of the bad one also discord link once again just in case:

updating this post with some developments that have developed:

1. thanks to the pawesome generosity of some really cool girls from here, the initial test program has been completely funded! this test program will involve building 5 units as a trial run of the assembly process, as well as assessing any design changes that may be needed for future runs.

2. the first batch of components for the test program has been ordered and should be arriving Wednesdayish, so there should be some more updates then.

3. I'm currently looking into whether it will be possible for me to ship the machines internationally, which would massively increase the potential reach of the project.

as always, the discord is the best place to keep tabs on the project and see more detailed info about what I'm working on. massive shoutout to my lovely angelic backers 🫶

hi everyone - another update to my electrology saga.

thanks to some really truly angelic donations I'm pleased to announce that I now fully intend to pursue this project further with the intention of developing a revision of the device which can be mass-produced with the aim of being able to sell kits to girls all around the world!

obviously there are gonna be some kinks to work out, and a lot of bumps in the road, but I think this has a lot of potential to help a lot of people.

I'm still focusing my energy into finishing the rev1 test program right now but expect announcements about rev2 (hopefully) very soon!

as always this project would be nothing without the generosity of my lovely backers. if you want to contribute to the project please get in touch either here or on the discord (you are in the discord, right?)

also, I am a volunteer doing all of this in my spare time. if you want to help keep the human behind the project going, check out my kofi link in my bio.

I know a lot of people want PPV and thats amazing but I need you to understand if you want that make sure whoever your surgeon is will 100% comepletely preserve the bulbospongiosus muscle yes this is possible you need to talk to them beforehand some surgeons will do this but others will try to say they need to remove this its not necessary and practically unethical this muscle is really important for a number of reasons quality of life, urinary function preventing risks of UTI i just know theres a lot of people who are interested bc obviously its cool to have both there isnt a lot info about vaginoplasty, often surgeons dont do a good job of informing you what the nature of surgeries are and how it will feel in general and theres even less information about PPV