It seems that there is no way to give a name to a tblr table. Because of that, with the tikz library for tblr tables it is impossible to draw things implying other tables than the first that latex finds after the tblrtikzabove environment.
Here I have made two tables with some tikz elements. I want to draw lines from one table to the other. Like in the drawing here:

by the way... if anybody could find the actual rows/columns corner nodes, not the middle segment between them. Since I set a non-null rowsep and colsep, a separation should be seen between the two rectangles.
mwe:
\documentclass[aspectratio=169]{beamer}
\mode<presentation>
\usetheme{metropolis}
\usepackage{tabularray,tikz}
\UseTblrLibrary{booktabs,tikz}
\tikzset{
styleall/.style = {rounded corners=.4ex,thick}
}
\setlength{\parindent}{0pt}
\begin{document}
\begin{frame}{aaa}
\begin{columns}[t]
\begin{column}{.45\textwidth}
\frametitle{beamer}
\textbf{letters}
\begin{tblrtikzabove}
\draw[red,styleall]
(1-1.north west) rectangle (1-4.south east);
\draw[green,styleall]
(2-1.north west) rectangle (2-4.south east);
\end{tblrtikzabove}
\SetTblrInner{rowsep=6pt}
\begin{tblr}{colspec={cccc},rowsep={4pt},colsep={4pt}}
a & e & i & o\\
b & c & d & f\\
\end{tblr}
\end{column}
\begin{column}{.45\textwidth}
\textbf{letters again}
\begin{tblrtikzabove}
\draw[red,styleall]
(1-1.north west) rectangle (1-2.south east);
\draw[green,styleall]
(2-1.north west) rectangle (2-4.south east);
\end{tblrtikzabove}
\begin{tblr}{cccc}
u & y & &\\
g & h & j & k\\
\end{tblr}
\end{column}
\end{columns}
\end{frame}
\end{document}



nameto give the table a name and then usetblr<name>-as prefix in the TikZ code as far as I know. The table node (that is, the node that contains the complete table) has the nametblr<name>-tablewhere<name>is the name you give via thenamekey to thetblrenvironment. (This is at least how it is supposed to be working to my knowledge.)fitlibrary to create nodes in atblrmaking use ofname(see above comment) for each row of this table. Then you should be able to connect these nodes in atikzpicturethat you put after the twotblrenvironments (or maybe in the lasttblrtikzaboveenvironment).\setlength{\parindent}{0pt}in beamer?