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“If men had breasts” “if men had vaginas” “if men got pregnant” “if men got periods” “if men” EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE HAPPENS TO MEN.

Bashing the heads of Anti endos with my favorite hammer <3

Seeing people come into my reblogs admitting they're "Neu" Endo because they don't want beef is funny and deeply disheartening. Oh so ure fine with just standing in the sidelines and letting others be ostracized and harassed because u don't wanna feel even a twinge of their suffering? Because actually defending and supporting us is too much of a chore and not worth it? Alright. Great going guys. Keeping Your Peace while the rest of us who aren't given the chance suffer. Pop off ig.

We need to spread otherlink and transspecies propaganda NOW. I see so many post where someone is like “I want to identify as a fox ^_^” and everyone is like “NO. Therianthropy is not voluntary, you POSER! You’re just otherpaw!” Hey. You can willingly be an animal. You know that right? Therianthropy isn’t the only form of being an alterhuman. We should educate people on labels they can use instead of assuming they are malicious.

cluster B does NOT mean abuser

Cluster C does NOT mean abuser

Cluster A does NOT mean abuser

NPD does NOT mean abuser

BPD does NOT mean abuser

ASPD does NOT mean abuser

No/low empathy does NOT mean abuser

Personality disorder does NOT mean abuser

You are just ableist

really recommend getting a partner with a different religion than you and very little knowledge of your religion because the opportunities for explaining things to each other are just exquisite

yesterday she told me some story about the Buddha's wife and child and I was like. Wait. He fucked? And she was like yeah of course he fucked, why wouldn't he, he was the most attractive and loveable and and wise and etc. person who ever lived. why would he not fuck.

this morning she looked perplexed in the kitchen at me and said "did Jesus not fuck?"

sorry to everyone out there who thinks they have the funniest tshirt but i think i can confidently say i just saw the actual funniest tshirt just now. i passed by a beautiful black woman with long multicolor braids blowing majestically in the beach breeze & she was wearing an oversized tshirt that said in gigantic letters "WHITE BOY OF THE YEAR"

I get that this is mostly a me thing but seeing so many posts making fun of "holy blood cannibalism pomegranate deer" style writing just makes me sad ;-; . guys that's a lot of people's first stab at poetry that's hobby art that's a vulnerable thing to post those are passion projects...

also this might be my bias as a vampire liker showing but. have you guys SEEN blood?

the truth is if you're writing poetry just keep writing it no matter what people say because someone is going to say something SO mean no matter WHAT you write, and what you've written will still be 100% more impactful to the world than whatever they say about it. i recently saw my own like 7 year old tweet pop up on pinterest and it remains true

[image description: two tweets by vampireapologist (@/mallaidhanne).

the first reads: "Hate how much we make fun of melodramatic poetry in this day & age. Ur not better than any 16 year old pouring their heart out on tumblr just bc you refuse to embrace the mortifying ordeal that is the spectrum of human emotions and passion and yearning like the rest of us".

the second reads: "Anyway my point is that any person who writes a dramatic poem, a sappy song, paints or dances or sings, no matter how "good" the end result is, has done something infinitely more valuable than the people who make fun of them. Enough callousness. Try giving something to the world."]

my mutuals

every time a disabled person dyes their hair or gets a piercing and expresses bodily autonomy an ableist drops dead <3

Neurotypical people love to insert themselves into discussions about autism with some bullshit like “My neighbor’s cousin’s wife’s friend whom I met briefly in the summer of ‘09 is autistic and if you don’t present exactly like them, I’m gonna call you a disability LARPer”.

I'm uhhh just gonna say this once. Just a quick little thing.

I an anti radqueer given how... open they are to certain subjects but I am also against the "radnormal" label.. thing.

I also find that anyone who has a "radnormal" blog all have this massive red flag they're raising. Cause the entire purpose of the blog is to say how much they want rqs dead and like... buddy.. no one likes you when you're just sitting on your PC or phone writing down how much you want to see another person dead on the streets. No one who has any amount of mental health wants to be around someone who spends hours bad mouthing people they dislike in ways that strip them of their humanity.

No one likes you when you're being a dick and only want to talk bad about others. You "found a good way to hate people" and people who don't like that won't like you for doing it, which again is most people who aren't also sucked into the hate train. What happens in these groups when you stop hating for a second? When you try to breathe and live your life for a day, what do you come back to?

I have the same questions for anti endos actually... what happens in your system spaces when you're not blaming endos for things? Are you "allowed" to just exist in those groups talking about your headmates, or maybe sharing ways to talk to your therapists/psychiatrists? Do you talk to the same people you scream at endos with about that funny interaction with a fictive? Do you talk about that thing you got to make that one system member happy? Do you talk about the struggles of doing dishes while someone won't stop scream singing the macarena?

Are you allowed to exist in these same spaces, with these same people, when you're not talking about hating someone else?