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life has lowkey been hellish for me as of late vut I get to buy small doodle commissions of friebdlocke characters and I get to watch my friend get excited and it makes me happy

also my sister apparently has been using ao3 and i didnt know that so like its awesome to find out shes based too

life has lowkey been hellish for me as of late vut I get to buy small doodle commissions of friebdlocke characters and I get to watch my friend get excited and it makes me happy

you know how it is

also the average they on their period but that’s only because of my expedition to get a crab out of the Pacific Ocean with nothing but two sticks for my grandma. I’m like spiders georg.

okay genuine question

For about the past year or so, I have been taking care of my widowed grandma. She has early dementia, Parkinson's disease, and English is not her first language. She has trouble hearing, does not wear her hearing aids around the house, and has trouble communicating what she does or does not know.

why me and not other family members? my sister is 15 (turning 16 soon) and is working a few tutoring jobs and does not deserve this pressure.

my mom is her primary daytime caretaker

my dad is the main provider for the family and works a job that has odd hours and high stress.

my uncles unemployed and takes her grocery shopping where he uses her credit card to pay for his groceries. no he is not popular in the family right now and would most likely continue to pull this shit.

both dad and uncle have a very tense relationship with her and i am starting to understand why

I have:

  • Been woken up at 2 AM to turn off a light downstairs that does not light up her bedroom.
  • Lived through all summer with a non functioning air conditioner in a house that gets to 87 degrees during the day.
  • Kept the second story windows closed at night due to grandma's extreme paranoia.
  • Had her come into my room while I am butt naked, asleep, spread out on the mattress because it is 85 degrees in my room to lean over me and close my open window at 2 am and only being told after the fact by my mother.
  • Check all the doors every night before I go to bed
  • Run laundry for hand towels and her
  • Go grocery shopping for the household
  • Been made to wake up at 4:45 AM to open up all the windows throughout July to keep the house from overheating.
  • Been asked after I get in bed several times to do something.
  • Changed my college plans to take care of her.
  • Had a curfew assigned to before dark not because I can't be with friends but because my grandma gets paranoid.

I have been given $50 dollars so far when I set my college choice in stone.

Gas, groceries and house bills are not charged to me. I do not pay rent or spend money on my own groceries. I do not pay for gas because my mom and sister use the car more frequently than I do.

reblog for a larger sample size please im trying to gauge.

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so like. people really blew over the fact that capturecharles sent porn to a minor unsolicited? great to see shes back.

i'd like to reiterate that this isnt me saying that i want her gone this is me venting my frustration that shes back. just because i'm frustrated doesn't mean she should go again. it just means that i am feeling frustrated.

do you guys think that if you drew zohran mamdani as a warrior cat he'd respond to it.

A SkyClan family

I actually really like these guys. I know not a lot of people like the latter half of AVOS (i think it could've been done better), but I think it was interesting to read. I like how Violetshine turned out like Hawkwing, despite everything. With Darktail killing their parent (or parental figure),Violetshine really is her daddy's girl. They're both angry and sad and probably need therapy and I like that. I like to imagine Violetshine styles her hair in a pompadour, keeping a bit of that rebellious fashion.

Twigbranch needs a break oml. After the imposter and Finleap and Sparkpelt being her mentor, she really needs something good for her. I hope she never has kits, partially to keep ThunderClan's numbers down but I'd really like to see a cat say "Hey, I'm not ready for kits now." and figure out that they don't want kits ever. It'd be awesome. Pebbleshine funny as hell though. Can we get more funny cats.