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lila ཐི༏ཋྀ

@cursedbutterfly

⊹ ࣪ ˖ my personal blog 𓏲ּ𝄢

°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・°❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ my name is lila !

i’m 17 i’m from the U.S.A. (sadly) my birthday is nov. 13th

scorpio sun , taurus moon , capricorn rising & INFP

st0n3r ☮︎ 𖥸 𖠞 ༄˚

i luv my boyfriend sm 𑣲⋆ @mattbuddy239 𑣲⋆

current follower count : ~107 ♡

⏔⏔⏔ ꒰ ᧔ෆ᧓ ꒱ ⏔⏔⏔

i’m bi & asexual , i don’t identify with any gender & accept any pronouns ! i am very feminine leaning though

i’m athiest/agnostic

!!! DNI : basic dni (racists, homo/transphobes, p3dos, zoos, maps, magas, pro-lifers, terfs, abelists) + endos, radfems, pro/darkshippers, anti-recovery, men over 20, n$fw dedicated accounts

my fandoms & interests below ! ⤵︎

Tw: just general sexuality, mention of sexual attraction, ect, not too graphic, not nsfw

Istg if I see one more water down of asexuality to "DONT LIKE SEX, NEVER WILL HAVE SEX, NEVER THINK ABOUT SEX, HATES SEX" I'll personally shoot this individual myself. This is not to say that such people don't exist, of course they do! And they are as valid as anyone else! But is an umbrella!!

One may desire sexual activities, but not feel attraction.
One may engage in sexual activities even if not feeling the attraction.
Ones libido may simply not align to their sexuality.
One may dislike every possible idea of sex.
One may like sensual touch, but feel uncomfortable from the waist down.
One may just feel attraction under specific circumstances

These are all A FEW of the MULTIPLE ways that someone's asexuality may present as. And THEY ARE ALL VALID!!

do i really have to do work and study and do things to survive😢😢😢😢😢😞😞😞😞😞☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️really?????😢😢😢😢☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️😿😿

You're not an ally if you don't support queer poc.

You're not an ally if you don't support transfeminine individuals.

You're not an ally if you don't support neopronouns.

You're not an ally if you support politicians that harm queer individuals.

You're not an ally if you don't count aroace people as lgbtqia.

You're not an ally if you erase intersex individuals.

You're not an ally if you discredit orientations under the aroace spectrum.

You're not an ally if you sexualize queer individuals.

You're not an ally if you tell people you're 'one of the normal/good ones'.

Maybe you just suck.

You're not a ally if you dont support xenogenders and Xenopronouns.

You're not a ally forcing anyone to change the way they present if it doesn't fit you're idea of their gender.

You're not a ally if you dont support transmasculine people.

You're not a ally if you dont support disabled queer people.

You're not a ally if you dont support mainly queer systems.

You're not a ally if you dont support queer headmates in mainly cishet systems.

You're not a ally if you dont support mainly queer polyminds.

You're not a ally if you dont support queer parts of mainly cishet polyminds

You're not a ally if you shame others for the people they love.

You're not a ally if you don't support contradicting labels.

You're not a ally if you dont stop using the q slur when others say not too as it makes them uncomfortable.

You're not a ally if you use ANY slur to harm queer people.

You're not a ally if you call someone a slur because you "have a pass" or are LGBTQ yourself. Don't call people slurs.

" yan4yan " , " t4t " , ok well what about idiot4idiot . dumb4dumb . where we have literally 0 idea what we're doing .

Having a jirai blog while ur doing surprisingly good is so embarrassing

I ain’t got stuff to post abt, haven’t crashed out in like a week

Let's get to know each other

tagged by @killdear4 !! thank you for always including me in these <3

hair color: dirty blonde is the closest word in english i could find to describe my hair :⁠-⁠P (русые!!)

favorite color(s): historically orange but as of right now blue and pink ♡

favorite drink(s): milkshake, herbal tea, sweet black tea, cherry juice

one thing you love about yourself: my creativity :-)

if you could be any animal, what would you be?: a mouse!!

dream place to visit: Rome !!

what's one thing you're looking forward to right now?: going to a toy store to buy a new plushie <3

your biggest dream: my country becoming less homophobic✌🏼

song that's permanently on repeat: tear you apart by she wants revenge

Fawn's turn!

Hair: black (occasional grey hairs).

Favourite colours: white, mint green, pink, blue, black, red.

Favourite drinks: peppermint tea, mocha, hot choco, fanta twist and tango cherry.

One thing I love about myself: my fashion sense.

If you could be any animal you'd be: a fawn, a cat, or a raven.

Dream place to visit: Italy

One thing I'm looking forward to: going back to college, Fawn misses her irl friends (few)

Biggest dream: being rich, having my dream job (interior designer), having a house

Song that's permanently on repeat: Vanished by Crystal Castles and HRT by Girl Rituals

HAIR COLOR: natural? dark dark brown. but i always dye it (most of the time black) FAVORITE COLORS: pink + black! FAVORITE DRINKS: monster energy either the white one or ultra strawberry dreams. green tea, and water SOMETHING I LOVE ABOUT MYSELF: i don't love much. i'm very disappointed in myself a lot of the time. i would say that i love my ability to make the people that i love laugh. IF I COULD BE ANY ANIMAL: definitely an orange cat. taking catnaps in the sun, having zooms across the house, doing catnip. hell yeah. DREAM PLACE TO VISIT: japan!!! i want to go to every part. super excited to see all the brilliant cities and all the gorgeous farmlands. i plan on travelling there as soon as we save up some money. plus then i can buy clothes without the international shipping fees ONE THING IM LOOKING FORWARD TO: more online shopping. adding to my wardrobe and transforming my bedroom BIGGEST DREAM: own a house with my partner, start a food garden in our yard, some animals, and sitting on the porch together sipping our drinks of choice, spending the rest of our days together in love and in peace. SONG THATS ALWAYS ON REPEAT: idk but lately the literal only thing ive listened to is senketsuakochan

thank you for the tag!! ヾ(^∇^) it was super fun to do

Thank you for the tag.

hair color: Brown with hints of red.

favorite color(s): I like a lot of colors, but especially lavender purple and gold.

favorite drink(s): Lavender lemonade boba, (virgin) strawberry daiquiris, pepsi, etc.

one thing you love about yourself: My intelligence and academic success.

if you could be any animal, what would you be?: People in real life often say I am like a rabbit. I think I'd pick that, or some form of bird.

dream place to visit: Japan.

what's one thing you're looking forward to right now?: Starting college.

your biggest dream: Having a secure and stable life with a nice place to live and a steady, decently high income.

song that's permanently on repeat: The way it ends from the Death Note Musical.

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thankz for the tag !!!

hair color : medium brown

fav colors : dark red, dark purple, pink

fav drinks : smoothies and arizona honey & ginseng green tea

one thing I love about myself : I always see the good in people no matter what

what animal would I be? : I LOVE bats I’d probably be a vampire bat or maybe a kitty

dream places to visit : oslo, norway & mexico city!

something I’m looking forward to : my birthday and one year anniversary

my biggest dream : become a successful cinematographer & make movies that people love

song that’s permanently on repeat : gunslinger or unbound by A7X