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If you answer things privately then the messages disappear, so filter #birthday 2026 if you find that annoying hehe 😅

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If you answer things privately then the messages disappear, so filter #birthday 2026 if you find that annoying hehe 😅

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hi! i saw your post about mulder’s attachment style and was wondering what you think of scully’s attachment style and how these styles might interact in positive and negative aspects of the msr relationship dynamics?

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omgggg what a fun question, thank you 🥹

okay, so this post is what the ask is referring to and also has my disclaimers about attachment style.

SO. Scully. My girl. The very picture of an avoidant attachment. But I think the second part of your question is what makes this so fun to answer, because as I said in the Mulder post, you can 1) have different attachment styles in different relationships and 2) develop over the years to become more secure (or insecure) in your attachments overall depending on what your relationships are like. And what I love about Scully and Mulder together is that they truly give each other the corrective emotional experience they need to eventually form a secure attachment with one another.

hiiii these posts are awesome and whenever you have some time, do you want to give some specific examples?

Ooooh okay, I think I’ll go chronologically. I started with doing one for Scully and one for Mulder, but what I've found is that so much of their growth is intertwined and it doesn't make sense to split them up that way! Hopefully this makes some sense.

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hi! i saw your post about mulder’s attachment style and was wondering what you think of scully’s attachment style and how these styles might interact in positive and negative aspects of the msr relationship dynamics?

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omgggg what a fun question, thank you 🥹

okay, so this post is what the ask is referring to and also has my disclaimers about attachment style.

SO. Scully. My girl. The very picture of an avoidant attachment. But I think the second part of your question is what makes this so fun to answer, because as I said in the Mulder post, you can 1) have different attachment styles in different relationships and 2) develop over the years to become more secure (or insecure) in your attachments overall depending on what your relationships are like. And what I love about Scully and Mulder together is that they truly give each other the corrective emotional experience they need to eventually form a secure attachment with one another.

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fic: tell me your story

by handwrittengarden

rating: general audiences status: in progress pairing: Fox Mulder & Dana Scully tags: established relationship, love letters, fluff and angst, canon compliant, or at least MY canon compliant warnings: none apply. chapters: 1 2  3  4  6  7  8  9  10

SUMMARY: Scully writes Mulder letters in a journal during their season 9 separation.

NOTES

I love letters and really wanted to write this collection; that said, I am not a big fan of season 9 and do not particularly want to rewatch it… even for the sake of this fic. Therefore, please accept my apologies for any errors I make in regard to the timeline or details of season 9 canon. Title is from "Home" by Sara Bareilles: "so tell me your story, I'll tell you mine." Felt fitting since this collection of letters is, in a sense, the story of William's life. This is a work in progress. I wasn't sure if I was going to keep writing this, so I decided to just post the first letter and see... but I think I'll keep going. Which leads us to this post.