I have been working with SharePoint for the better part of 15 years. During that time, I almost always installed SharePoint in a domain environment where the Application Server(s) and Database Server(s) were within the same AD domain.
I am increasingly seeing use cases where SharePoint could/should be in a DMZ and simply having SharePoint utilise a SQL server cluster (deployed in a different domain, for example). Therefore, I would like to explore using SQL-based authentication between the SharePoint Application Server(s) and the backend database server(s).
Historically Microsoft's support for that was always grey at best. The "support" was typically limited to a subset of services (e.g. a Content DB). And the wider SharePoint farm (and services) still needed to be deployed within the same domain at the SQL server.
Can you point me to some documentation/article that outlines how to install SharePoint 2019 (or Subscription Edition) where all of SharePoint is authenticating to its SQL backend using SQL Authentication (rather than Windows authentication)?