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if you are currently going through a burnout just know that you will get better. you can change how you think and how you live. you will still struggle with the same problems but it will be manageable and that will make all the difference – that will be enough. three years ago i was in such a bad place when i got burned out which in turn led to the break-up of my long-term relationship and childhood trauma resurfacing. most days i only had the energy to drag myself to (online) therapy and to microwave a meal and i spent the rest of my time in bed. i was so miserable that i didn't know what to do with myself and didn't see how i could possibly live a happy and healthy life again. i could only try and trust that it would get better. and it did! slowly most of the times, and sometimes with big steps. i can see that now. i am currently the happiest that i have been in many years, and i feel more myself than before. my life does not look like the glamorous impressive picture that i always envisioned, but that's okay. i can cook my own meals again, i can travel again, i can even work again and earn my own money. i am in a loving relationship that i never imagined i could get. it's a life that fits me. i had to go through a very bad time in order to get here, but i am glad that it happened. and i promise it will get better for you, too

came across this photo from december of K eating world's smallest pancakes, envelopes that they were throwing away at work and that i took home to use for our wedding invitations, and our beautiful gochujang gnocchi dinner 🥚

Anonymous asked:

I love your gentleness towards your sister. The fish looks great! I hope she gets to store many, many bath bombs!

thank you, that's very kind!! 😊

these books were given away for free and all of them were about arctic expeditions and travelling to & living in cold climates. must have been the collection of someone with a specific interest. i wonder if they ever travelled to a place like those in the books or if they stuck to reading and daydreaming about it.

libanese takeaway for my father's retirement surprise party + trying on my wedding dress and practicing some sitting postures

chocolate/strawberry cake + bought a cute watering can + wearable toile bodice for wedding dress #2 (the actual dress will be white ☁️)

we're making plans to go to the uk this summer from mid july to early august – we're thinking of driving via london and through yorkshire and then taking a ferry to northern ireland and driving on to the giants causeway as our destination, and then taking a different route back again. exciting!! any mutuals who would like to meet up if i pass your neck of the woods?