Kenny Chesney - On the Coast

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We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another.
Then we are frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are.

After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.
We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.

We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, when we are able to go on a nice vacation or when we retire.

The truth is there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when?

Your life will always be filled with challenges.

So, stop waiting . . .

Until your car or home is paid off.
Until you get a new car or home.
Until your kids leave the house.
Until you go back to school.
Until you finish school.
Until you lose 10 lbs.
Until you gain 10 lbs.
Until you get married.
Until you get a divorce.
Until you have kids.
Until you retire.
Until summer..
Until spring.
Until winter.
Until fall.
Until you die.

There is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
So work like you don't need money, love like you've never been hurt, and, dance like no one's watching.

I have struggles in life just like everyone else does .... but I'm not going to wait until life is perfect in order to let myself be happy because life will never be perfect.

I am happy ... and if I should die tomorrow, I'd have no regrets.

READ ME FIRST then....
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Kenny Chesney - On the Coast

For my exhusband and his family to see.

Seeing as my ex can't seem to be a man and speak to the mother of his kids, regarding the kids.

His girlfriend has blocked his daughter from the ONLY method of contact that they had, and blocked me as well.

He lost his job AGAIN.
She lied, saying he owned his own company.

Anyway, just so it's out there for him to read, I am making this public.


This was the email I was trying to send him, but since she controls him, and won't let him deal with his ex wife over their children, which is the ONLY reason I ever try to speak to him, I have to resort to this.

He knows nothing about them. Nice huh?

Anyway,
The Letter:

Well I guess it is safe to say that you lost yet another job.
And it was a lie about owning your own company.

Just so you know, you know you now owe $4,159.92 in back child support.

And just for your records, here's the recorded payment history.

Most Recent Payments
09/12/2006 $ 256.69
08/25/2006 $ 256.69
08/14/2006 $ 256.69
07/28/2006 $ 256.69
07/14/2006 $ 256.69
06/30/2006 $ 256.69

Balance owed on account, including current support still due for this time period, interest charges, and any debt owed to the State of Virginia: $ 4,159.92

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You may dislike me, but those girls count on that money from you, so they can do the things that they are now able to do in their school.
Mik is in a special program that does cost extra each month.
And starting next year she's going into a private school.

So the only one you are hurting is the girls.