wannabe wannabe

1.5M ratings
277k ratings

See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

#bones rattling - posts I made or added to

#bones and all - PSAs and other non-political posts/announcements/guides

#bones box - that’s my box for my things 📦

#speak to the skull - asks answered

#skeleton in the closet - draft purge

#skeleton keyboard - computer safety

#into the pillory! - public shaming tag for public figures

#politics / #usa politics

Pinned Post bones rattling bones and all speak to the skull bones box into the pillory! skeleton in the closet usa politics politics pinned
direfang
zxidold

I genuinely think Mouthwashing fandom is a good example on how real life misogyny is very wired on people brains and influenced how they engage with fictional misogyny.

You have a story about a woman being assaulted and telling a man she trusted but being dismissed because he is friends with the attacker, and people fixate on shipping her with either of those men.

You have a story about how men that downplay their male friends violence, assume neutrality is the safer option, unintentionally help create an environment that's unsafe to vulnerable people, at a risk becoming a victim themselves. And people make it about toxic yaoi.

You have a character kill herself because she didn't want birth the child of her abuser. And people make AUs where she happily keep the baby.

Misogyny isn't just "I hate women", it's also downplaying their trauma, defending those who caused it, and reducing them to mothers or wives against their wishes under this idea of what womanhood is about.

I don't think we can separate fandom misogyny from it's real world influence, not yet.

chilewithcarnage

image
mouthwashing tw sa sa tw rape rape misogony