Hi ^^;
Well hello there. ^^;
I'm having a little problem voicing to a guy how I feel about him and came here for some help/advice.
The situations a little more complicated than just telling a guy I like him then, so I'll go into the background between us too.
So right, this guy Karl, I meet him about a year and a half ago and my first impression was 'Oh my God... He's hot'. So I chatted to him for a while, then he mentioned he was 27. I was just like 'ok...' seeing as I was only 16/17 at the time.
We kept chatting and flirting though, just on a friendly basis, when one day when he was driving me home, he told me that if i wasn't gonna jump into bed with him, i should stop teasing him, but if i wanted to, then the offer was open.
So after that, we just chatted as mates, no more flirting. Months went past, boyfriends came and left and as time went on i started to think I had really missed out there. Till me and my last boyfriend broke up ((I left him)).
About a after I broke up with this guy, I was talknig to Karl, and just randomly blurted out 'Is that offer still open then?' So a few days later I went round his flat and well yeah ^^;
So things carried on from there, for about another week when he then asked me if it was ok to have different partners. I said yes seeing as I had several other already. Then afew days later he told me he was sleeping with a girl I know. I was a bit shocked, but ok with it, it was just sex between us.
Eventually me, Karl and a load of friends (including his other partner) went on holiday together. Karl was getting pretty upset the first day, and it turned out it was because a guy i really liked was there and Karl was getting jealous. He then admitted he had feelings for me, which was really shocking, i was still neutral at that point.
We've carried on what we've been doing, it's been about 3 months since it all started, and after him addmitting he has feelings mine have been getting stronger and stronger, to the point where i get insanely jealous if i know he's with someone else.
I'm only with karl now, and i'm really unsure about how to tell him about my feelings. He's mentioned over and over again about how he doesn't want a relationship, but to be honest, I think... well i'm damn sure I love him.
But i'm worried abuot tellnig him, I'm scared of loosing what we've already got and ruining our holiday ((we're going to canada together in 7 weeks)).
Anyone got any advice on how to tackle this situation?
I'm having a little problem voicing to a guy how I feel about him and came here for some help/advice.
The situations a little more complicated than just telling a guy I like him then, so I'll go into the background between us too.
So right, this guy Karl, I meet him about a year and a half ago and my first impression was 'Oh my God... He's hot'. So I chatted to him for a while, then he mentioned he was 27. I was just like 'ok...' seeing as I was only 16/17 at the time.
We kept chatting and flirting though, just on a friendly basis, when one day when he was driving me home, he told me that if i wasn't gonna jump into bed with him, i should stop teasing him, but if i wanted to, then the offer was open.
So after that, we just chatted as mates, no more flirting. Months went past, boyfriends came and left and as time went on i started to think I had really missed out there. Till me and my last boyfriend broke up ((I left him)).
About a after I broke up with this guy, I was talknig to Karl, and just randomly blurted out 'Is that offer still open then?' So a few days later I went round his flat and well yeah ^^;
So things carried on from there, for about another week when he then asked me if it was ok to have different partners. I said yes seeing as I had several other already. Then afew days later he told me he was sleeping with a girl I know. I was a bit shocked, but ok with it, it was just sex between us.
Eventually me, Karl and a load of friends (including his other partner) went on holiday together. Karl was getting pretty upset the first day, and it turned out it was because a guy i really liked was there and Karl was getting jealous. He then admitted he had feelings for me, which was really shocking, i was still neutral at that point.
We've carried on what we've been doing, it's been about 3 months since it all started, and after him addmitting he has feelings mine have been getting stronger and stronger, to the point where i get insanely jealous if i know he's with someone else.
I'm only with karl now, and i'm really unsure about how to tell him about my feelings. He's mentioned over and over again about how he doesn't want a relationship, but to be honest, I think... well i'm damn sure I love him.
But i'm worried abuot tellnig him, I'm scared of loosing what we've already got and ruining our holiday ((we're going to canada together in 7 weeks)).
Anyone got any advice on how to tackle this situation?