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It is pronounced "Spi-dee Lives" which is short for "Spydie lives here" which was long for "Spydie" which was short for "spydrthrds" which was short for "Spider Threads" which was the name of my sewing company.
I decided I had to lock down the journal around the middle of September, 2005, due to Google's new blog search tool. Please do not take that to mean that I do not wish to have new people reading along. I just need to have a small measure of privacy from the web at large. F-locking posts means they do not go out on the aggregated feeds, which means other sites which collect posts *technically* should not ever see my non-public posts, and thus never index them.
(Lately, when I have posted, it has been more openly. *shrug*)
If you are a friend of mine, you might want to check out my filters page. I try to limit some of my writing to those who actually want to read it. The filters include Sex, Creative Writing, Relationships, limited topics, and limited-run special events.
I am not sure who I am any more. The words and phrases I once used with such authority to define myself are slipping off, one by one, as a snake sheds its skin. Or better, as a young bird loses its feathers, only to grow the showy plumage of an adult.
I just hope I wind up with something I can live with, once this transformation is complete.
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Still looking for me? I don't hide my real name, if you have some insane desire to internet-stalk me. Spydielives and AML have been connected for more than five years now. Anyway, you can visit my professional journal, my business site, my more personal site, or you could buy my book.