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This is by a patient of mine with early late stage dementia, who was a poet for most of her life. Her new poems are dictated to me during writing workshops I run at my hospice job. She hadn't written since her diagnosis. This is one of seventeen poems I've written with her so far.

posted with permission from herself and her family.

She died early this morning.

I’ve been doing poetry since I could write but I do think she was my only teacher.

Working with her was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I mean it when I say you all are so lucky to get even this glimpse at the majesty of her work.

In her words from another poem (not posted):

I am not the only creature watching
All of this,
Drinking it in.
I have a companion,
The cat who sleeps in the backyard
Is watching, too,
And there is so much to be.

because i post fundraisers on my main, i’ve held off on making a post about this user since i don’t want to deal with rape threats all the time, but i figure i should talk about him* somewhere because his tactics have changed and more people are aware of the bots but unaware of what they are or who’s running them.

if you’ve recently received a reply from a bot saying variants on things like “rape is good for you,” “i don’t understand why you refuse to be raped,” “i don’t think you can be redeemed,” “i’m sorry you aren’t getting raped enough,” “you are so ungrateful to the nice men trying to save you from your rape deficiency,” “i don’t understand why you choose to die,” “you do not get to destroy other peoples bodies,” as well as generic epithets like “pedophile” or “groomer,” you’ve brushed up against the extensive bot network run by a tumblr user formerly known as cockslinger (or numbered variants, as he continued to evade bans).

i became aware of him last year, when he began to harass a trans woman i was following; this was after his second or third ban. he has described himself as “nero,” a trans man “from the 1990s,” and is on an apparent crusade to rid the website of terfs, a category which initially included anyone he perceived as a feminist, though recently he seems to have zeroed in on blogs that use radfem / terf tags. some of the bot blogs appear to be dedicated to the harassment of just one blog; they reblog anything these users have reblogged, adding their own commentary from a limited pool of generated responses. if you’ve received these comments on a popular post, this is likely the reason.

he is obsessed with rape, and this makes up the majority of his threats. on his old main blog, he used to talk about curing feminists via “rape therapy.” the ideology presented by his blog and bots is that all feminists are terfs, all terfs are pedophilic rapists, and only rape or death can cure them. i’m explaining this outlook so that it will be easier to determine when you are being harassed by him; i expect he will change tactics eventually, but the condescending paternalistic tone, as well as the content and context of the threats, have thus far been consistent.

if you get a reply from one or more of these bots, report them as spam. this is the quickest and most accurate way to get the blogs shut down. if you see that the bot harassing you is reblogging from one specific blog, you may also be able to report for harassment. a month or so ago, i would have recommended you block @/mellowclaritystalker, or @/mellowclaritycocker, which appeared to be his mains, but i can no longer find these blogs. if anyone has any information on what blog the bots might now be operating from, or how exactly the bots work, please let me know, and i’ll update this post.

*i’m using “he” because those are the pronouns this blogger has previously presented to us, and it makes the distinction between the blogger (he, singular) and the bots (they, plural) clearer. in using this pronoun, i am not claiming belief in the cover story this blogger uses; i think it’s likely that this is a misogynistic and transphobic troll trying to harass women and make trans people look violent.

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

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naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

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naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

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naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

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naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

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naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

Please donate! I can’t imagine hearing such horrible news in his scenario. Bravery & strength have a limit. He needs help urgently, please donate.

If anyone could match my donation, I put $20 in today. A fraction of that, a reblog, anything helps. Just please, help my friend out if you can.

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naderalanqar2007

OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD... OH MY GOD...

The doctors told me that if nothing changes in the next twelve hours, my father will die. His blood has become very thin, and every minute that passes is heavier than the last.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

They explained that he was still on life support, and I was told they couldn't continue his treatment indefinitely because I could no longer afford the exorbitant medical costs. I stood there speechless, feeling as if the ground had vanished beneath me.

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naderalanqar2007

I'm begging you, I'm in Gaza, watching my father bleed before my eyes, unable to stop it. Donate now and help me save his life before it's too late. Donate now on GoFundMe

Please donate! I can’t imagine hearing such horrible news in his scenario. Bravery & strength have a limit. He needs help urgently, please donate.

Israel has violated the "ceasefire" countless times since it began, killing more than 1,200 Palestinians since October 10th, 2025. Attacks on medical warehouses near a hospital happened Saturday. Al Jazeera reported on the attacks here.

If you have the means to help a family in Gaza, please consider helping Nader's. His father is currently fighting cancer, and due to the limited medical resources, it's extremely difficult to treat.

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My father is still in the hospital, and his health is deteriorating. He desperately needs help. The costs here are incredibly high due to the border closures and the ban on medicine. Please donate now and help save my father from death. Please donate now.

As usual I implore you to help Nader however you can. He needs support more every day without donations.

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This is what's happening in the pitch-black nights of Gaza. Gaza, isolated from the world, where genocide and ethnic cleansing are taking place right now, while you scroll through your phone and browse the internet. Gaza is being exterminated. This is what the nights in Gaza are like.

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Besides the relentless bombing, which hasn't stopped even though Israel said it would abide by a ceasefire and wouldn't bomb, Israel doesn't care about international law or humanity. They are besieging us, preventing us from traveling, cutting off our medicine and medical equipment. Everything that's secret in the world is happening here now.

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If we survive the bombing, we won't survive death from illness, as is happening to my father now. He is battling cancer and is on the verge of collapse because of it. In addition, he has blocked arteries, which is a major crisis for him. Please help us get out of here and donate so we can survive until we can leave the hell of Gaza. Please donate now.

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We have continued to struggle to survive thanks to your donations and support. Please don't stop helping and donating. Every little you give makes a big difference in buying medicine and food. Please donate now.

Please help Nader and his family. Donate to help them survive the horrors of the genocide happening in Gaza right now. Donate; every donation makes a difference. Nader's campaign has been verified by Gazavetters and is number 4 on their list. If everyone who shares this post donates $10, it will be a huge help to Nader's family. Please donate.

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Every little helps, even $10 makes a big difference. Please donate; we need €2300 to reach our goal. Please be our support and donate now; you are our last hope.

Please donate. Help Nader this situation is unimaginable. He is being incredibly resilient but man, he needs money.

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naderalanqar2007

This is what's happening in the pitch-black nights of Gaza. Gaza, isolated from the world, where genocide and ethnic cleansing are taking place right now, while you scroll through your phone and browse the internet. Gaza is being exterminated. This is what the nights in Gaza are like.

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naderalanqar2007

Besides the relentless bombing, which hasn't stopped even though Israel said it would abide by a ceasefire and wouldn't bomb, Israel doesn't care about international law or humanity. They are besieging us, preventing us from traveling, cutting off our medicine and medical equipment. Everything that's secret in the world is happening here now.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

If we survive the bombing, we won't survive death from illness, as is happening to my father now. He is battling cancer and is on the verge of collapse because of it. In addition, he has blocked arteries, which is a major crisis for him. Please help us get out of here and donate so we can survive until we can leave the hell of Gaza. Please donate now.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

We have continued to struggle to survive thanks to your donations and support. Please don't stop helping and donating. Every little you give makes a big difference in buying medicine and food. Please donate now.

Please help Nader and his family. Donate to help them survive the horrors of the genocide happening in Gaza right now. Donate; every donation makes a difference. Nader's campaign has been verified by Gazavetters and is number 4 on their list. If everyone who shares this post donates $10, it will be a huge help to Nader's family. Please donate.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

Every little helps, even $10 makes a big difference. Please donate; we need €2300 to reach our goal. Please be our support and donate now; you are our last hope.

Please donate. Help Nader this situation is unimaginable. He is being incredibly resilient but man, he needs money.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

This is what's happening in the pitch-black nights of Gaza. Gaza, isolated from the world, where genocide and ethnic cleansing are taking place right now, while you scroll through your phone and browse the internet. Gaza is being exterminated. This is what the nights in Gaza are like.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

Besides the relentless bombing, which hasn't stopped even though Israel said it would abide by a ceasefire and wouldn't bomb, Israel doesn't care about international law or humanity. They are besieging us, preventing us from traveling, cutting off our medicine and medical equipment. Everything that's secret in the world is happening here now.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

If we survive the bombing, we won't survive death from illness, as is happening to my father now. He is battling cancer and is on the verge of collapse because of it. In addition, he has blocked arteries, which is a major crisis for him. Please help us get out of here and donate so we can survive until we can leave the hell of Gaza. Please donate now.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

We have continued to struggle to survive thanks to your donations and support. Please don't stop helping and donating. Every little you give makes a big difference in buying medicine and food. Please donate now.

Please help Nader and his family. Donate to help them survive the horrors of the genocide happening in Gaza right now. Donate; every donation makes a difference. Nader's campaign has been verified by Gazavetters and is number 4 on their list. If everyone who shares this post donates $10, it will be a huge help to Nader's family. Please donate.

Avatar
naderalanqar2007

Every little helps, even $10 makes a big difference. Please donate; we need €2300 to reach our goal. Please be our support and donate now; you are our last hope.

Please donate. Help Nader this situation is unimaginable. He is being incredibly resilient but man, he needs money.