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"this was all for you"

✧ 𝐋𝐔𝐂𝐘 ! ━━━ she/her ,, femme lesbian ,, enfp ,, nineteen ,, gemini ,, aotearoa / nz ,, professional yapper ,, your dream girl's dream girl , avid lover of platonic love ,, writer (in theory) ,, artist ,, proffessional thrifter ,, @pinkwinesupernovas my luz ,, extended intro ,, saw ethel cain 14/02/2026

where to find me: pinterest ,, spotify ,, close mutuals can ask for insta!!

currently… probably sleeping, at uni, or crafting ,, rewatching... all early mcu and thg franchise ,, listening to... june 26 and girl so in love <3
Anonymous asked:

i'm a semester into university and i feel like i haven't made any friends. there's a million events i want to go to because they all sound so cool but i don't want to be that one person who shows up to things by myself. i feel so isolated.

do it alone!!!! i know it's scary but no one is judging you for being alone. the time will pass anyway, if you do not go to the things you want to go to you will regret it. do not sit in your isolation and loneliness waiting for people to magically appear in your life, the right people will find you when you start putting yourself out there. even if that takes a while, learning to be happy and sufficient in your own company is an invaluable life skill xx

Anonymous asked:

can you explain butch and femme being different to masc and fem? no one on tiktok ever gives a straightforward answer and i feel like you would know

hello hello and of course!!! i am of course a baby gay so i may have missed a few things or gotten a few details wrong xx

in the simplest terms, masc and fem are simply presentation and aesthetic focused umbrella terms that can be used by anyone who presents masc/fem. wheras, butch is a lesbian sociopolitical identity that also involves presenting masculine, but first and foremost it is an identity rooted in the history of lesbian bar culture around the 1940s and has a deep connection with antifascism. femme is also a lesbian sociopolitical identity and the role of a femme lesbian in history was primarily to protect butches due to the fact that they could hide their queerness with a more palatable feminine presentation, and they could protect butch lesbians from the harassment they faced from police and street violence. there are likely things i'm missing because i only went into a surface level history because i wanted to know what the terms meant so i didn't missuse them :)