Shout out to non-binary people who do want to be seen as a third gender.
Shout out to non-binary people who seek any form of androgyny.
Shout out to non-binary people who have a strong sense of gender and are not completely "opting out" of gender.
Shout out to non-binary people who do want to belong in a certain box and care about labels.
Shout out to non-binary people who care about being misgendered and are not gender-apathetic.
Shout out to non-binary people who consider themselves cis, or neither cis nor trans for any reason.
Shout out to non-binary people who consider themselves cis, or neither cis nor trans due to being intersex.
Shout out to non-binary people whose identity has a reason.
Shout out to ALL nonbinary people who are considered "stereotypical", get little positivity, and every time their identity is mentioned, it's to remind other people they don't have to be like them.
"Nonbinary is not a third gender" for some people it is. "Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny" but we're allowed to desire it. "Being nonbinary is a rebellion against gender roles" if it is for you, cool. But my gender is not a political movement and not everyone feels comfortable with statements like this.
Bonus: shout out to all alloaces, aroallos, and non-SAM aspecs. 99% of all content under asexual or aromantic tags is just aroace stuff
so as a trans nonbinary person I'm rather used to people telling me the gender based oppression that I face is "not real" or "made up" or "unimportant" or any other bs used to either erase or diminish it; so when I see another group of trans people who's gender based oppression is described as "not real" or "made up" forgive me if my reaction is "oh shit those people are going through the same stuff I went through" instead of "surely the critics weren't right about me but when they say the exact same bullshit to another trans group they're entirely right this time" -_-
a pattern ive noticed
Non binary characters' ships always getting tagged as yaoi or yuri. Exorsexism but qls9 diamoricism?
This is diamoricism (which inherently branches from exorsexism.)
The only times it is ever okay to label a relationship with an enban as yaoi or yuri is if the character themselves has canonically done as such, or if the character has canonically expressed being binary-aligned (and expressed being okay with binary terms) and is with someone else who is binary/binary-aligned
Instead, use the following terms (which function in the same way sapphic and achillean do):
- Diamoric (Any relationship that involves a non-binary person)
- Enbian (EnbyxEnby)
- Toric (Enbyxman) or Adonic (ManxEnby)
- Trixic (Enbyxwoman) or Maedic (WomanxEnby)
Or use these terms (which function in the same way that lesbian, uranian, and straight do):
- Ceteramoric (Enby Primarily attracted to enbies)
- Viramoric (Enby primarily attracted to men)
- Feminamoric (Enby primarily attracted to women)
- Tria[sexual/romantic/platonic/etc] (Anyone, binary or non-binary, who is primarily attracted to Enbies. Ceteramoric falls under this.)
(Feel free to reblog and tag any ships from any fandom that involves a non-binary character. Spread the word.)
Just a wee reminder that the first recording of neopronouns was 1789, one of the oldest noted examples of neopronouns were 'thon'! And also remember the key word 'recorded' so that means neopronouns could've existed even WAY before that
(Edit! Thon was actually created in 1858! And in 1789 it was 'ou', sry for not updating that quick enough 😅)
