✸ 𝔢𝔱𝔢𝔯𝔫𝔞𝔩 𝔟𝔩𝔦𝔰𝔰 ✸

per my last desperate howl at the heavens,

elainealmutairi_

A lot of people will judge their compatibility with someone off things like “do they have hobbies” “are they funny” “are they ambitious” “what music do they like” literally whatever the fuck. But even though someone could check all those boxes, a connection can never be appropriately formed if the answer to “do they make me feel safe” is ambivalent and unclear. Always ask yourself “do I feel safe around this person” when forming both friendships and relationships. Ask if you’re a safe person for them too. How cool a person is can never make up for lack of emotional safety on either end.

Cherry blossoms @ Meguro River, 2026-04-08

I just want a really simple beautiful quiet life. That’s all

via flickr

via flickr

lafindavril

no one is coming to Save you but there are probably people coming to Help you and that rocks. embrace it

"thorned braids" & "spiked braids.

arikitchen on youtube

one of these days I’ll feel fine and wonder what the well I was so worried for