Welcome to My Blog!

Hi there, lovely! I’m so glad you’re here. I’m a young wife, homemaker, and most importantly, a follower of Jesus. I was blessed to marry my wonderful husband in November 2024, and every day, I strive to honor God by embracing biblical womanhood, nurturing my marriage, and cultivating a home filled with love, warmth, and faith. We want to have a large family, I currently have two babies in heaven. If it’s Gods will we will be blessed with more earth-side babies ❤️

I believe in living a life that reflects God’s perfect design, one of gentleness, purity, and devotion. My heart is set on serving Christ first and foremost, and second to Him, my husband, whom I joyfully submit to as my leader and protector. I cherish the beauty of traditional values, which shape every part of my life, spiritually, emotionally, and physically.

I used to identify as nonbinary, gay, a feminist, and a witch. During that time, I struggled deeply with depression, anxiety, and constant spiritual oppression. But Jesus met me in my brokenness, rescued me from darkness, and completely transformed my life. I no longer live in confusion, He gave me peace, identity, and freedom. Glory to God.

What I Stand For

✨ The Sanctity of Life

This blog is pro-life, because every child is fearfully and wonderfully made by God (Psalm 139:13-16). Life begins at conception, and every baby has a God-given purpose. I believe in supporting women with love, resources, and guidance so that no mother feels alone in choosing life.

✨ The Dangers of Pornography

This blog is anti-porn, because pornography destroys hearts, marriages, and intimacy as God intended it. It turns real love into something selfish and empty, leading to addiction, shame, and broken relationships. I believe in fighting for purity and God-honoring relationships that reflect true, selfless love.

✨ Biblical Marriage & Submission

I believe in God’s design for marriage—a covenant between one man and one woman. As a wife, I embrace submission as a beautiful, biblical calling, trusting my husband’s leadership and honoring him in my words, actions, and heart. Love, respect, and obedience to God’s Word create a strong, joyful, and lasting marriage.

✨ Biblical Womanhood & Femininity

I am passionate about biblical femininity, modesty, and creating a home that reflects Christ’s love. I believe true beauty isn’t just about how we look, but about having a gentle, quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:4). In a world that devalues womanhood, I strive to embrace my role as a wife and future mother with joy and grace.

✨ My Perspective on Feminism

I do not agree with today’s version of feminism, which rejects traditional femininity, submission, and the beauty of God’s design. However, I do believe women should have the right to vote and make choices for themselves. Women are not less valuable than men, but we are beautifully different, and our strengths should be celebrated rather than diminished by a culture that seeks to erase them.

✨ My Beliefs on Gender & Sexuality

I personally do not believe men can become women or that women can become men. I do not agree with the LGBTQ lifestyle, and you will not find me in support of it on this blog. However, I have nothing against those who choose to live this way—you are a valuable human being, just like the rest of us. My belief is simply that marriage was created by God to be between a biological man and a biological woman. If you disagree, this may not be the blog for you.

A Few Things About Me

• I love to cook! (I once dreamed of being a chef, but my heart is too tender for the food industry.)

• Children are my joy! I work in childcare and find so much fulfillment in nurturing little hearts.

• I love reading! (The Phantom Tollbooth is my favorite book!)

• I enjoy poetry, songwriting, and drawing. (I may not be the best artist, but I love creating beauty in every form!)

• I make soap, lotion, and tinctures as I learn more about natural living.

• I strive to be a good, submissive wife and grow in grace, patience, and humility every day.

Why I Started This Blog

Marriage is a journey, and I want to share mine with you—the joys, the lessons, and the ways God is shaping me into a better wife and homemaker. My goal is to encourage other women to embrace biblical womanhood, cherish their marriages, and build homes that reflect God’s love. ❤️

If you value faith, femininity, and the beauty of a God-centered life, you’re in the right place. I pray that this blog blesses and encourages you as we grow together in grace and truth.

With love,

thatgentlewife

Today’s to do:

I am feeling a bit under the weather because of this medication I’m on for my autoimmune symptoms, so I’m going to try to take lots of breaks in between all of this to keep myself steady. 🙏

✅ Make bed

✅ Pick things up off of floor

⭕️ Wipe down surfaces

✅ Vacuum

⭕️ Mop

✅ Do a load of laundry

✅ Change cat litter

✅ Empty dishwasher

⭕️ Meal prep for week ahead

⭕️ Finish sewing pants

⭕️ take out trash

⭕️ Clean out car

Hope you’re all able to get your chores done today too! 🫂

(Also I will respond to dms around 5:30pm-6pm when I am done for the day <3)

Hot take:

Calling your husband “daddy” is sickening. He’s your husband, not your father.

God didn’t give us marriage so women could roleplay as children. He gave us marriage so a man could lead his wife as Christ leads the church, and so a wife could respect her husband as her head (Eph. 5:22–25).

If you want to honor your husband, call him what he is: my man, my leader, my protector, my love. Not “daddy.” 🤢

Some of our house + marriage rules that keep the peace & protect our love 🏡💍

House rules:

• no alcohol (unless for cooking )

• no shoes in the house (clean floors = happy me)

• always talk before big purchases

• phones stay off the dinner table

• everyone cleans up after themselves

• Sundays = church + rest day

Marriage rules:

• speak respectfully to each other in public

• never talk bad about each other to family/friends

• no “D” word (we don’t even joke about divorce)

• we share locations (for safety + peace of mind)

• I ask before spending money (working on being disciplined 💸)

• pray together every day

• never go to bed angry

• some form of affection daily (kiss, hug, hand-hold, etc.)

Do any of you have rules in our home? 🩷

Something not a lot of women will talk about in here but I feel I must, is how hard waiting seasons can be.

As most of you know, I’ve recently become a stay at home wife because of my autoimmune condition. This has been a desire in my heart for a long time but to be quite honest I didn’t picture it this way.

My husband and I were pregnant in February expecting me to start maternity leave next month. But the unexpected happened and we lost our second baby in April.

I had always hoped to be at home, not by myself but with one of our little ones.

For reasons only God knows this season looks different than how I imagined it. I am quite content with His plan, though there are days that are easier than others.

There are days that I look at the pregnancy tests I took just to remind myself it really did happen. Watch videos of women who’ve experienced loss finally get their rainbow baby.

But until then, I aspire to make the most of this season God has allowed me to endure. For I know, He is a good father who gives good and perfect gifts to His children.

To those who are also in waiting seasons, of any kind, I see you and pray God is close to you every step of the way.

<3 thatgentlewife

As a tradwife, I hate that people correlate us with stepford wives. Yuck. Nope. Not a brainless bimbo thanks

I was really touched today when my husband looked at me and said, “you make it so easy to come home to.” That’s exactly what I want our home to be, a place of rest, joy, and safety.

As someone who didn’t grow up in a household like this, it reminded me how important it is not only to make the house a welcoming place, but also to be a welcoming place. A husband doesn’t just need a clean home, he needs a wife who greets him with warmth, peace, and love, the kind of love that flows from Christ. Proverbs 31 says, “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.” That’s what I want to embody.

The world is harsh and draining, but home should be the opposite. It should be where our husbands feel wanted, respected, and cared for. A soft word, a smile at the door, a meal on the table, a spirit of gentleness, these are little things, but they breathe life into a man’s heart.

I’m learning that being a wife means creating an atmosphere where my husband knows he is loved, honored, and safe. That’s the kind of home God calls us to build. ♥️

<3 thatgentlewife

I wanted to do this too tehe 🤭

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Hi everyone 🩷

Day 2 of posting my to do lists on here so I’ll actually get them done 😅

✅ Make bed

✅ Eat breakfast

✅ Pick up Laundry

✅ Fold/put away laundry

✅ Take library books back

✅ Go on a long walk

✅ Empty dishwasher

✅ Load dishwasher

⭕️ Organize office

✅ Prep dinner

Praying I’m able to get it all done!! 🙏

Let me know what you guys are getting done today, we can motivate each other

<3 thatgentlewife