as a mixed race arab/black/indigenous girly, this scene made me feel so incredibly seen and understood. i'm lucky in that all of the arabs, black folk, and indigenous folk i've met/in my community have always accepted me as one of their own and never questioned my identity, but i see online that a lot of mixed folk feel like their identity is constantly being questioned, even within their own communities. i will always stand 10 toes down that i am not conglomeration of percentages of anything; i'm 100% black, i'm 100% arab, i'm 100% indigenous---and they are all 100% me. i feel like i'm lucky to have been around people and communities that accept that, and i wish i could give that to other mixed folk, especially mixed kids and teens. anyhoo, this scene from you started it by jackie khalilieh reminded me of that, and it was so lovely to read.