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@raining-violetzz

she/her • trans • 17 • writer

Hey guys redoing the pinned post again

Violet - she/they

i’m 17 as of rn. White and South Asian - EST, USA

fandom interests:

rdr2, deltarune (no ch. 5 spoilers!!), stardew valley, jjba (all parts), undertale, hadestown, dimension 20, the owl house

music interests:

talking heads, big thief, adrianne lenker, alex g, noah kahan, fleetwood mac, train breaks down, american football, bon iver, jack ziesemer, kendrick lamar, Tyler, the creator, steve lacy, common

other interests:

CONLANGING!! cartography!! birding, poetry, fiction writing, creative non-fiction, rnb, rap, choral music, making indie rock, political science, geography, geopolitics, language, language-learning, d&d, call of cthulhu

Do the AI people know that the rest of us who never got on the bandwagon are still doing everything the same way we always have

The AI boom has changed literally nothing about my day to day life except I now have to work harder to get access to reliable information, all the important admin work is being done wrong, and I keep getting DMs letting me know the perfectly ordinary and plausible photo I liked was actually a fake image generated by a fascist to generate views and churn out ad money for the purpose of funding their tree-powered puppy-flushing toilet

"But how are you living life WITHOUT Doctor Leroy's Magically Invigorating Nerve Tonic? I can't imagine getting anything done without it!" <- old-timey 1800s guy who has been drinking crank and goat piss daily for the price of a shiny nickel

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

I humbly offer this contribution.

yes I DO live under a rock and her name is the Moon and she is always smiling but she teaches me nothing