it's important to have a lot of cautionary tale blorbos so whenever you think about making bad life decisions yourself you can reminisce about them and go Oh Fuck No

you get it. literally exhibit A

and 2 of my stories just the hell of it

as someone who's thin as fuck because of disability + food intake disorder bullshit and hates it, i hope everyone understands that chasing fatness can be legitimately good for health

#also like as someone who has made the sustained lifestyle changes anon is referring to#literally was not able to do that in a healthy way while chasing thinness#because the goal was not 'eat healthy meals and do exercise' it was 'lose weight'#and the healthy things in that equation are the eating fresh food and doing exercise#so when i started doing those things because i like to eat a vegetable and lift a weight that became actually sustainable#you made a meal and went to the gym. goal accomplished#when i was doing them to lose weight the goal being weight loss meant when that didn't happen i had to try something different#instead of healthy meals i would eat and enjoy it was 'what do i cut out to lose weight'#instead of going to do some exercise i can make a happy part of my routine it was pushing myself past the point of reasonable exertion#even from the lens of making lifestyle changes it is so much better making the changes because they are good things to be at

^^^^^^

chasing thinness is antithetical to caring for your body, even if for some caring for their body leads to that body being thinner.

There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.

This is because everything in my life requires work:

All requires some aspect of work for me.

And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.

If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.

If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.

You're not dysfunctional.

You're not incapable.

You're doing your best.

i like that the maned wolf and the bush dog are each other's closest living relatives. they're like cartoon henchmen

Forgot how much I liked digital painting.

thats a what

fnaf 2 movie got me thinking too hard about the aftonlings 😭😭😭

If you get it you get it

I WONT LIE FOLKS, THIS WHOLE YEAR HAS BEEN AN EXERCIZE IN STOPPING THE BLEEDING. BUT *CROWD LAUGHS* THAT DOES NOT CLOSE THE WOUND *UPROARIOUS LAUGHTER* NO IT DOES NOT.

Stop and smell the roses! (2008)

caine explodes and dies as a gif

"Whose Larva Is This?"

A quick guide to figure out what you're looking at when you find something that resembles a worm or a Zerg unit crawling around.

me when i'm like 9 and shit is just Happening

the funny thing about being femme is that i have never once in my life been approached by a man despite being by all accounts feminine and at least somewhat conventionally attractive. this is a fairly common femme experience from what i know but i find it interesting because that fact alone immediately indicates a separation of femmes' presentation and straight women's presentation that might not be immediately obvious from description alone

and it is hard to articulate in a way that makes sense to non lesbians because when you Talk about the expression of femininity wrt femme lesbians you can't just be like "uhh yeah its like normal femininity but Different." because no ones gonna know what the fuck youre talking about. even if you say its subverting femininity it hardly makes sense to anyone not already familiar with what that means. but from my own experience it feels like im feminine in a poison dart frog kind of way if that makes any sense at all. my femininity is a warning to men rather than an invitation. the way i put effort into my femininity feels distinctly different than the way straight women do and i think a lot of it comes down to obligation vs enjoyment. i feel the happiest with my presentation when i feel kinda like im doing drag. i have more to say but its really not as poetic and nobody needs to know this in the first place lmfao its just on my mind